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first bi experience- curious...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey girls. I'm relatively new to the site, but never had a bi experience but thinking about a mff. Although I'd love to experience a woman going down on me, I don't think I'd be comfortable returning the favour as such and would rather leave that to him!

Is that considered ok, or would that be considered bad manners & frowned upon?!

Can someone give be pointers on etiquette please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're clear that that's what you want before you start it shouldn't be a problem.

I'm sure if whoever you're meeting knows its your first bi expereince they will go out of their way to make sure you're totally comfortable with whatever happens. If you get started and realise its not for you, fair enough.

Basically just communicate what you want. You may end up loving it or deciding its not for you, but you won't know til you try.

x

Babybear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice hun, I'll keep that in mind! Just need to find someone who we both like who is up for joining us now! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a point you are on as a woman and refer to yourself as a single girl but keep using the phrase 'us'.

And yes it is poor form to be all take and no give!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a point you are on as a woman and refer to yourself as a single girl but keep using the phrase 'us'."

Well spotted!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's ok, I am a single girl but a guy I've met on here for fun wants to try a mff (surprise surprise! ) I'd rather have my first experience with a guy I've already played with rather than jumping straight into a mf couple. I get nervous enough with one stranger never mind 2!

Sorry if I've offended or confused anyone, just wanted some advice :S

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's ok, I am a single girl but a guy I've met on here for fun wants to try a mff (surprise surprise! ) I'd rather have my first experience with a guy I've already played with rather than jumping straight into a mf couple. I get nervous enough with one stranger never mind 2!

Sorry if I've offended or confused anyone, just wanted some advice :S "

Oh I bet he does.... do what you are comfortable with, im a timeline that suits you and with who you want.

I would give it very serious consideration, how long have you known the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok, I am a single girl but a guy I've met on here for fun wants to try a mff (surprise surprise! ) I'd rather have my first experience with a guy I've already played with rather than jumping straight into a mf couple. I get nervous enough with one stranger never mind 2!

Sorry if I've offended or confused anyone, just wanted some advice :S "

dont fret - its a natural reaction to read profiles and make assumptions - and we all do it because there are so many false profiles on here of men pretending to be Bi fems etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok, I am a single girl but a guy I've met on here for fun wants to try a mff (surprise surprise! ) I'd rather have my first experience with a guy I've already played with rather than jumping straight into a mf couple. I get nervous enough with one stranger never mind 2!

Sorry if I've offended or confused anyone, just wanted some advice :S "

Not offended but it does make you seem rather fake!

But as someone else said do what you want to do for yourself first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather give than receive with other fems so your scenario would suit me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did do the photo verification but I guess there's ways round it if you wanted!

I've been thinking about it for years, just never been in a situation where I could experiment lol

We've only met a few weeks ago but I've met a few fun guys on here and just looking to test some new boundaries now

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over a year ago

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