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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, I was chatting away to a local girl, about likes and dislikes and we said about meeting up this week, no pressure from me,she was replying to my messages and i wasnt inundating her with messages. sent a message today, how was your first day back at work? And then blocked out of no where? not even a " sorry I have changed my mind!" Rant over, bloody annoting though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to check where you were then. As a sub i mentor had sent me some messages she had been exchanging between her and a dominant guy

I had told her to just get rid as he was clueless and dangerous

but it's not you so it's only.

Don't worry. People just do things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner messaged a woman interested in rape scenario saying he could set this up. She responded with a friend request, which he accepted. He then messaged her again just to say thanks for the friend request and to get in touch. He also said he wouldn't message again unless she replied. Next thing we know her status showed how pissed off she was that some men are "so fucking impatient". Go figure!!

A fake, a picture collector or just an incredibly messed up girl? Who knows, who cares. Her loss

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By *asyfranWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Maybe the status update wasn't directed at you !

Maybe she was inundated with messages from guys who just kept sending them every few hours and then wouldn't stop when she said she wasn't interested !

Maybe she's just having a hard time sorting the wheat from the chaff!

Maybe she'll get back to you when she can.. maybe she really likes you and wants to make sure she sits down and takes the time to properly read your profile and send a nice message!

Maybe its all of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay, I was chatting away to a local girl, about likes and dislikes and we said about meeting up this week, no pressure from me,she was replying to my messages and i wasnt inundating her with messages. sent a message today, how was your first day back at work? And then blocked out of no where? not even a " sorry I have changed my mind!" Rant over, bloody annoting though!"

It happens! Get over it and move on

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

why have u got two threads fo the same thing going maybe she was rite two block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar thing happened to me. A couple added me as a friend I was about to respond to their request then they blocked me. I don't get some people lol!

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By *asyfranWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Maybe they just changed their mind.

From my own experience, if I reply to say thanks but no thanks ( at any stage in the conversation ), 9 times out of 10 I then receive a torrent of abuse.

For a single lady, it's easier and healthier just to block... No apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone join in here

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oh i feel better now thanks for letting me share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Déjà vu anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the status update wasn't directed at you !

Maybe she was inundated with messages from guys who just kept sending them every few hours and then wouldn't stop when she said she wasn't interested !

Maybe she's just having a hard time sorting the wheat from the chaff!

Maybe she'll get back to you when she can.. maybe she really likes you and wants to make sure she sits down and takes the time to properly read your profile and send a nice message!

Maybe its all of the above!"

Then again, maybe not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So confused you posted it twice

It happens specially when you figure out the guys pretending to be girls,once they have slipped up your blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner messaged a woman interested in rape scenario saying he could set this up. She responded with a friend request, which he accepted. He then messaged her again just to say thanks for the friend request and to get in touch. He also said he wouldn't message again unless she replied. Next thing we know her status showed how pissed off she was that some men are "so fucking impatient". Go figure!!

A fake, a picture collector or just an incredibly messed up girl? Who knows, who cares. Her loss "

Bloody lucky escape I say!!!......How much shit could you be letting yourself in for in a 'rape role play' scenario with someone you have never ever met!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens loads!

Changed her mind? Not who she said she was? Recognised you? Chickened out? Has a partner? Whatever really.

It'll happen again try not to let it bother you although yes it's a shitter.

It really just annoys me because it wastes my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wastes your time? How?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I wouldn't appreciate a message like that - she didn't want to be your mate - she was looking to meet you for sex and her private life has nothing to do with you! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't appreciate a message like that - she didn't want to be your mate - she was looking to meet you for sex and her private life has nothing to do with you! Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wastes your time? How?"

If someone unexplainedly blocks you out of the blue having been talking to them and arranging a meet?

Not sure how I have to explain why that would've been a waste of time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats just part and parcel of being on websites like this. You won't appeal to everyone you message and being blocked saves you wasting your time on messaging them again in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just part and parcel of being on websites like this. You won't appeal to everyone you message and being blocked saves you wasting your time on messaging them again in the future."

Which is fine if you say hi then they block you but after an actual convo? Bit annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just part and parcel of being on websites like this. You won't appeal to everyone you message and being blocked saves you wasting your time on messaging them again in the future.

Which is fine if you say hi then they block you but after an actual convo? Bit annoying. "

Something you've said has obviously put them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys view of not being too pushy and sending too many messages may vary to what the female things.

It really irritates me to get messages every day saying 'how are you today'. Eventually I block them as I just can't be arsed with it everyday

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