FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking about a gangbang/party

By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

This is difficult to put into words but here goes.

Lately we've been liking the idea of me (female) being in a gangbang or a sex party of some kind, still only at the "thinking" stage but we really have no idea how this would be arranged (not a dogging type scenario with all randoms), do you got to specialized profiles that cater to it or try to organize one on your own with guys you already now?

We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.

Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".

Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.

Happy fabbing,

J xxx

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By *asher11Man
over a year ago

market harborough

usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing it privately is your best bet, picking men you like is a huge plus, I'm a club event it's more anyone there will feel like they can play.

Filming may find your pool of candidates dwindle lower too.

It's an amazing fantasy, one I've had for a while but sadly I think it will always remain that way for me.

Good luck

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

From discussions I’ve had with people who have organised parties and gangbangs. So second hand information but might help

Agree with Claire above. Private would make most sense especially if filmed.

I would imagine a hotel suite would be best for it. Guys you can trust and rely on would be the ideal. Some however are going to drop out as the fantasy be the reality can be different. Not in terms of how sexy you are but in terms of ability to perform infront of others / ability to do it.

There are profiles here where 2 or more men offer groups which might help a little if the attraction is there.

Few people you trust to check in on you and make sure all ok is needed.

Bring plenty of water, refreshments always good

Hope this happens for you and you have an amazing time

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Reliability is a huge issue.

Many drop out as has been said. Will dm you a contact if you wish.

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up"

Imagine if they all turned up though.

I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Doing it privately is your best bet, picking men you like is a huge plus, I'm a club event it's more anyone there will feel like they can play.

Filming may find your pool of candidates dwindle lower too.

It's an amazing fantasy, one I've had for a while but sadly I think it will always remain that way for me.

Good luck

Aww I hope not babe xx

It is sounding like a lot of effort so far.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Go to a club or clubs and handpick guys, give them your personal card and have them message you if they are interested in a group meet.

At least that way you will have met them for real and are far less likely to have no-shows.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Friends organised this and they went with an already set up group. Sadly they were not happy with the experience as they then had no control of what the men looked like in attendance. With the organiser of the group clearly lying about his age by let’s say ten years.

Than the other quandary. Hand pick the men and not enough turn up for it to be a gangbang.

Shame you can’t travel as you are not far from a decent club via the back roads and they might have a specialist night to attend.

In summary it’s a bloody minefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up

Imagine if they all turned up though.

I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits

Maybe arrange it with another couple, or single woman.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Make sure you have a good selection of biscuits

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I just love to help out gang banging FlirtyAndFun's super sexy lady

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I sure can tell Kamando sure must speek from experience

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By *asher11Man
over a year ago

market harborough

"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up

Imagine if they all turned up though.

I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits

you only find your limit when you exceed it lol

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up

Imagine if they all turned up though.

I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits

you only find your limit when you exceed it lol"

Or worse, it's not my limit & I'm forever chasing "the white rabbit" at least 12 of them

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We are trying to arrange our second one. You’d think we’d learnt the first time so bloody hard to arrange

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"We are trying to arrange our second one. You’d think we’d learnt the first time so bloody hard to arrange "

You must have really enjoyed it though, hope it goes well

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By *aradisefoundMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd arrange it so that you have a person in charge, and he then arranges the details, so vetting , venue, etc that way it takes all the guess work away from you and all you have to do is arrive, get railed and enjoy xxx

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By *ard CharmerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle & Manchester

"We are trying to arrange our second one. You’d think we’d learnt the first time so bloody hard to arrange "

I’m up for that

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By *aradisefoundMan
over a year ago

Northampton

As an edit, get them to vet potential players, and you have final say on all applicants based on your wants and needs.

And be specific as to your hard limits, likes and dislikes

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

I'm someone who has attended many gangbangs and arranged a few myself.

The biggest problem is time wasters, you would think most guys would jump at a chance, but many the thought of group sex where other men see their cock is only a fantasy, only the other weekend at a private meet a guy made the excuse that he'd just broken his leg.

If you can attend a club then you have a better chance of finding genuine ppl who you can organise something with.

If not then if you advertise a private meet I would advise that you only pick guys who have some verifications, and come across as genuine in comms.

Filming can be a no for many, but if you are clear and upfront then you should find volunteers.

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By *icky50Man
over a year ago

Tamworth

It’s no good having limits for a gangbang it’s all in lol

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By *aradisefoundMan
over a year ago

Northampton

So what happens in a scenario where the woman doesn't give consent to a certain act ? Let's say for argument sake bareback, what you've just done there is open every individual up to prosecution for r.a.p.e .

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By *aughty GrandadMan
over a year ago

Northants

"So what happens in a scenario where the woman doesn't give consent to a certain act ? Let's say for argument sake bareback, what you've just done there is open every individual up to prosecution for r.a.p.e ."

Make sure your chaperone ensures all your wants and no's are adhered too. You need someone to run the event. Remember you are definitely in control at all times. Have fun x

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

"It’s no good having limits for a gangbang it’s all in lol "

That's a dumb statement, of course there are limits, nobody wants to force others into situations they're not happy with, usually at a planned event, beforehand likes and dislikes are stated, so everyone knows the score, at spontaneous events then you don't assume you can just do anything you want.

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By *ickAlotAPuzzMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Hey guys. Local too you and have been too many arranged gangbangs and group meets. The main issue as people have already said is reliability.

Obviously you have the pic of the men you want too attend but as already stated if you want 5 guys for a gangbang always invite say 15.

I can 100% assure you 15 won't show up. You will be lucky too get between 5 and 6 reliable genuine blokes too show. I say this from expierence.

I like the idea of it being filmed I think it adds a different dynamic tho and many men might be put off by this. If this is the way you want too go deffo vet and invite more men than you want and set some limits from the off for example no anal? No BB ext and no means no

You will always get the sorry my cars broken or my dogs eaten my hamster sort of excuses on the day.

Take care guys and good luck with the arrangements. Don't forget me if you do arrange one.

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By *en30216Man
over a year ago

york

Omg yes

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By *tuvyMan
over a year ago

bedford

The last gang bang from here I was at we had all met each other before

During the group meet, we had ground rules laid out and we all knew who was into what

The fun happened so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps I'd be interested

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"This is difficult to put into words but here goes.

We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.

Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".

Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.

Happy fabbing,

J xxx"

Just down the road count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to come along sometime, good team player, always interested meeting genuine fun couples for group meets.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

"From discussions I’ve had with people who have organised parties and gangbangs. So second hand information but might help

Agree with Claire above. Private would make most sense especially if filmed.

There are profiles here where 2 or more men offer groups which might help a little if the attraction is there.

Few people you trust to check in on you and make sure all ok is needed.

Bring plenty of water, refreshments always good

Hope this happens for you and you have an amazing time "

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By *andk6Couple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Huge fantasy of ours too! Good luck with your search.

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"This is difficult to put into words but here goes.

We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.

Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".

Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.

Happy fabbing,

J xxx

Just down the road count me in "

I will

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

And me

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

As V likes to watch maybe you already have a built in chaperone for the event itself.

As for organising, I've not done that so can offer little help. The one I went to had 5 or 6 attendees and one left before it started and another two shortly afterwards.

If you pick people that you've already met/like you'll more than likely avoid the no show scenario to a degree.

Oh, and if you need another man to boost the numbers....

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I have a guy I have been with a couple of times who is going to arrange this at a private house between 5 and 8 guys. Think I will need to be carried out. It will be an all bare meet.

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Curvy blonde blue eyed women taking big black cut cock deep down their slutty throats .. perfect to watch

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

"I have a guy I have been with a couple of times who is going to arrange this at a private house between 5 and 8 guys. Think I will need to be carried out. It will be an all bare meet."

sounds like a lot of fun, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reliability is a huge issue.

Many drop out as has been said. Will dm you a contact if you wish. "

That's your biggest problem, too many dreamers who don't turn up.

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