FabSwingers.com forum: Size

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To women does size matter now I know if it’s micro it would do but from some one who has had there ex belittle me about size this is what is mainly stopping me from goikg to clubs.

I’d say I’m average 6 inch and have average girth I reckon. All my pics are of my face not even a naughty one on here.

Would women see my size in a club as a turn off or wouks they still play if all is right wity attraction etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm.. beg to differ on here..

Size isn’t the be all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind touch about size, I am happy to just go with the flow.

I prefer smaller cocks just because they are easier to handle and don't need as much effort to make them comfy!

But if I pulled down some trousers and the cock was only four inches hard or nine inches hard, I would still be happy to play xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To women does size matter now I know if it’s micro it would do but from some one who has had there ex belittle me about size this is what is mainly stopping me from goikg to clubs.

I’d say I’m average 6 inch and have average girth I reckon. All my pics are of my face not even a naughty one on here.

Would women see my size in a club as a turn off or wouks they still play if all is right wity attraction etc "

No not at all. I think your over the average anyway

but being serious for me it’s more about confidence. A man having a huge cock doesn’t guarantee good sex for a women.

Have fun at the clubs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally no, size doesn't bother me, too large is a no go, I like my cervix un bruised!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No size doesn't matter as long as you know how to take care of a woman

I personally don't like having my cervix used as a punch bag

For me girth over size any day xx

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

For me size matters in the aspect of I don't want a big or girthy one. They're uncomfortable for me and hurt. But it is other womens preferences.

6" is more than enough. Dick size isn't something you can change so I'm not gonna shame anyone for their size.

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I'd prefer average or less rather than more if I'm honest. Too big is too much.

I hope all these comments settle your mind a bit OP. I think your Ex knew exactly what to say to cause the biggest damage. Try and move on though.

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

We met a couple a few years back and the male half a massive cock 12in and thick and me being me I was keeping an eye on her and I could see she wasn’t enjoying it at all so I called time on the evening we all sat and chatted the other couple was very understanding about the situation and we left so in our experience bigger is not always better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of refreshing points here....great to see that everyone is not obsessed with monster phalluses. Hope for us average guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. "
So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sizes for me doesn't matter, it's how you use it that counts for me, I've met quite a few guys around your size, sex with them was always amazing, so just enjoy what you've got,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding "

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof.

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

Im the same as you OP

Only had 2 relationships because of it!

But I also get shunned for the other size issue (fat)

I’m a guy with an average to small cock

But because of this I love to tease and pleasure the lady with stroking licking kissing etc.

But as said above guys with massive cocks think that’s all they need to pleasure women, how wrong they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really matters to me but everyone has their own preferences x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Yeah I’ve kind of seen that on here thanks though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof. "
I didn't say everyone, the majority of couples and women are looking for well endowed though.

Look at the profiles. It's just a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof. I didn't say everyone, the majority of couples and women are looking for well endowed though.

Look at the profiles. It's just a fact."

I never said you did. But the op has asked a question and most of the women have said that size isn’t a factor. That’s coming from women not two blokes

I’m not going to go round looking at profiles asking for big cocks lol but if that’s your thing enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof. I didn't say everyone, the majority of couples and women are looking for well endowed though.

Look at the profiles. It's just a fact.

I never said you did. But the op has asked a question and most of the women have said that size isn’t a factor. That’s coming from women not two blokes

I’m not going to go round looking at profiles asking for big cocks lol but if that’s your thing enjoy

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A tiny sample size so far is not a true reflection though.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Definitely not for me, im with the guy for the guy not for the size of his cock.

Im quite easily satisficed so maybe thats why im not bothered about it personally.

Obviously it can feel better but as long as the guy attached to it can do the job, its all ok with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd prefer average or less rather than more if I'm honest. Too big is too much.

I hope all these comments settle your mind a bit OP. I think your Ex knew exactly what to say to cause the biggest damage. Try and move on though. "

Thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof. I didn't say everyone, the majority of couples and women are looking for well endowed though.

Look at the profiles. It's just a fact.

I never said you did. But the op has asked a question and most of the women have said that size isn’t a factor. That’s coming from women not two blokes

I’m not going to go round looking at profiles asking for big cocks lol but if that’s your thing enjoy

A tiny sample size so far is not a true reflection though.

Wouldn’t say all these comments of women are a tiny sample? I haven’t seen a lot of posts asking for that but like I said not something I go out my way to look for..but what I have seen a lot in the forums is a large majority of women don’t like overrun with dick pics it’s how the person comes across in their profile and how well they can use it.

But everyone likes different things on here. That’s what makes it such a interesting site

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Size has never played a part in my enjoyment of playing. Ben is average size and I LOVE having sex with him. All of our meets have been all kinds of sizes and I’ve cum every time.

The guys that I’ve enjoyed the most have probably been fun because of what they do and how they do it. The ones I haven’t enjoyed so much was more down to cleanliness and attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not for me, im with the guy for the guy not for the size of his cock.

Im quite easily satisficed so maybe thats why im not bothered about it personally.

Obviously it can feel better but as long as the guy attached to it can do the job, its all ok with me "

well said...we all love a lady thats easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5/6 inches is average.

Woman aren't a hive mind. We don't have monthly meetings to decide what cocks we will engage with. Some women like big, some like small.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

variety is the spice of life so for me it the guy not his cock ... ill play with what ever is offered and usually with most have lots of fun ..

however its quite ridicules to suggest guys with large cocks dont know how to use them or please a woman ..talk about trying to shame a group of guys

...if a guy is useless in bed then its not down to his cock its down to him in general ... men dont sy women are crap in bed becase they were to loose or tight ??? ...

guys create there own insecurity's when it comes to there cocks just need to read the daily postings on the size subject ..yep always started by a guy ...they think they are not getting meets because of thier dick size?? no guys your not getting meets because of you in general /or effort or other things not because of your cock ...

akot of women want the guy not the cock however there are some women who want big for their own reasons and as a preference thats totally fine and they should not be shamed because of it .. we are all different but most women just want a hot guy (hot to them) and are not bothered about your cock size ...

cock size has zero to do with performance like some like to make you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely would not want anything bigger than 6 inches.

Even more definitely wouldn’t want to be lumped into a generalised category (by men) of assuming because I am a woman I must want a massive one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chatted about this last night, Penny loves 6-7 with a bit of girth but she did say she would have a good go at a 10 incher for curiositys sake, anything under 4 though and she's not bothering with full sex.

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By *icosaurvoMan
over a year ago

Church Crookham

I’d sooner gave a big cock then a little one lol

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"To women does size matter now I know if it’s micro it would do but from some one who has had there ex belittle me about size this is what is mainly stopping me from goikg to clubs.

I’d say I’m average 6 inch and have average girth I reckon. All my pics are of my face not even a naughty one on here.

Would women see my size in a club as a turn off or wouks they still play if all is right wity attraction etc "

For me size matters when it comes to looking at, playing with or wanking. For fucking it's less important. In fact anything much above 8 inches can be uncomfortable and even bigger cocks can be impossible for me to take, which is very frustrating.

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By *arkmandurantMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can be annoying when I can't go balls deep hehe

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

There are only a few conversations I wish could be banned and this is one of them.

Previous numerous posts will also go to show that the majority of women do not want a massive cock, most women won't be able to take them, you can't go balls deep, you can't experience a real deep blow job, you have to be careful not to hurt the woman you're with etc etc.

As said above I like my cervix the way it is, it doesn't need tearing by a monster cock being hammered against it (which seems to be what most men think we want).

These conversations always stem from guys insecurities which makes me really sad to read. I wish we could all just be happy with what we've got, play to our strengths, there is more to a sex life than penetration.

I'm rambling and probs not making sense so in short

No we don't all want huge cocks

It all comes down to what you do with it/what you can do with your hands and mouth etc.

Just enjoy, explore and experiment.

Oh and never assume what a woman wants.. That's dangerous....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are only a few conversations I wish could be banned and this is one of them.

As said above I like my cervix the way it is, it doesn't need tearing by a monster cock being hammered against it (which seems to be what most men think we want).

I'm rambling and probs not making sense so in short

No we don't all want huge cocks

It all comes down to what you do with it/what you can do with your hands and mouth etc.

Just enjoy, explore and experiment.

Oh and never assume what a woman wants.. That's dangerous.... "

Very true! couldn’t agree more.

That’s what didn’t sit right with me what the previous two men were saying and I was trying to explain that is definitely not the case for all women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here it's all about size mostly. You have to be packing.

In clubs not so much as they wouldn't know till you got to playing.

Totally disagree with this statement.

The guys with big cocks usually have little else to offer thinking that’s all they need. So why do most profiles on here ask for hung etc?

And why are the guys who do well usually hung?

Proof is in the pudding

Most of the women on here is saying the same thing so there’s the proof. I didn't say everyone, the majority of couples and women are looking for well endowed though.

Look at the profiles. It's just a fact.

I never said you did. But the op has asked a question and most of the women have said that size isn’t a factor. That’s coming from women not two blokes

I’m not going to go round looking at profiles asking for big cocks lol but if that’s your thing enjoy

A tiny sample size so far is not a true reflection though.

Confirmation bias is truly alive and well.

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By *arkmandurantMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All comes down to preference. I like to feel really close so getting deep is my preference but I don't bang away if it's not welcome or being enjoyed lol assumptions work both ways

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I don't think women are any way as obsessed about cock size as men are.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Can be annoying when I can't go balls deep hehe

Jesus fucking Christ!! Has that thing got a knee in the middle?!!

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I don't think women are any way as obsessed about cock size as men are.

Exactly x I feel so sorry for the guys eho feel like they don't measure up as it massively affects their confidence and can mar what would potentially be a very enjoyable coupling into them being too frightened to even message x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"All comes down to preference. I like to feel really close so getting deep is my preference but I don't bang away if it's not welcome or being enjoyed lol assumptions work both ways "

Very true x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

East Yorkie

I KNEW IT!!!! Thanks for this me and my little soldier are happy now

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I KNEW IT!!!! Thanks for this me and my little soldier are happy now "

Yay! Youre welcome

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