FabSwingers.com forum: One for the ladies - Do you like to see the goods first......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

or leave it to your imagination.

In reverse, I must admit that I do love pics that leave something to the imagination, i.e. dressed sexily in normal settings.

A pic that makes you wonder is a huge turn on...

So ladies are you a fan of all the cock pics on profiles or would rather see something that makes you think 'I wonder.......'

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By *iren4uWoman
over a year ago

jersey channel islands

Seeing the goods first would not persuade me to meet someone , I'd happily meet not ever seeing it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen enough cock pictures thank you!

I don’t like particularly big ones but luckily those that have them always but always mention it on their profile or include it in their username so I’m unlikely to be surprised.

Could end up with a small one but those guys finger and tongue game is usually on point so I’m a happy girl.

Did I mention I’ve seen enough cock pictures?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve seen enough cock pictures thank you!

I don’t like particularly big ones but luckily those that have them always but always mention it on their profile or include it in their username so I’m unlikely to be surprised.

Could end up with a small one but those guys finger and tongue game is usually on point so I’m a happy girl.

Did I mention I’ve seen enough cock pictures?!!!"

hahhahaah nicely put Dora...although still not sure whether you have seen enough cock pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no cock pics pleeeeese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say from a male point of view that the surprise for both is good..

or could be not..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not bothered about seeing the goods 1st if it was a close up pic it would be more off-putting than anything.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm more attracted to a clothed man than unclothed.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

dead right ladies you dont want to see that thing hanging there,,,

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Have zero interest in cock pics, especially close ups. Certainly don't need to see a dozen pictures of a cock from different angles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have zero interest in cock pics, especially close ups. Certainly don't need to see a dozen pictures of a cock from different angles."

There are a lot of those about....often wonder why they do that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, i much prefer what a guy looks like to his manhood lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As part of a collection of face/ body etc pics I don't mind. A pic(s) of 1 on its own does nothing for me.

Some of the wording of first messages I find way more unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As part of a collection of face/ body etc pics I don't mind. A pic(s) of 1 on its own does nothing for me.

Some of the wording of first messages I find way more unpleasant.

Please do tell S....interested to hear what kind of wording used in messages..i find being polite and respectful works best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy mentally undressing people. Your mind can create amazing images xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze me why guys message showing a pic of their cock thinking that is going to make me want to meet them. Don't get me wrong I like a nice cock but its not the first thing I want to see.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I like to be surprised, weather it’s a big one or a small one or just average

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'd rather not see thanks! My attraction to someone isn't based on their dick.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Nope, prefer not to. Show me a pic of you at your smartest and stylish, that’s what will get my attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, prefer not to. Show me a pic of you at your smartest and stylish, that’s what will get my attention"

Exactly that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if people have cock shots on they're profile. I'd I'm clicking on people's pictures here I expect to see them.

It's when the first message is hi with a cock shot. It's lazy imo and they always get deleted. I've never seen a random cock and wanted it. Lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's not a necessity. I actually quite enjoy not getting too hot and heavy and undressed before actually meeting someone. Letting things naturally build.

But, when I'm ovulating, I'm a tad feral. So yep, bring on the cock shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read between the lines guys, all those women want some cock pictures in their boxes (pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read between the lines guys, all those women want some cock pictures in their boxes (pun intended) "

Get sending then

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

As a couple who's main hobby is sucking dick together, we want a cock shot in the first message!

I really don't understand people who say they've seen enough cocks, or that they are all the same. That couldn't be further from the true.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Definitely not a fan of seeing “goods” and I feel like I’m currently also developing a dislike for those who display theirs as profile picture. I’m getting too old for all this stuff

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i will ask if i want to see i have nothing against cock pics on profiles however getting one in the first message tell me all i need to know to say no thanks ..

yes i like to see a cock pic before a meet not because of size but more to see if the foreskin retracts or not i will not play if it dont pull all the way back or tight and red raw

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like to see the gopds first, which will be face and body, possibly including the cock. My last meet hadn't shared and it was a great treat.

Some cocks are less appealing, so it's possible that someone reluctant to share, could perceive his kit as a possible disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple who's main hobby is sucking dick together, we want a cock shot in the first message!

I really don't understand people who say they've seen enough cocks, or that they are all the same. That couldn't be further from the true. "

When tou check your inbox and have 20 new messages all containing cock pics it get a tad boring, looking for somthing more imaginative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the cock pics look like they need to see a doctor

Grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple who's main hobby is sucking dick together, we want a cock shot in the first message!

I really don't understand people who say they've seen enough cocks, or that they are all the same. That couldn't be further from the true.

When tou check your inbox and have 20 new messages all containing cock pics it get a tad boring, looking for somthing more imaginative"

Exactly gets a bit yawn after a while

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"As a couple who's main hobby is sucking dick together, we want a cock shot in the first message!

I really don't understand people who say they've seen enough cocks, or that they are all the same. That couldn't be further from the true.

When tou check your inbox and have 20 new messages all containing cock pics it get a tad boring, looking for somthing more imaginative"

I think it depends what you are seeking on here.

Since we primarily suck cock, I don't care what the person is like or what their body is like if I'd not want to put their cock in my mouth, just order of priorities, and that will massively depends on what you're trying to achieve.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Men are far more interested in posting cock pics than women are in seeing them.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

As the female half... If I'm just looking for something purely sexual, actually I quite like there being a pic either if I go looking for it, or if the owner asks first when we've established I'm interested. But unsolicited ones just make me wonder why? If your brain doesn't interest me your dick sure as hell won't.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Not really, i much prefer what a guy looks like to his manhood lol "

Oh why not? Let's see both!

What if he plops it out and it resembles a knarled old slug that's had the plague?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really, i much prefer what a guy looks like to his manhood lol

Oh why not? Let's see both!

What if he plops it out and it resembles a knarled old slug that's had the plague?"

I dont mind seeing the goods once ive established a chat, i just dont want to see a gazillion pics of a cock on a guys profile or clogging up my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope….. cock pics = instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on the replies I'm quite the odd one out, while I don't like dick pics in first few messages, if we are going to end up meeting then I would like to see "what I'm working with" only because I'm a pervert lol, I'm especially keen if it's a veiny one!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As with the post above, I prefer to see what I'm getting. A surprise could also be a nasty shock, and when it comes to swinging I don't want to play with, suck or fuck a cock that shocks me and which I don't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see them, doesn't have to be right away but I want to know what I'm going to be taking!

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"It never ceases to amaze me why guys message showing a pic of their cock thinking that is going to make me want to meet them. Don't get me wrong I like a nice cock but its not the first thing I want to see."

It's worse when they send a pic of their cock inside another woman and think that is going to make me want them more. I've had a few of those recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see forums about this, I see women saying it doesn't matter or they don't want to see it. However in many profiles and sometimes in status updates they are contradicting themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see first. I'm a size queen

and seeing how big his cock is before we meet really turns me on! Xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"When I see forums about this, I see women saying it doesn't matter or they don't want to see it. However in many profiles and sometimes in status updates they are contradicting themselves. "

That's because not all women are the same.Some will want to see it some couldn't care less,and yes others will contradict themselves a lot on here .None of that is really a shock though.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

It’s good to see the goods as well as some body pics

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

I don’t like being sent cock pics, but I do want to see a if the male half of the couple has a pretty willy or not before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to see first. I'm a size queen

and seeing how big his cock is before we meet really turns me on! Xx"

Love that honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I see forums about this, I see women saying it doesn't matter or they don't want to see it. However in many profiles and sometimes in status updates they are contradicting themselves.

That's because not all women are the same.Some will want to see it some couldn't care less,and yes others will contradict themselves a lot on here .None of that is really a shock though.

Oh, I thought they were all the same.

No seriously though I see women say it doesn't matter and deep down I imagine they are thinking..

'Fuck it better not be small'

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Like face pics

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