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Condom mood killing

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By *actilenorfolkgent OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Does anyone else find getting a condom on in club play kills the moment along with the erection

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

No and if you maybe you should avoid clubs then

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Not at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Practice at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go to a club without them

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope. A good snog with your play partner while you're rolling it on is plenty enough to keep the mood

LvM

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No. Nothing kills my mood in club play more than the lack of condom actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Nothing kills my mood in club play more than the lack of condom actually."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as Syphilis does

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think the thing that kills the mood most for me is hearing excuses for not wearing a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this recently playing with 3 other couples, all had gone amazingly, bodies, hands and mouths everywhere. Turns out none of the other couples had condoms, only us.

Nothing kills the mood more than everybody leaving to go down 2 flights of stairs to a busy bar to queue for condoms, we left the room.

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I kinda like rolling it on while between a ladies open legs, like saying you’re about to get this and seeing them waiting for it

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Does anyone else find getting a condom on in club play kills the moment along with the erection "

Crack a viagra in club is easier option if you struggle maintaining . That will pretty much reduce that problem for you. . Though tbh in any club I have been I see about 30/40 percentage of play going with / without condoms at various times in night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as being told I have an STI by a doctor, or as much as of a mood killer as going for a biopsy because of contracting HPV that could lead to cancer.

No sympathy for me who don't like condoms.

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By *actilenorfolkgent OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Didn't say I don't use condoms, I always do, but putting it on I lose erection

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By *ust-a-GuyMan
over a year ago

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I find quite the opposite, I associate them with the excitement of a new partner.

The stress of an STI is too much for me too.

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

a lot of men use this excuse to try and get a barback session, its a feeble excuse tbh.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine a scabby knob would be more of a mood killer long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should always wrap up..

Unless u r a regular FB..

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Happened last week, we were getting on really well and he was rock hard, I offered and he said he would like to fuck me, by the time he had put it on it had shrivelled to nothing and took some getting hard again.

He wasn't going in uncovered that's for sure.

It killed the mood for him and left me a little dissapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bigger mood killer is having a STI so for me wrapping up is a absoute must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems everyone wants to jump on you just for mentioning it but I understand what you mean.

As someone else said practice at home so that you’re quicker about it and also able to maintain contact, kissing or oral whilst putting one on.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

An std or a baby might really kill the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely no. A simple task that takes next to no time; even when you you put it on the wrong way round, turn it around find its still wrong and then put it back the first way you had it and find it was right first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like to put the comdom on the guy myself. Helped keep the moment going and i knew it was on safety .

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I used to like to put the comdom on the guy myself. Helped keep the moment going and i knew it was on safety ."

Always nice when the lady rolls it on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much less so than a disease and a stinky willy.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

Maybe there is a way you can Still incorporate it into the moment. Like others have said kissing or assistance from the woman. I personally tend to put them on with my mouth. I've found that including it as well as having the anticipation of what you're gonna do.

Maybe try a bit of sexy talk with you and your play partner to keep the mood up for you both. What you want to do to each other etc. I find anything to keep your mind in the game so to speak.

Have you also considered other condom brands, I've found skyns to be preferred by many. Maybe try different brands as well.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

No glove no love

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Funny enough I used to struggle with cobdoms until I was talold to try a bigger one then the issues stopped that being said, due to me and the wife desperately not wanting another baby we have been using condoms until I get the confirmation that my vasectomy worked, I struggle with this as I like the feel of vareback with the wife so I cannot wait to get the green light. But when it comes to swinging the thought of puttin one on means I'm lucky enough to play.

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