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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just had to post on here about my experiences over the past two days. I've actually found the following two occupancies highly amusing.

1. Someone messages me this morning to say the list of demands I had on my profile were excessive and I was punching above my weight with the competition on here and should lower my standards. I thanked him for his feedback but advised I did okay. Would you have guessed the next message I get off him is to say he's willing yo meet me! Anyway I politely declined. This in its self isn't amusing its the fact he's been on the site 6 hours and is offering me advice on how I should be using a site I've been on for three years.

2. A guy contacted me last night for a meet, I had a meet today up, good profile, glowing veris saying hoe laid back & nice he was, sent me a face pic when requested. Great pics, handsome but just not my type. I ageing politely declined his offer and oh my god he went totally off on one. Going on and on that he couldn't believe I rejected him, that he was good looking and how I'd insulted him and saying he wasn't my type like he was something I'd scraped off his shoe. I'm just wondering if saying "thank, great pics but sorry you're not what I'm looking for".Really is insulting and I missed something?

Anyway neither thing has upset me, just made me smile at the madness of this site sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had very similar happen to me too when I had a single female profile!! Muppets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had very similar happen to me too when I had a single female profile!! Muppets."

You just have to laugh and move on, glad bonkers stuff doesn't just happen to me x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a circus and you've met the clowns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had similar messages,you tell them they arnt your type and your the biggest bitch on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of opening up a subject thats been done to death!! Having a polite reply rewarded with abuse is one reason that many people don't reply to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at last you had the decency to reply, they are without question an idiot for responding like that with an overly inflated and overly sensitive ego that you shattered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full of strange folk but yes rather odd tactics to employ when introducing yourself !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a circus and you've met the clowns."

I agree! Clowns.

I am always shocked when I here about this kinda stuff. Its nice to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we very rarley even get replies, but if we do we are allways polite. even if were saying no its nice that someones taken the time to message you in the first place, if someone said no to us though we would never insult them, its their own choice who they meet and everyone should respect that. just because someone is on a swingers site doesnt mean theyl fuck anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was he too handsome for ur tastes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on other end with this and just replied thanks 4 letting us know have fun it's not always about looks u get a funny swingsence lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had to post on here about my experiences over the past two days.

...neither thing has upset me, just made me smile at the madness of this site sometimes.

;-)"

And people wonder why they get blocked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we very rarley even get replies, but if we do we are allways polite. even if were saying no its nice that someones taken the time to message you in the first place, if someone said no to us though we would never insult them, its their own choice who they meet and everyone should respect that. just because someone is on a swingers site doesnt mean theyl fuck anything. "

Having checked your profile (liked your avatar so thought I'd have a peek!) - and have to say good choice of pics and the actual contents not too bad either - the only reason I guess you're not getting replies is that after nearly three years on site you still have no little green tick!

Get that sorted and I'd imagine the replies will come in thick and fast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we rarley meet, its more of a special occasion thing as t is very piccy and were dead busy. we were verified by the site, but yeah no verifications from meets or online yet but hope to change that soon as wanting to get back into things a bit. might make a new profile and start again, need to take new pics too. thanks for the compliments

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

There is no need for someone to be abusive, ultimately we all talk in one way or another and a bad reputation soon spreads.

Moral of the story, "pis* one off, pis* us all off!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just thought it was very amusing, I'm always polite and do try to reply to most messages, but sometime it really dies just open a can of worms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there's the odd few (or should that be few odd?) people around but they do make for good forum threads so its not all bad

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