FabSwingers.com forum: Bi men but don’t kiss

By *s-two-75 OP Couple
over a year ago

In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have penis envy more than anything.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

It’s their preference, but you also can state yours.

If they don’t wanna kiss, don’t meet them!

People can be very odd about things on here so don’t be disheartened.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Also if they’re kissing one part of the couple and not the other, then that’s not great in terms of equal attraction.

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By *s-two-75 OP Couple
over a year ago

"It’s their preference, but you also can state yours.

If they don’t wanna kiss, don’t meet them!

People can be very odd about things on here so don’t be disheartened. "

Oh not disheartening at all, we get quite a few offers that fit the bill.

As said it’s a preference, what’s interesting is at least one of these guys have a fabguys profile which state kissing, must be shy in front of the lady

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By *s-two-75 OP Couple
over a year ago

"Also if they’re kissing one part of the couple and not the other, then that’s not great in terms of equal attraction. "

Exactly our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing the Guy in mmf, find it sensual and erotic, for all involved. Understand some guys are not into it, not an issue though. Happy swinging x

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I’m not into kissing at all but love sucking and being fucked. No idea why but it doesn’t interest or turn me on at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

Hope you don’t get any backlash, you’re entitled to your opinion and your preferences just as others are.

What I would say though is that speaking on a very generalised basis, it seems harder for men to come out as bi than women, particularly on a site such as this were bi men are excluded by many simply for identifying as bi when the play on offer is purely straight.

What I’m trying to get at is that if people are openly staying they are a bi-male here, I would be inclined to believe them as I doubt they would be doing so when it can seem to be more preferable to say they were straight.

Random logic that I’ve probably made a terrible mess of but it makes sense to me

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

To be honest I’ve been playing bi for over 10 years but I’ve never kissed a bloke. But it’s something I’ve become more curious about recently.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Kissing is an essential part of any meet for me, gender doesn't matter x

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

We get a lot of guys who won't kiss Bert/Beth, which is a shame because 2 guys kissing can be very erotic and Bert/Beth loves to kiss

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

I guess it's a matter of personal preference. For me, my seminal bi experiences involved no kissing whatsoever, just lots of oral and rimming. I enjoyed that straight away, but the kissing didn't happen for a long time after that. I don't know why, but I felt it wasn't what other guys wanted as I am a bearded guy and thought that might put off other bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

I Ben would not kiss another man.

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

Also I know that some guys are very happy to kiss a TV/CD but put that girl in male mode and they won’t kiss them … people’s personal preference I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also I know that some guys are very happy to kiss a TV/CD but put that girl in male mode and they won’t kiss them … people’s personal preference I guess "

That is true in my case...as Raven they practically want to snog my face off but if I was in male mode, it's a no...

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By *s-two-75 OP Couple
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses, nice to know we are not the odd ones out who enjoy it all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would call myself bi-curious and wouldn't mind trying going down on a guy, but then I've always known I have fascination with peniseseseses.

I like the feminine form, I think I may like dicks, I don't like the masculine form. I did try d*unkenly kissing a guy once, horrendous experience, stubble etc, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This need to be talked about more. Sexuality is a spectrum not black and white. Personally I have no interest in kissing, penetrating or being penetrated by a man however I want to experiment with mutual masturbation, frotting and I love DVP with a hot couple especially when we communicate and cum together. Am I bi? Or just not bi enough for you?

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

No backlash but it's just another preference doesn't mean they aren't fully bisexuality though I wouldnt of thougbt. I rarely kiss men in bi play but I don't over think why I don't,it either happens or it doesn't.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

Kissing or not is a preference as stated in few posts above. There are few couples (fully straight or bi) here that leave kiss to themself as it’s a bit more intimate thing and they would be happy to engage in other sexual activities.

It doesn’t mean a guy isn’t bisexual.

As for me - I love kiss. Guys and Girls. I tend not to engage with these not into kissing unless it’s a play scenario for anon/blindfold role play

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By *s-two-75 OP Couple
over a year ago

"This need to be talked about more. Sexuality is a spectrum not black and white. Personally I have no interest in kissing, penetrating or being penetrated by a man however I want to experiment with mutual masturbation, frotting and I love DVP with a hot couple especially when we communicate and cum together. Am I bi? Or just not bi enough for you? "

My take on it is - if you are physically attracted to guys, regardless of if you only like oral or more and would play on own then definitely Bi.

If you just play with dick but only in a mmf and that’s it, then bicurious Ior just put up with it to get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they know your 6'7" in high heels or is the precinct roof a little lower where I live

"Also I know that some guys are very happy to kiss a TV/CD but put that girl in male mode and they won’t kiss them … people’s personal preference I guess

That is true in my case...as Raven they practically want to snog my face off but if I was in male mode, it's a no..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on it is - if you are physically attracted to guys, regardless of if you only like oral or more and would play on own then definitely Bi.

If you just play with dick but only in a mmf and that’s it, then bicurious Ior just put up with it to get a shag

What if I want to meet a guy alone to try frotting and mutual masturbation without a woman? Same rules as above.. what am I? It’s difficult to quantify or define, people just need to communicate about their boundaries more I guess.

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

I’ve found a few men that don’t kiss and I hate it as I love kissing. Especially if they’ve just been sucking me. Same goes if a woman has sucked me I wouldn’t think of not kissing her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, kissing is all part of getting to know each other and can set the scene for what's to come.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I kissed a bloke and I liked it.......

It is very erotic and adds to the stimulation....certainly gets me going!!

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By *ang Average guyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Had lots of bi fun but not kissed a guy and I don't really know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in I say

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By *ssexbjjaneTV/TS
over a year ago

Brentwood

I love kissing both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

You'll find comments on other threads where "bi" guys meet a couple but are more interested in the women at the meet. I think it's about being clear about expectations beforehand so that there's no misunderstandings.

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By *rinwin69Man
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

Love kissing girls and guys alike, switching between both is even better!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

They take loads in their holes from a bloke but don't kiss one...clowns ??

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By *ike hock 400Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

Kissing a guy is great , espiecially if the wife / gf is watching ! Lush !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting isn’t it that kissing can be more intimate than sucking a dick.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss...

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual. "

I understand your frustration. However, I suspect it's no different to straight women who would suck a cock, but not kiss.

It doesn't make me doubt they're bi (though plenty of things do!). I think it often just means they haven't done that yet

Personally, I think it's incredible kissing other guys - and it makes Alice go weak at the knees!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.

I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .

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By *ityaloneMan
over a year ago

southeast

"To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash….

Hope you don’t get any backlash, you’re entitled to your opinion and your preferences just as others are.

Random logic that I’ve probably made a terrible mess of but it makes sense to me

Very well said beautiful lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.

I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .

Doesn’t help that a lot of men (in my exp) aren’t good kissers. Too lazy or aggressive.

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'll basically do anything! Kissing included!

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

Some couples profiles state they don't want to kiss between play partners so why would it shock that some men don't want to?

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

All in or not I never judge as its supposed to be fun

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

"It’s their preference, but you also can state yours.

If they don’t wanna kiss, don’t meet them!

People can be very odd about things on here so don’t be disheartened.

Oh not disheartening at all, we get quite a few offers that fit the bill.

As said it’s a preference, what’s interesting is at least one of these guys have a fabguys profile which state kissing, must be shy in front of the lady

and one i understand when me and hubs play bi it was you kissed or you dont play ...cant be having sex with out kissing and that includes bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big difference between first meets and regular fun surely ?

We have all been a bit reserved to start with but on further meets her more confident

That’s my take anyway

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's a strange one, that I've wrestled with myself a little bit.

Mentally, and it makes no sense, somehow my brain thinks its less intimate to touch and suck a guy with my Mrs than I would be to kiss a bloke.

It's totally misplaced, and incorrect, but its just the default setting almost.

It's a barrier I would probably have to make a conscious effort to get past and then it would probably be nothing next time!

Plus it's super hypocritical of me, as I'd never want a meet with a woman that wasn't willing to kiss either. It's mad, and I know it's probably wrong, but it's how I'm wired at the moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a strange one, that I've wrestled with myself a little bit.

Mentally, and it makes no sense, somehow my brain thinks its less intimate to touch and suck a guy with my Mrs than I would be to kiss a bloke.

It's totally misplaced, and incorrect, but its just the default setting almost.

It's a barrier I would probably have to make a conscious effort to get past and then it would probably be nothing next time!

Plus it's super hypocritical of me, as I'd never want a meet with a woman that wasn't willing to kiss either. It's mad, and I know it's probably wrong, but it's how I'm wired at the moment..."

I agree with this, kissing is more intimate for someone you might fancy etc but performing sex acts etc is just sex and fun....... So I've done it but I don't fancy guys but the wife gets horny seeing the sex acts

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Its funny you should say that as I have found couples who are happy for me to lick her out, suck his cock and have them both suck my cock but NO kissing either of them.

Beggars can't be choosers so I go along with their rules but I would prefer to snog while fucking

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

Each to their own and what makes them comfortable. Kissing a guy doesn't really do it for me but what ever floats your boat!

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

been bi since i discovered sex, but very rare that I have kissed a man, a few but dont feel inclined to kiss men most of the time, especialy so if they have hairy or stubbly faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.

Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.

She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.

To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.

**awaits the backlash…."

Love kissing while i stroke him or when hes penetrating me, feeling and hearing his moans as we are kissing knowing iv got him excited x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.

I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .

Doesn’t help that a lot of men (in my exp) aren’t good kissers. Too lazy or aggressive. "

Yeah experienced that before. Had one moron in a couple once actually bite on my tongue

what a weirdo I thought lol

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

Always kiss the male in a mmf if he ok with it

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By *outhboyMan
over a year ago

derry

Love kissing make me so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing essential for me

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By *ymac580Man
over a year ago

Derby

Kissing is so erotic

Love it

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

If there is a attraction kissing adds to the fun.

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Tbh, although I'm bisexual, I don't find men attractive, and I doubt I'd meet a guy on his own. I appreciate that might sound strange?

I just love cock, I'll suck, rim and get penetrated or penetrate, I'll even take cum in my mouth, but please don't expect me to french kiss a guy. Many couples profiles on here state the Woman doesn't kiss, and I fully understand that. It's an intimate act, not a sex act.

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By *llSexMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Oh come on. Kissing is fun.......

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By *ookie21Man
over a year ago

stoke

This is my thoughts also

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By *agusMan
over a year ago

Near by

I love to kiss but I don't like to feel stuble, clean shaven, fresh breath and a little chemistry and I'm more than happy to kiss.

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By *orndog272Man
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

No kissing then no action for me anyway, whether female or male kissing is a MUST??

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