FabSwingers.com forum: 1st time meet with a lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we have never had a meet yet but was wondering how a typical meet pans out looking for my 1st time with another lady while partner watches and joins in if it feels right. so im really nervous and just wondered what was other ladys 1st bi experience like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have never had a meet yet but was wondering how a typical meet pans out looking for my 1st time with another lady while partner watches and joins in if it feels right. so im really nervous and just wondered what was other ladys 1st bi experience like "

My first, and all,subsequent ff meets have been fantastic, though I would never play while the other fems partner watches. Not my thing, spectator sex is not my idea of fun and I am always of the belief that you would be taking one for the team and not your own pleasure.

Just my opinion, but I know many other bi fems who feel the same as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion, but I know many other bi fems who feel the same as me. "

Same here, sorry. It would feel too uncomfortable. I'm a person not a porn film.

OP maybe you could meet a lady on your own? Or a couple and only the ladies swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experiences were one to one with females i think if i had gone straight to couples i would have been put off...

Ive had some rather strange experiences and also been treated quite badly...but ive had some good ones also.

Just make sure she is comfy with your partner watching and he doesnt turn it into an exhibition(a lot do)...anyway good luck and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To mix this up slighlty ...

Same applies to a Bi man meeting a Bi couple (MF) .....ie; in some cases the female prefers to watch the men play as she plays but does not get involved.....

Some dont care (me for one) and its a nice feeling seeing in background the female playing whilst your having fun...

Then if your lucky we can all play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a lot of single ladies and we all play...never left any party on the sidelines. It is how we like it! However we build up to that by going for a night out with them first so it doesn't seem artificial.

Just do what feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was with another bi curious woman . Although she had her partner present too , it was generally agreed the meet was for both girls to have dome fun while we watched and joined in if it felt right .

We don't drink , but they did and after a couple of hours my wife just got up and said , right it's about time I got to taste some pussy , and just went down on her on the living room floor !

As it was her and the other girls first time it was just aswell she had the balls to get things started or we could have been there all night !

Anyway both girls lived it , and we joined in later and had a great time , and two years later still have lots of fun so good luck and enjoy !

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Normally when wife finds a fem she wants to play with ,I will watch to start if she is enjoying herself,I will give some private time, usually get invited after anyway as she like either me or other husband to finish her off,or both depending on how turned on she is

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If it is anything like ours, it will be fingers, tongues and toys everywhere and anywhere! No nerves or hang ups, just great fun for all concerned.

It's important to just do what feels right for you though. Explain to who you are meeting before you meet that it's your first time, and what you want to do. They will either be happy with that or not, and if they are not then find someone who is.

Once you get into the situation you'll most likely be surprised at how natural it all feels, really.

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