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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmmm so sick of fakers. Weve had a few good meets and a few fakers. One i want to tell you about was daft enough to be a single woman who arranged a meet and had to travel for 2+ hours to get here. Yeah yeah i know sounds fake well guess what it is. The silly sod closed the account down the day of the meet. Cold feet perhaps and anyone can change there minds, absolutely so why do i winge? Cos the silly sods have a new account and name and did the same to us again but this time they gave us the the mobile number? The wife went to store the given number and the old faker poped up as already stored.

Some peeps get there kicks in weird ways.. Should be able to name and shame but i wont.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

The usual. Block. Smile. Move on.

Focus on more worthwhile meets.

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Time wasters aint they, Have come across a few aswell. And I feel like telling them what I think about them. But instead I keep cool and just report them for it and block. These people must get kicks out of messing people around. Maybe next time if you have have an idea they messing you around just get rid or ignore them and see what they have to say lol. I'm new to all this still been on here about 3months and had a break. Had 2 meets up to now. Dunno if this advice will even help or not just thought I was write any way thanks

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I would write ***. Sorry my iPhone being gay lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol we do block and move on but this silly sod tried the same thing twice with diff pics and names but the same mobile number.. As usuall i do check for veri but everyone has to start with no verifications right? lol.... ahhhhh well her loss (or his urghhh) prob called jef and lives with his mom. Happy Hunting Feckers x

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn


"lol we do block and move on but this silly sod tried the same thing twice with diff pics and names but the same mobile number.. As usuall i do check for veri but everyone has to start with no verifications right? lol.... ahhhhh well her loss (or his urghhh) prob called jef and lives with his mom. Happy Hunting Feckers x"

Maybe say no meet untill you had a talk on the phone ?? And then I'm sure by tone of the voice you be able to tell if they 100% up for a meet or messing around ?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"lol we do block and move on but this silly sod tried the same thing twice with diff pics and names but the same mobile number.. As usuall i do check for veri but everyone has to start with no verifications right? lol.... ahhhhh well her loss (or his urghhh) prob called jef and lives with his mom. Happy Hunting Feckers x"

We have not had a "failed meet" in four years.

How?

Our selection process includes the ladies speaking on the phone, and usually we wait until after we have met them at one of the local socials.

We treat EVERY approach with a healthy dose of scepticism and wait for them to prove to us that they are genuine before taking the plunge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm so sick of fakers. Weve had a few good meets and a few fakers. One i want to tell you about was daft enough to be a single woman who arranged a meet and had to travel for 2+ hours to get here. Yeah yeah i know sounds fake well guess what it is. The silly sod closed the account down the day of the meet. Cold feet perhaps and anyone can change there minds, absolutely so why do i winge? Cos the silly sods have a new account and name and did the same to us again but this time they gave us the the mobile number? The wife went to store the given number and the old faker poped up as already stored.

Some peeps get there kicks in weird ways.. Should be able to name and shame but i wont."

Trust you have reported it to Admin..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no need to report it because they are gone now. The same person keeps creating new profiles with new pics only simularity is the mobile number which they now turn off. Exact same number as messed us about before lol... They need redirecting to fakeswing.com the place to get your jollies off pretending lol Just hope its not a local idiot thats recognized us and messing with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been accused of being fake and wasting peoples time just because we don't agree to meet them. Bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no need to report it because they are gone now. The same person keeps creating new profiles with new pics only simularity is the mobile number which they now turn off. Exact same number as messed us about before lol... They need redirecting to fakeswing.com the place to get your jollies off pretending lol Just hope its not a local idiot thats recognized us and messing with us"
Next time you spot a profile from the same person, report it. admin can track the IP address.

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

We have had a fair few "suspected" fake profiles message us, but at what point do you report to admin?

We cannot be certain the profiles are fake?

Too easy to verify fake profiles, or rather fakes verifying fakes....

We need some undercover fakes to root out the fake fakes....

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

Just a thought...

Could Admin not just do a search for the MOST blocked profiles.... then investigate/delete. Would be interesting to see the results..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a fair few "suspected" fake profiles message us, but at what point do you report to admin?

We cannot be certain the profiles are fake?

Too easy to verify fake profiles, or rather fakes verifying fakes....

We need some undercover fakes to root out the fake fakes...."

haha i like that one, another one that really gets me is the two profiles thing, whats that all about lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just a thought...

Could Admin not just do a search for the MOST blocked profiles.... then investigate/delete. Would be interesting to see the results.."

There was a dating site some years back and they had a policy that if people were blocked x amount of time they would review the acccount and potentially close it. Not sure how it would work on Fabs but I can see where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought...

Could Admin not just do a search for the MOST blocked profiles.... then investigate/delete. Would be interesting to see the results..There was a dating site some years back and they had a policy that if people were blocked x amount of time they would review the acccount and potentially close it. Not sure how it would work on Fabs but I can see where you are coming from. "

Guess this would be too open to abuse! Nice in theory but what would stop someone setting up multiple profiles and blocking someone out of spite?

I have a simple rule re anyone I suspect as being fake. I ignore them!

Or if I'm very sure - another for the block list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought...

Could Admin not just do a search for the MOST blocked profiles.... then investigate/delete. Would be interesting to see the results..There was a dating site some years back and they had a policy that if people were blocked x amount of time they would review the account and potentially close it. Not sure how it would work on Fabs but I can see where you are coming from. "

Think there are too many variables as to why someone gets blocked on Fabs for this to be workable. The site I was on as a single guy had something similar (profile suspension) but that was strictly single guys and single ladies - no couples involved.

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t


"Just a thought...

Could Admin not just do a search for the MOST blocked profiles.... then investigate/delete. Would be interesting to see the results..There was a dating site some years back and they had a policy that if people were blocked x amount of time they would review the acccount and potentially close it. Not sure how it would work on Fabs but I can see where you are coming from. "

The fakers can get past this by opening another account. We have had a few accounts as we have taken breaks over the years, sometimes to loose people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have also been blocked by people just because we won't meet them!

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

Agree, it is unworkable as it not foolproof...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have also been blocked by people just because we won't meet them!"

We do this. It's not because we have the hump at being knocked back, it's so we don't inadvertently bother that couple again messaging them months latter. Don't let it bother you. It's just people using a site tool in a way that suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm so sick of fakers. Weve had a few good meets and a few fakers. One i want to tell you about was daft enough to be a single woman who arranged a meet and had to travel for 2+ hours to get here. Yeah yeah i know sounds fake well guess what it is. The silly sod closed the account down the day of the meet. Cold feet perhaps and anyone can change there minds, absolutely so why do i winge? Cos the silly sods have a new account and name and did the same to us again but this time they gave us the the mobile number? The wife went to store the given number and the old faker poped up as already stored.

Some peeps get there kicks in weird ways.. Should be able to name and shame but i wont."

What do you expect?:-its a swinging site,they are all the same,what gets me on some we are on folk actually pay to join to be a timewaster!

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