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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always find it strange when people don't want to see the cock of the person that's messaging them.

This is a sex site not a dating one. I certainly want to know what a woman's pussy looks like before I put my mouth near it lol

Maybe just a personal thing and I understand woman probably receive 100+ a day lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

When I'm interested in someone, I might want to see their dick.

If they're whacking it out before their personality, they're not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This usually refers to unsolicited cock pics in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stand alone dick pic isn't appealing, nor does it show it off correctly.

A nude body pic with dick in shot, that's far better.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site, hence the name but I understand that some people think it is a sex site.

I do not (EVER) want to be sent by a dick picture unless I ask for it... as I would not want to be greeted by a dick when going to meet somebody eg in a pub.

I am hoping that one day, more guys understand that - they would be less frustrated on this site if they checked first if the woman wants one

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site, hence the name but I understand that some people think it is a sex site.

I do not (EVER) want to be sent by a dick picture unless I ask for it... as I would not want to be greeted by a dick when going to meet somebody eg in a pub.

I am hoping that one day, more guys understand that - they would be less frustrated on this site if they checked first if the woman wants one "

Couldn't have said it better myself

XX

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full on in your face cock pics are an instant turn off for me especially if it’s attached to a first message….. full body pics are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are chatting with a view to a meet then yes, we want a cock picture, so a couple on somebody's profile is great. Unsolicited ones we wake up to most mornings just get deleted and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to get to know them as a person, I have no interest in seeing people's genitals until we are naked together. Does every woman your interested in send you a pussy pic before you agree to meet OP?

Pxx

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By *assyleigh92Couple
over a year ago

Coventry


"To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site, hence the name but I understand that some people think it is a sex site.

I do not (EVER) want to be sent by a dick picture unless I ask for it... as I would not want to be greeted by a dick when going to meet somebody eg in a pub.

I am hoping that one day, more guys understand that - they would be less frustrated on this site if they checked first if the woman wants one

Couldn't have said it better myself

XX"

Absolutely this

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I get what u mean ,but I don't want cock pics from random men In my inbox .Anyone who attaches their cock in a first message gets bloked .

If I fancy them or might meet them that's different & it's up to each individual what they have on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest block of the day.

It’s like shooting fish in a barrel.

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"This is a sex site not a dating one."

It’s neither, it’s a swingers site, the clue is in the name! And It’s this exact attitude which has brought down and in our opinion practically destroyed the quality of Fabswingers over the years.

Far too many people treat it like a sex site because they don’t have the slightest clue about swinging, the dynamics, the etiquette’s or the mindset, and the vast majority of users (I won’t go into the demographics of such users) just want to treat other users like fuck meat and are in it for their own personal gain.

In part however you can’t singularly blame any one group of users, when the whole business model of the site pretty much relies on selling sex in the name of swinging.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I always find it strange when people don't want to see the cock of the person that's messaging them.

This is a sex site not a dating one. I certainly want to know what a woman's pussy looks like before I put my mouth near it lol

Maybe just a personal thing and I understand woman probably receive 100+ a day lol"

If you were chatting up a lass in a night club, and thought that she might be up for a one night stand, would you expect her to show you her bits before you'd agree to take her somewhere for a shag?

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We thought it was a swinging site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We thought it was a swinging site....

"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to the Mrs for 3 months prior to our first meeting, she says to this day I was different because I used my brain in conversation rather then showing my cock,

In this instance it might have been a good idea

She was horrified at the size!

( will that even fit )

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By *allSmallMan
over a year ago

West London

Have never sent an unsolicited dick pic…

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I want to see brain and personality. To at least like the person I'm fucking.

You do tend to go a bit cock blind on a site like this. And while there are differences between penises, most differences are a secondary or tertiary characteristic when selecting someone I might want to spend time with. (Yes, fucking someone is still spending time with them)

If all I was looking for was a penis, my pink rechargeable variety is less trouble.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I want to see brain and personality. To at least like the person I'm fucking.

You do tend to go a bit cock blind on a site like this. And while there are differences between penises, most differences are a secondary or tertiary characteristic when selecting someone I might want to spend time with. (Yes, fucking someone is still spending time with them)

If all I was looking for was a penis, my pink rechargeable variety is less trouble."

But how about your purple rechargeable?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I want to see brain and personality. To at least like the person I'm fucking.

You do tend to go a bit cock blind on a site like this. And while there are differences between penises, most differences are a secondary or tertiary characteristic when selecting someone I might want to spend time with. (Yes, fucking someone is still spending time with them)

If all I was looking for was a penis, my pink rechargeable variety is less trouble.

But how about your purple rechargeable?"

I don't kiss and tell

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i show more torso picture..

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"When I'm interested in someone, I might want to see their dick.

If they're whacking it out before their personality, they're not for me "

This

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I want to see a cock pic on a profile. But I also would like to see different types of pics.

I want to see the whole package…

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site"

These are our thoughts too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site, hence the name but I understand that some people think it is a sex site.

I do not (EVER) want to be sent by a dick picture unless I ask for it... as I would not want to be greeted by a dick when going to meet somebody eg in a pub.

I am hoping that one day, more guys understand that - they would be less frustrated on this site if they checked first if the woman wants one "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I always find it strange when people don't want to see the cock of the person that's messaging them.

This is a sex site not a dating one. I certainly want to know what a woman's pussy looks like before I put my mouth near it lol

Maybe just a personal thing and I understand woman probably receive 100+ a day lol"
Its not necessarily a sex site its a swinging site and some women like to see a cock but many don't, they like to fancy the person first.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"To me it is not a sex site but a fabulous swinger site, hence the name but I understand that some people think it is a sex site.

I do not (EVER) want to be sent by a dick picture unless I ask for it... as I would not want to be greeted by a dick when going to meet somebody eg in a pub.

I am hoping that one day, more guys understand that - they would be less frustrated on this site if they checked first if the woman wants one "

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Couldn't agree more with this.

Mrs

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Think our status sums up our opinion.

This isn't a sex site per se, as above said its a swingers site and yes I'd eventually like to see what I'm dealing with but if that's all your profile shows then it makes you a bit of a dick full stop. It takes more than a nice cock to get into my knickers.

Wake up and smell the coffee boys!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’d rather see someone’s face than their cock. And I’d never ever send a picture of my crown jewels

I only meet in clubs so it’s a bit different for me. I’d rather meet others face to face and take it from there.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

So, as far as I can see not a single person/ couple have stated they wanted to see an unsolicited cock pic.

Some people on here might want to see one but not full on, in your face or with a first message.

Many have said they are interested in other attributes like personality, intelligence etc.

As somebody stated... wake up, guys and smell the coffee and we would all be happier for it.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I’d rather see someone’s face than their cock. And I’d never ever send a picture of my crown jewels

I only meet in clubs so it’s a bit different for me. I’d rather meet others face to face and take it from there. "
Absolutely agree - I would not dream of sending pictures of my genitals - I would not want to be reduced to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if this is a general misperception of how the penis is seen?

When I hear about people saying how nice or beautiful a penis is , I am genuinely left baffled. I’m sure that there are people who how find them aesthetically pleasing but I’m sorry guys, speaking only for myself, you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all.

I don’t need to see yours, I assume it will do the job for me on the day and for knowledge of it won’t do anything for me whereas how you come across during a chat or an approachable and friendly smile will floor me everytime.

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By *dy635guyMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I think it's partly a case of wanting to know the person, rather than see them defined by their tail, however impressive it may be. That said, I personally like to see a nice tail, especially if it's got a very full bladder the other side of it.

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