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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just why?

I don't get it, especially to people not looking to meet men, so men of fab I'm curious to know why you send them with a 1st message, also what response do you get? Has anyone ever replied wow I want to jump on that?

It's like a cat gifting a mouse, I can see your proud of it but I ain't touching it!

Mrs

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By *nigma321Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn’t dream of sending a dick pic without it being requested. It not very savvy is it

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By *ansduoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I wouldn’t dream of sending a dick pic without it being requested. It not very savvy is it "

He says with a dick for a profile image. Ha ha ha. That post had to be ironic.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"He says with a dick for a profile image. Ha ha ha. That post had to be ironic. "

Actually laughed out loud at that one.

I have never responded positively to a first message containing a dick pic.

(Including if that pic was the profile picture.)

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By *nigma321Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Haha good shout, sorry but the point I was making as that I wouldn't go out of my way to send a message unsolicited. Am I making it worst?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Because it's glorious to behold and sixty percent of time it works every time

LvM

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Because it's glorious to behold and sixty percent of time it works every time

LvM"

I'm pleased you think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get off on it is my theory! If it wasn’t for the internet they’d be walking around in macks flashing random people.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"They get off on it is my theory! If it wasn’t for the internet they’d be walking around in macks flashing random people."

See this is exactly as it comes across to me, I'd never greet anyone with a hi here's my vag.....

Baffles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can’t fathom what goes through the mind of someone who does that without having been explicitly asked.

Like… do you really have such confidence in the power of your cock that you think merely showing it to someone will make them fall to their knees?!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I honestly can’t fathom what goes through the mind of someone who does that without having been explicitly asked.

Like… do you really have such confidence in the power of your cock that you think merely showing it to someone will make them fall to their knees?!"

I actually think they do assume this power, although how many rejections until there's a lesson learned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhibitionism pure and simple.

They get turned on taking and then sending the pic

Then forgotten the moment it's sent

Response is not a consideration

(Nor is how the receiver feels)

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By *orny.lad95Man
over a year ago

North tyneside

I get it in normal walks of life but in this site where naked/revealing pictures is the norm surely it’s as normal as sending a face pic? Imagine being a prude on a swinging site

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I get it in normal walks of life but in this site where naked/revealing pictures is the norm surely it’s as normal as sending a face pic? Imagine being a prude on a swinging site"

Far from prudish not to like a close up cock pic, no issue on someone's profile, don't want it in my inbox, 9 times out of 10 it's a badly taken pulled back as far as possible ming that's far from impressive, as you state it's the norm here then why don't we receive vag pics in the inbox?

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Exhibitionism pure and simple.

They get turned on taking and then sending the pic

Then forgotten the moment it's sent

Response is not a consideration

(Nor is how the receiver feels)"

Now that makes more sense, so it's more them just wanting to show it rather than expecting anything from it you'd say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a very useful filter for us tbh.

Instant block and delete as completely unsuitable for being met in public.

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By *orny.lad95Man
over a year ago

North tyneside

Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message "

No it's not filled with close up vag pics either is it, I think your missing the point totally.

The majority of couples and single women send face pics with a 1st message, I'm yet to have a couple or woman send close up genitals, just as our photos aren't

If you think because fab is a swingers site that I should be happy with a close up cock in my box your mistaken, we all have preferences and for one we don't meet men, why they'd send their cock is beyond me?!

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By *orny.lad95Man
over a year ago

North tyneside


"Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message

No it's not filled with close up vag pics either is it, I think your missing the point totally.

The majority of couples and single women send face pics with a 1st message, I'm yet to have a couple or woman send close up genitals, just as our photos aren't

If you think because fab is a swingers site that I should be happy with a close up cock in my box your mistaken, we all have preferences and for one we don't meet men, why they'd send their cock is beyond me?! "

I’m not saying you have to be happy with it but like most people these days, just because you’re offended it doesn’t mean the world has to change to suit you. Delete move on and get on with your life

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By *orny.lad95Man
over a year ago

North tyneside

Thought my age group was the “snowflake” generation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message

No it's not filled with close up vag pics either is it, I think your missing the point totally.

The majority of couples and single women send face pics with a 1st message, I'm yet to have a couple or woman send close up genitals, just as our photos aren't

If you think because fab is a swingers site that I should be happy with a close up cock in my box your mistaken, we all have preferences and for one we don't meet men, why they'd send their cock is beyond me?!

I’m not saying you have to be happy with it but like most people these days, just because you’re offended it doesn’t mean the world has to change to suit you. Delete move on and get on with your life "

Ok still missing the point, my question is why? Read it properly.

Have I said the world has to change or fab for that matter....no, again I asked why, as you'll notice in the forums the decent gents and many don't like being greeted by a cock

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message "

Bodies.

Not just flaps akimbo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some females do lead with pictures of their bodies first message just because you attract more men? Just look at Hot Pictures it’s hardly filled with fully clothed people smiling. If the site didn’t want it they’d have an option that would mean people couldn’t send pictures on first message

Bodies.

Not just flaps akimbo."

Flaps akimbo!

That used to be the flight deck order coming into Hong Kong airport.

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