FabSwingers.com forum: Unprotected sex, STDs etc etc

By *ughexperience OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Creampie_gangbangs are in the Hot Photos at the moment. I love the idea as a fantasy but in reality, to me, the risk of STDs is way too high.

I’m interested to know people’s opinion on unprotected sex and the risk of all different types of STDs through swinging?

For the record I always used to wear a condom and I didn’t do oral.

Thanks for listening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion (Mr) is that anything unprotected comes with risk. That needs to be balanced out with what can you do to reduce those risks and having done that, are you now happy to take that risk? If not, simples, cover up!

I personally have had the vaccines that I can get, HPV, Mpox, hep a, hep b and I take Prep daily and get tested every 3 months.(Google Prep if you're unsure what it is / does)

Those measures taken, for me personally, mean I'm happy to engage in sexual activity without protection on some occasions.

It's personal choice though, only you can judge your own situation/ sexual needs OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There's always risk. You can mitigate it but obviously we're all at a much higher risk than 100% mongomous people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always play protected, and only have one fluid bonded partner.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I always play protected, and only have one fluid bonded partner. "

But how many fluid bonded partners does he have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything in life is a risk.

We cannot tell others what risk to take or not . Be it cross a busy road or bareback.

I know a lot more play bare than admit. Then again meeting vanilla off dating site prenty non swinger happy play bare. I done both just get tested regularly up to now been lucky

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By *ughexperience OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thanks to all who commented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy and reality .... that old conflict.

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By *ymac580Man
over a year ago

Durham

Nearly all sti' s can be passed on by oral even fingers if contaminated etc

Who wears rubbers or uses dental dams for oral

The one folks panic about is almost impossible to contract via oral

To my mind most important thing is regularly testing and if you go bare consider going on PREP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a subject that will run and run

So each to their own everyone's view are different

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

Always going to be a risk especially with so called straight men who don’t care who they fuck as it’s ‘their treat’ not caring if they pass anything on to partners at home. Yes most are curable in found early enough but not in all cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nearly all sti' s can be passed on by oral even fingers if contaminated etc

Who wears rubbers or uses dental dams for oral

The one folks panic about is almost impossible to contract via oral

To my mind most important thing is regularly testing and if you go bare consider going on PREP

This man has it spot on STI's are not only passed on through bareback. So when you make them wear a condom it doesn't stop you getting a STI.

It only reduces the risk.

Regular STI tests.

STI's can be passed on through a BJ unless you make them wear a condom for that also kissing.

Alost only think STI's are only passed on by bareback your wrong.

Either go to a clinic and ask or look it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about to post a forum thread on this

I always have sex with condoms but never use one for oral sex. What is the chances of getting anything and if so catching what?

What do other people do about this risk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was about to post a forum thread on this

I always have sex with condoms but never use one for oral sex. What is the chances of getting anything and if so catching what?

What do other people do about this risk?

If you do anything with someone who has a STI and you make them wear a condom does not stop you catching it off him/her if you do oral unprotected.

To find out what you can catch and how try google. You should find some answers there or go to a clinic get a test and ask them. They are good people and most clinics are not just for STI's tests. Plus the clinic near us you can order a test online so you dnt even have to go to a clinic. Some people think its dirty if you have to have a test but it isn't. Nobody knows who has what unless you really know that person and what they get unto.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Not Far From Doncaster

You’re just as likely to contract an STI from unprotected oral, and plenty of people do that. It’s just a case of careful selection, testing on the occasions we do allow it, and being up front about it. Nobody is forcing anybody to fuck me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use condoms for sex except a very trusted few, I didn't use to for oral tho. However after a scare recently I will either use protection for oral too (guy wearing condom or not having oral, I aren't keen on receiving so not really something I'll miss).

Be interesting to know how many have had an STI when having protected sex but other things not protected. X

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"I was about to post a forum thread on this

I always have sex with condoms but never use one for oral sex. What is the chances of getting anything and if so catching what?

What do other people do about this risk?

Most likely to catch ghon/ chlam both treated easily currently ….

I just accept the risk , in 14 years have had 2 minor sti both times from a woman .

You can’t remove the risk 100% other than by abstinence unfortunately. Regular testing is the way so if anything shows up it gets handled prompt and can let all involved know. There is no shame with this it’s just part of adult life. People need to treat it accordingly, sometimes accidents happen / people don’t know if they have something. Time windows.

You can try to reduce odds by limiting types of people. Not meeting club swingers / party types etc but in reality it makes not much difference as it only takes one person to be unlucky

There is tools available to stop prevent reduce transmissions people just need to most suitable ones for their life styles

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Pretty much everything has been said above lol but have to say I'm totally shocked the OP says he's never done oral. What is sex without oral?

Personally I and my Ex have always done BB. No better way for me. The only time I did get an std was during the army days back in the late 70's lol during R&R but since then nothing. I have had plenty of bb sex with strangers at the pub and not caught anything. Sounds like meeting off here could be a risk from the sound of it. I always thought most on Swinger sites were getting tested regularly so I would have thought it safer but who knows.

I have had all the Vaccines and always on Prep and get tested every 3 months these days so pretty sure my risk is lowered. How boring is life without some risks.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

This sums it all up nicely;

Syphilis cases reached the highest in any given year since 1948

Gonorrhoea numbers were the highest since annual records began in 1918

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-65810160

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Creampie_gangbangs are in the Hot Photos at the moment. I love the idea as a fantasy but in reality, to me, the risk of STDs is way too high.

I’m interested to know people’s opinion on unprotected sex and the risk of all different types of STDs through swinging?

For the record I always used to wear a condom and I didn’t do oral.

Thanks for listening!"

just because you wear a condom dont make you safe it just makes you safer i assume you kiss and touch with your hands too ? they can transport too ... people will do what they want to do the only real way you can control is either no sex at all or test regular ....its amazing how many think they dont need to test because they used a condom yet they are still exposed to everything a barebacker does too but they've cut there risk abit by wearing a condom

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

"I was about to post a forum thread on this

I always have sex with condoms but never use one for oral sex. What is the chances of getting anything and if so catching what?

What do other people do about this risk?

Same, I have one ltfwb and my partner only, but any other as you say, as above, I test every three months also, but am pretty selective who I play with, but still being of fertile age, condoms are a must for anyone else, my partner and fwb are vasectomised.

I've had a couple of near misses, one popped the other week but straight out and hadn't cum, one slipped off as withdrawing but all contained,now I'm very cautious about letting anyone cum inside me bagged, rather over my boobs.

Let's face it we all like that skin on skin feeling, but it takes long term trust. Maybe I am a bit more cautious as had a ex fwb put me at risk. But as I say it's about being choosy I guess, people forget about oral hygiene and hands and body hygiene, tbf they stand much less chance of getting near me if they don't look after themselves first

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