FabSwingers.com forum: Preferences

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally I like to know more about why some people have some preferences.

I find it interesting.

Others get really angry if you ask and aggressively tell you to 'accept it and move on!'.

Are you interested? Or not?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No I couldn't give a monkeys

as a 53 year old bisexual male, I get the fact that not everyone will like me, want to shag me, want to interact with me...

it is all cool with me.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

nope, couldt care less. how is knowing going to change things?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm not really bothered either tbh, no point questioning what you can't have, just be glad of what you can..

Besides some you can't explain, I don't like guys with hairy chests.. Why?? Erm.. I just don't like hairy chests. Lol x

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

The key to variety in life is diversity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned elsewhere, I know what I like and dislike, in sex as well as in life.

I do not need to justify my likes and dislikes to anyone.

I know I am not everyone's cup of tea, however, I have had my fair share of fun via FAB, so I am happy.

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Why does anyone have to explain themselves to anyone if at the first POC your not suited and either had the "thanks but no thanks" or been ignored , so what , move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone told me they didnt want to meet me because of any reason i dont see how knowing why they dont like me for that reason will help or change anything, i wouldnt dream of asking anyone why.....for everyone who dont want to meet you theres someone who will so why waste anymore time carrying on talking to someone who dont when you can move onto someone who does?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay so the usual slightly aggressive 'I don't have to justify myself' responses.

I'm not saying people should explain themselves, I'm saying I'm curious as to why it is people have some preferences. Psychologically if you will.

And I was curious as to whether others were curious?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Okay so the usual slightly aggressive 'I don't have to justify myself' responses.

I'm not saying people should explain themselves, I'm saying I'm curious as to why it is people have some preferences. Psychologically if you will.

And I was curious as to whether others were curious?"

Didn't notice any aggression when I read through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay so the usual slightly aggressive 'I don't have to justify myself' responses.

I'm not saying people should explain themselves, I'm saying I'm curious as to why it is people have some preferences. Psychologically if you will.

And I was curious as to whether others were curious?

Didn't notice any aggression when I read through. "

Maybe I'm sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is not having to justify myself considered an aggressive response?!

What has my likes and dislikes got to do with anyone except myself?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay so the usual slightly aggressive 'I don't have to justify myself' responses.

I'm not saying people should explain themselves, I'm saying I'm curious as to why it is people have some preferences. Psychologically if you will.

And I was curious as to whether others were curious?"

I think most of my preferences have come about through experiences and being open to them at some time or another...I'm not keen on smokers because I don't like the smell and the way they taste based on the experiences I have had...I don't like the way fake boobs feel based on my experience of them...I'm not fond of big cocks because I haven't found them particularly pleasurable when I've experienced them...I don't really like the way huge genital piercings look and feel a bit lost with what to do with them...facial hair gives me a rash...

I'm not really looking to have my preferences analysed, certainly not on an open forum...they're relatively simple to work out... or challenged by those they exclude...but am still open to experience that may change them...

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