FabSwingers.com forum: Mature full figured women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where are all the curvy 50+ women

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

happy to be in this space ... x Anne

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"happy to be in this space ... x Anne "

Love your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

Hard at work. C.

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By *im n Her 68Couple
over a year ago

Garvagh

Doing some house work ??

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By *elmc1Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fuck me, all you ladies are hot as fuck. Thank you all. Xx

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

In the sunshine

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Fat and 49. Can I squeeze in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fat and 49. Can I squeeze in?"

I'll say you can, love your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fat and 49. Can I squeeze in?"

Course you can, I'll budge up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50,s dad bod here loves the older fuller figured ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite 50 but I'm definitely round!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well over 50, and curvy

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Well over 50, and curvy "
perfection at any age ...wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well over 50, and curvy perfection at any age ...wow "

Thank you

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Well over 50, and curvy perfection at any age ...wow

Thank you

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truly my pleasure x

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By *exhornMan
over a year ago

wexford gorey arklow

"Well over 50, and curvy "
and looking very well on it I may add .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well over 50, and curvy "

Looking great ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well over 50, and curvy and looking very well on it I may add ."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well over 50, and curvy

Looking great ??"

Thank you

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Blonde over 50 fuller figure here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is some very tasty women in this thread I must say

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By *unelle73Woman
over a year ago

oldham

Im here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one here

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're the best, especially with a soft tummy

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

Love these ladies

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Waiving here!! I think my wife fits this profile but you will need to judge that.

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By *ris007Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Come my way

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Why curvy? Aren't all ladies over 50 gorgeous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waiving here!! I think my wife fits this profile but you will need to judge that.

She most certainly does. Love her smile too!

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By *_new_memberMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

All looking gorgeous ladies

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Big up all the 50 + women - you make the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes! Curvy women 50+ definitely get me going! Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello!

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By *assysaz40Man
over a year ago

chorley

The older curvy woman is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello!

Absolutely gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello!

Absolutely gorgeous x"

Thank you

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By *edDevil5Man
over a year ago

NN4

Incredible curves damn

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

New 50s club member here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fifty eight soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did someone call

Wow. What a figure!

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

"Did someone call

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months off 50 and getting curvier by the day…obviously it’s just winter coverage

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

This is a good question

Here is one looking for similar

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By *j2907Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Wow hello you beautiful 50+ women absolutely stunning x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"This is a good question

Here is one looking for similar "

Well as questions go the answers why not if talking couples not just singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner fits nicely into this group and she is horny. I can't get enough of her. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening all 50 and def fuller figure x

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On sofa watching corrie

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

I’m well and truly there and love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mecca bingo

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

49 and fat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"49 and fat lol"

You will do. Pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... Definitely over 50, and way, wayyyy more than a fuller figure. But living life and loving it..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way over 50

Way over curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

53 and just happy with all the extra places to hold onto

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By *amhorniestMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Are the best

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By *EnewbieWoman
over a year ago

Morpeth

Over 50 and definitely not as slim as I used to be but loving my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daisy 53 and so very sexy

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS
over a year ago

kirk hammerton

Wow you ladies look amazing keep it up girlss

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

you look great ladies keep up with the curves,,

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By *augthy couple2Couple
over a year ago

bradford

Check out Mrs Peel for this thread

Available for further admiration locally if you can accom

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By *ackandruinCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are here if you look

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are here if you look

Love your photos x

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By *illieandMacCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There are lots of us here

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Another over 50s here

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By *reggjMan
over a year ago

newport

I need some of these ladies in my life

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By *eachButtonWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Hello from my little space on fab x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another over 50s here

Looking great in your photos x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

At Bingo

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By *panking masterMan
over a year ago

Washington

"Fat and 49. Can I squeeze in?"
lovely figure you tick all the boxes most definitely

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Evening all x

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By *ylvie SucksWoman
over a year ago

Right Up Your Street

"Where are all the curvy 50+ women"

Right here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add another decade on then I can join in

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"Add another decade on then I can join in

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simply stunning you are on my hotlist xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where the milf at

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Add another decade on then I can join in

Your very hot but it’s true where are you all

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m here and I fit the bill x

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I’m here and I fit the bill x"

You certainly do indeed x

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By *orsche40Couple
over a year ago

northwich

Well hello there

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Good morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here....busy looking pretty haha

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

50yr old wife here. Not as curvy as some others on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite 50 but almost, got the curves.

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Not quite 50 but almost, got the curves."

Wow very sexy pics

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Op thanks, loving this post.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Curvy over 60 here.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Fuller figure lady here......

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By *akes coupleCouple
over a year ago

Ambleside

Do I qualify?

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Curvy over 60 here."

Lovely x

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

My wife size 26

Aged 59

Brilliant

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hello ladies just my cup of tea

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Carol is a perfect Mature buxom lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here I am lol

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

"Op thanks, loving this post."
Me too, nothing like looking at gorgeous mature 50+ women to give me a morning stiffy!!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

55 & fat, here. Though somewhat immature

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

"55 & fat, here. Though somewhat immature

Stunning photos

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

Any Cambridgeshire Curvy Girls looking for fun....let me know

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Right here

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

"One here "
Looking good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies your all beautiful

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

"Here I am lol

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Very nice x

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"55 & fat, here. Though somewhat immature

Gorgeous x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Eagerly searching.

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By *ewcambsguyplusMan
over a year ago

Near Huntingdon

"Where are all the curvy 50+ women"

Message me for my Kik D

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely enjoy your mature curvy wife..

stunning..

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most definitely enjoy your mature curvy wife..

stunning.."

Thank you.

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

mmmm yes x

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By *dy635guyMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes, lovely photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s loads on here, like me!

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"Add another decade on then I can join in

Yummy to both of us and snap tothe age front and Preferences mmmmm?

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx"

Beautiful curves

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

Beautiful curves "
Blushing now

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

I'm here.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

Beautiful curves Blushing now

It can’t be the first time you’ve been complimented on your looks. You look amazing!

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By *oxyandFunCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Lots of curves here blush blush….

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

I’m 50 and def full figured

Red

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By *umseekerMan
over a year ago

montrose

Nothing hotter !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing ass

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

Beautiful curves Blushing now

It can’t be the first time you’ve been complimented on your looks. You look amazing! "
It isn't but getting to an age when it might be my last haha xxx

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

Beautiful curves Blushing now

It can’t be the first time you’ve been complimented on your looks. You look amazing! It isn't but getting to an age when it might be my last haha xxx"

You are absolutely stunning

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

50+ and getting more curvy by the day!

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

"50+ and getting more curvy by the day!

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Stunning figure, very jealous. You're obviously like wine that gets better with age xxx

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Nearly 47 and fat, does that count?? X

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

The best that exists

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By *he Naked VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Rock Ferry

Love full bodied women

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"Nearly 47 and fat, does that count?? X"

It counts with me.

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By *adyluck..Woman
over a year ago

Calderdale

Ohhh this is me I feel

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By *ighandhorny_69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I love a curvy women especially a naughty one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy 50,s dad bod loves the curvy mature ladies

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By *evilishDuo69Couple
over a year ago

Nearby

One here (only just!)

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By *amhorniestMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"Over 50 and definitely not as slim as I used to be but loving my confidence

Stunning

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

K fits the bill I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"K fits the bill I think."

yes she does - gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh this is me I feel

Not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning just

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

LADY LUCK oh LADY LUCK

has such a perfect mature curvy body that must be so

much fun to FUCK

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By *orkiepud_69Couple
over a year ago

Scarborough

Hey! Not quite 50 but not far off!

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Morphia is so damn sexy I hope she DM'S me I know chatting with her will be quite enjoyable

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"Morphia is so damn sexy I hope she DM'S me I know chatting with her will be quite enjoyable"
.

Why not just send her a polite message saying hello.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I would not consider _urvytreat to be fat she has all the right stuff and they're all the right proportions in all the right places for all the right reasons the fact that she's in her late forties just makes her hotter the grand finaly at a fireworks desplay

Hope she DM me I'm dying to get to know such a true SexGoddess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First day off and lie in today happy Monday all

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

The fact that Kitty Kat AB

is in 50 & getting curvyer by the day just makes she's getting more & more desirable & more & more irresistible by the day

Hope she DM'S me I'd love for us to mutually respectfully get acquainted

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By *rickhouseCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Female half qualifies as 50, fabulous and very fuckable

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By *aige_TurningTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Hmmm some gorgeous ladies on here

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Kinky James, instead of all these posts hoping women here will DM you, make the effort to send them a polite message saying hello (if filters permit).

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By *umseekerMan
over a year ago

montrose

Every wank fantasy has a 50+ curvy woman in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Female half qualifies as 50, fabulous and very fuckable"

TOTALLY AGREE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is another x

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By *weet cheeksMan
over a year ago

farnham

"K fits the bill I think."
she certainly does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another one here

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you look very hot to me and I'm sure all the men agree

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

Yes please

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Absolutely stunning ladies on here , give yourselves a pat on the back or bum ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well hello there "
another gorgeous body I like the tattoos

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Female half qualifies as 50, fabulous and very fuckable"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 50 and definitely curvy xxx

Beautiful curves Blushing now

"
already fabbed your photos your gorgeous

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Over 50 here, not curvy just average,

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By *idlandsmale2022Man
over a year ago

walsall

Ohhh I'm loving this thread! All you naughty filthy sext matures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 50 here, not curvy just average, "

Perfect

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"Over 50 here, not curvy just average, "
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Might I say, there is nothing average about those stunning pictures.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

"Over 50 here, not curvy just average, "

Never average x

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

You are all very beautiful

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By *unfifersCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm in the right bracket

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Count me on this post just love the curve lady’s beautiful x

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Over 50 here, not curvy just average, "

Ooh, very tasty looking and far from average

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Working

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