FabSwingers.com forum: When did we normalise rimjobs?

By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

Just wondering when rimjobs became the Norm? It seems more common than not these days. I personally put it down to fake taxi vids having a lot to do with it. I’m not complaining I love giving rimjobs but it seems it wasn’t common for straight men to receive them until the last few years? Now, whenever I meet a guy, I just expect to do it and it seems men just expect women and TV’s to lick ass these days haha.

What’s your thoughts? I know it’s probably been more common for men to receive them but I just mean the average man.

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

P.s. I meant it’s probably been more common for women to receive them….

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im an oldie love giving and recieving rimjobs obv all smooth nice and clean,, but maybe more common now ,,

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I'm not an expert on it being more Common now but I love both giving and receiving

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"P.s. I meant it’s probably been more common for women to receive them…."
,,oops

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s not for me, giving or receiving but it is something I get asked prior to a meet these days. But I’m quite vanilla when it comes to my kinky sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume the OP means normalised in the straight world?

Us gay guys do it all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha we have always called it just rimming…rimjob is hilarious !

Even saying it sounds funny

Will rim my husband /vice Versa ,as long as both clean

Won’t rim a stranger haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha we have always called it just rimming…rimjob is hilarious !

Even saying it sounds funny

Will rim my husband /vice Versa ,as long as both clean

Won’t rim a stranger haha "

Danm I was hoping the Mrs would tickle my fartbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started receiving after a relevant episode of Sex in the City... Somewhere 2003-2005ish?

Wasn't something I had done / been remotely interested in. But suddenly boys wanted to, so...

A few years after that I stopped referring to it exclusively as "misdirected effort"...

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I've loved eating a sexy ladies ass since I was 16,so a while now I'd say haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone loves it except me ha. It is really common these days. I remember playing with a couple and the guy was directing, he said "lick her arsehole " and immediate said "do NOT do that " we all found it hilarious

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Definantly got to she with OP porn will have a lot to do with it

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I don’t care it feels fucking amazing and I love giving too. Obviously impeccable hygiene is paramount to enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will lick out each others arseholes but they still won't eat the black bit of the banana

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"People will lick out each others arseholes but they still won't eat the black bit of the banana

That is me! Love the former, but hell would freeze over before I would do the latter!

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

"People will lick out each others arseholes but they still won't eat the black bit of the banana

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Guilty hahahah

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Can’t remember the last time a guy didn’t ask for it, and/or position himself with clear expectations

sadly not all are squeaky clean, grim !! Once seen, can never be unseen. No one like a dangleberry boys!

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By *ilbopMan
over a year ago

mids

I think people are just more honest and open sexually nowadays.

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By *ature male OldhamMan
over a year ago

Royton nr Oldham

I've enjoyed both giving and receiving rimming for over 30 years...certainly not a new thing for this male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed giving but never thought I'd enjoy receiving until it happened and it genuinely felt amazing. Hygiene is of course the most important thing but I'd never expect it to happen unless they say they're into it. I'm all. Sexual exploration is the best exploration after all

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’m Glad this is being discussed

I’ve been wondering the same

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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago

wirral

We love giving each other a rim job feels amazing xxx always clean post shower !

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I think you're right about John and his fake taxi.

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By *artytymemeMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Love it when my fwb gives me a rim job.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I certainly wouldn't say they are more common than not. And although they feel amazing, I don't really like receiving them.

I presume the culprit is porn. I genuinely don't think it would have occurred to me otherwise. But I am glad it did as those who enjoy receiving seem to REALLY enjoy it!

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

It’s something I’ve always been fine with provided hygiene is good but I agree it’s more common than it use to be.

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I would have to disagree slightly with the view of it being ‘normal’ now

Back in Roman times and ancient history sex and sexual pleasures were according to history texts very kinky from Roman orgies, anal and gay sex being a casual evenings entertainment.

It was the rise of religion and specifically Christianity that saw it as ‘sin’ repressing sexual enjoyment for 100s if not 1000s of years.

That’s only really becoming more ‘normal’ in the last few years and it’s okay to enjoy sex, or be kinky, or casual sex, or, or, or etc

Take lesbian sex that fairly recently was a taboo, now most clubs on Friday straight women are exploring and bi women are seen as okay and normal. Yet bi/gay men or just ‘exploring’ are still taboo but becoming more mainstream

Only my opinions

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

Well I love licking ass. Hairy Shaven I don’t care just love licking ass deep and having my face pushed in

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

This thread has surprised me. I didn’t think rimming was normalised. It hasn’t come up between me and my partners at all. Not yet, anyway.

I guess I’ve been missing out. (Maybe it’s just me. I am quite hairy, after all.)

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I've enjoyed giving but never thought I'd enjoy receiving until it happened and it genuinely felt amazing. Hygiene is of course the most important thing but I'd never expect it to happen unless they say they're into it. I'm all. Sexual exploration is the best exploration after all

I couldn't agree more

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By *ennifer_caitTV/TS
over a year ago

York

I've never been given one but I sure hope it happens one day...

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sex is more open than it once was.

Porn is so present in todays society that anal play is more or less commonplace now.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’ve done it to each other for a few years now and it’s definitely more common place. Mrs has rimmed me and a few other women at clubs.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't really think they've been that normalised! Also, the FakeTaxi rimjobs are so poor. All darty tongues and done for the camera.

I'm glad they have though, alternating between wanking a man as I rim him and deepthroating him is one of my favourite pasttimes.

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By *ristol BiteMan
over a year ago

all over

It's become more and more normalised in porn and general media.

You've have stand up comedians and rappers singing about eating ass for ages now. I'd say probably say social media might be the culprit.

I've unfortunately never had to done to me yet although I've done it to a few women...

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Maybe I'm too old, i haven't done it to anybody or had it done to me, nor do I want to.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… alternating between wanking a man as I rim him and deepthroating him is one of my favourite pastimes."

Sweet Jesus, woman. That sounds divinely indulgent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Maybe I'm too old, i haven't done it to anybody or had it done to me, nor do I want to.

Same here. I'd never heard of it until recently

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By *rh_charlesMan
over a year ago

bedfordshire

Nothing like getting a husband to eat my ass while I cum in his wife...It's only polite after all .

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Love giving and receiving xxx

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

I love rim jobs they do seem more common nowadays too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"… alternating between wanking a man as I rim him and deepthroating him is one of my favourite pastimes.

Sweet Jesus, woman. That sounds divinely indulgent."

I'd like to think of it as being exactly in those terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t remember the last time a guy didn’t ask for it, and/or position himself with clear expectations

sadly not all are squeaky clean, grim !! Once seen, can never be unseen. No one like a dangleberry boys!

Regardless of whether you’re expecting to be rimmed or not I think the least anyone can do before a meet is making sure you’re clean and smelling fresh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the word tromboning as an name for this when wanking the guy off at the same time...

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

I love doing it for a man especially if his wife or girlfriend won’t

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