FabSwingers.com forum: MFM help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so some advice from those who have had mfm , this one comes up and goes away a lot

Mostly through Mrs aprehensiones

Is she overthinking it or is it best left alone?

Help needed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you try a facetime or social meet prior?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could you try a facetime or social meet prior?"

Don’t think that’s the issue as such , more how she will feel after the event

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I would think she doesn't really want to

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By *aulHx69xMan
over a year ago

Watford

Maybe suggest a soft swap meet to start off, if she's not comfortable with that leave alone I would say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would think she doesn't really want to"

Think that’s the case , we discussed everything openly

This gets tossed back into the mix from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe suggest a soft swap meet to start off, if she's not comfortable with that leave alone I would say. "

The plan is that anyway, she’s not at all comfortable with being penetrated by another man , same when we play with couples

Soft swap spit roast , sucking

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Ok so some advice from those who have had mfm , this one comes up and goes away a lot

Mostly through Mrs aprehensiones

Is she overthinking it or is it best left alone?

Help needed ! "

As you’ve obviously had some meets with couples I assume that things went fine on those occasions…..

… so I’d say that if she’s apprehensive about having an mfm then it’s because she doesn’t really want to.

You are only looking for soft swap as it is, so possibly the thought of another guy attempting to take things further than that is introducing some fear.

I would suggest a serious discussion about what you both want, and if it is to have another man join you then you should probably take as much time as possible to find the right man for you both

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

"Ok so some advice from those who have had mfm , this one comes up and goes away a lot

Mostly through Mrs aprehensiones

Is she overthinking it or is it best left alone?

Help needed ! "

I think if there's any doubt it's probably best not to go ahead with one. Is there anything in particular Mrs (or you) is worried about?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ok so some advice from those who have had mfm , this one comes up and goes away a lot

Mostly through Mrs aprehensiones

Is she overthinking it or is it best left alone?

Help needed ! "

What do you mean overthinking it? It's natural to have doubts in this situation I needed to talk it through for a very long time to get it straight in my mind. I still need to talk about it all.

If there's any doubt at all, leave it alone.

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By *arkmandurantMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yea couples meets are generally a minefield. Usually its the guys that have the issues tbf. The few I met the girls are well up for it but it's a no go for me now

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

You are never going to know how you are going to feel until it happens.

Sometimes it's best not to over think it and just jump in. Xx

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