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why am i constantley told cuz i rarely play, i am not a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi everyone, i get fed up being told cuz i don,t shag everything that moves i am am not a swinging, my profile says i am straight, and a voyuer and although i have played there[clubs] it is very rare and only with ppl i know ,i don,t judge on sexuality and respect others choices respect mine, i am fat or shud i say politicaly correctness a bbw lol , if i wanted to b skinny i wud keep me fridge door locked, i was born with me tan lol, and being 44ee i am blessed, although my boobs gone east& west and maybe a likkkle south they mine, me i am loud, opinionated ,gsoh ,but i know me faults, the good things about me is , i am a happy fat, bird , mature, come with a naterul tan, not everyone cup of tea, but thats me i do not av to shag everything that moves, to b a swinger ok, i don,t like drugs, unsafe sex and ppl who think they better then others , and i know my friends are true friends, in other words i aint barbie and i don,t do kens, ps i fart aswell and me grammer is terrible , and last but not least i don,t give a flying fart, to my friends huggs , to everyone else hi

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

ello there chuck hope this farting thing isnt a fetish or i hope we never meet you lol.

on a serious note dont feel any pressure to do anything you dont want to do.who decides who a swinger is or isnt?we went 2 years without meeting anyone but we were still swingers just inactive ones lol.although now we meet every week or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banu we love you just the way you are ... you keep us entertained for hours and certainly brighten any night up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know we love you hun, just the way you are, and nobody has the right to dictate how much you should swing to be classed as a swinger, but, I do have to say that at the club on Sunday night you described yourself as ONLY a voyeur and not a swinger, which brought on comments from some (who I have no time for anyway for reasons I will not explain) to ask why you were at a swingers club.

Why you were there is upto you, I know a number of people who go to the club that are not swingers at all and that's thier personal choice, but you are a swinger, just like us, you choose your partners selectively and play when you want to, if thats once in 6 months so be it, if it is every night so be it.

What I am trying to say is, you are a swinger and should'nt describe yourself otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this question was touched upon in another thread.

To me a 'swinger' is just a made up label without any real meaning or definition and when you wipe away all these labels you simply have people who are looking to meet people for sex, it's a simple as that! I have seen postings saying 'non swingers' should not be on this site and should instead go to a sex site and it's this elitism that really annoys me. I mean isn't this a sex site?

At the end of the day it's best to ignore these people because who really cares what they think. Continue doing what makes you happy and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the line you do whats right for you

We all have our own way of doing things

The opinonated people of this world should understand that not everyone wants to be like them and some of us have a life that we are happy to lead

All people are different thank god what a boring world this would be if not

Take this site for instance

Some smoke some dont

some are into pain some arnt

Some bareback others would not consider it

some are large some are slim

Etc Etc

Why the hell some people even feel that they need to make snide comments about others must need something to do

As for the op go girl you only get one chance at life and you should do what you want to do and let the saddos get on with it xx

Craig x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think this question was touched upon in another thread.

To me a 'swinger' is just a made up label without any real meaning or definition and when you wipe away all these labels you simply have people who are looking to meet people for sex, it's a simple as that! I have seen postings saying 'non swingers' should not be on this site and should instead go to a sex site and it's this elitism that really annoys me. I mean isn't this a sex site?

At the end of the day it's best to ignore these people because who really cares what they think. Continue doing what makes you happy and have fun. "

Totally agree with you, this is a sex site, which seems to cater for lots of different preferences.

To the OP , until the site owners deem that only swinging couples who use clubs/go to socials, or meet every week are the only people allowed onto it, then I should imagine everyone is welcome.

Do what whatever makes it fun for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is just a name, so what does it matter what they call you? You are having the fun you want to in life,, your way, and that is all that counts!

I dont personally call myself a swinger because I am a single. Other people may say I am, others may agree I'm not. None of that makes any difference to what I do. In the words of Catherine Tate.... I'm just not bovvered!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you i do anyway but its a shame whats happened to the swinger scene, i myself never knew about it ,but b4 i got into looked it up and checked with friends about it , i personaly found it to b the safest place for me as a single women , but it seems ppl just google it and av no idea wot the scene is about, ty for yr comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for yr reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you jed huggs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for yr reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can vouch for the fact she does fart lol

i dont shag anyone who moves either, so we can be none swingers together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can vouch for the fact she does fart lol

i dont shag anyone who moves either, so we can be none swingers together lol"

My god, you're into necrophillia.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i aint lol,mind u i av been known to knock a few out lol if that counts ha ha

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