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By *mileyB OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northwood

I'm a little niaive with regard to things beyond the 'norm' and have been experimenting and pushing boundaries already but my imagination only goes so far .... Even mine!

I know there's always porn but it's so unlike real life and I'd rather have your tried and tested methods and advice.

Give me some ideas to try .... Soft intro to a bit of BDSM for me to try on a male fb.

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if you are into some soft entry, you could always start with the basics:

Tie him up to the bed, blindfold him. Sit on his face, let him lick your pussy real nice.

Use candle wax on his body while steaming, get him get all hot up, and then rub a cold ice cube on his nipples and body. Put it in your mouth afterwards and french kiss him with it :D

Well, it can hardly be called S&M, but its a nice gentle intro into it :D

If not, you can always suggest to nail his ball into a wooden plank, has I've seen on an S&M documentary :D

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tie just his wrists to bed knobs and blindfold him, tease his nipples with a vibrator, ice is good, let him feel a cat o nine tails trailing across his body....nothing too definite just so paychologially he doesn't know what will happen next. Tell him he needs a password if it gets too much for him. Don't tell him he won't need it.

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By *mileyB OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northwood

Good ideas, I like, thankyou, we have done blindfolding and tying up and teasing and yes, not letting him know what will happen next, a lot of cock, ball and arse teasing and rimming and fingering and a little prostate massage, spanking and soothing. I 'll try these ideas too thankyou.

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By *mileyB OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northwood

Except the nailing balls to the plank .... A little too oochy LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely in agreement with blindfolding and teasing with different sensations - candle wax, feathers, ice cubes. It's good fun just exploring how his body responds to different things then expanding on those that give the desired effect! Check out your kitchen too-pizza cutter (as long as it's very blunt) rolled across your tummy, cling film for wrapping, cold/iced water to pour too.

Orgasm denial is another fun one-restrain him then bring him to the edge then just before he cums, stop him in his tracks by either just stopping or giving him a light slap/pinch.

crystal x

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Well, if you are into some soft entry, you could always start with the basics:

Tie him up to the bed, blindfold him. Sit on his face, let him lick your pussy real nice.

Use candle wax on his body while steaming, get him get all hot up, and then rub a cold ice cube on his nipples and body. Put it in your mouth afterwards and french kiss him with it :D

Well, it can hardly be called S&M, but its a nice gentle intro into it :D

If not, you can always suggest to nail his ball into a wooden plank, has I've seen on an S&M documentary :D"

so it is you who has the cam set up in my bedroom...

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