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Sleeping overnight with a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you get on well and they ask you to sleep over. Do you or is that too personal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest, there's no intentions of actually sleeping is there

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

we have always done overnight

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

It's one of the questions we get out of the way before we meet.

We prefer to stay overnight whenever we meet at a neutral location so we ask what the other party's intention is.

Clarify but we have met some guys that want to go relatively quickly (probably in a relationship), whilst others prefer to stay, as we have a submissive relationship.

No right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a no.

I may got to sleep a booful laydee, but I wake up looking like an Iggy Pop tribute act!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Done this in the past more than once. Great fun having sleepy morning sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3e have a guy that maxine sees regulary..usually on a saturday evening, he stays untill sunday morning

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

I would probably stay over, if asked. I enjoy genuine intimacy with a partner and I think just the fact that she trusts me enough to even ask would be hot x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I struggle sleeping in a bed with someone. Even when a guy I knew fairly well stayed over a couple of times, I asked him to sleep in the spare room when we were done with the fun!!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"So you get on well and they ask you to sleep over. Do you or is that too personal? "

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends . On a first meet very unlikely.

After that I like a guy who can repeat so wouldn't be adverse to it. Who doesn't love middle of the night and morning sex?

However sometimes I do just want my own bed and my own space and for many reasons I've preferred not to sleepover

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve done it three times. The first two were a little awkward. He was a night owl so only came to bed in the early morning. Third time was more intimate. Cuddles and sex. Feels quite personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't stay overnight as my partner is at home and he doesn't stay overnight either. Just something we as a couple we aren't comfortable with

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

For me it all depends on the comfort of the other person. Sleeping next to someone after having fun is rather lovely if the other person feels the same way. Waking up in the night to ‘play’ again is always fun and morning sex has always been one of my favourite things.

It’s intimate however so totally understand someone’s reticence on a first meet and often times if they’re part of a couple there are rules, boundaries etc that have to be respected.

So not opposed to it. Can be lots of fun with the right person. Judgement call based on ‘feels’

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Download

Did it once NEVER again …..

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Download

Tho, never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's a no.

I may got to sleep a booful laydee, but I wake up looking like an Iggy Pop tribute act!"

This made me chuckle

Does anyone look picture perfect in the mornings? Especially if it’s been an interesting night!

And there’s worse people to look like than Iggy Pop, tribute or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we meet from our couples profile we often have overnighters but that’s because it lasts until the early hours, if not longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose if everyone is in agreement & everyone has clicked then why not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not usually the first time of meeting but it has happened x

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I'm doing it now

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"So you get on well and they ask you to sleep over. Do you or is that too personal? "

I love staying over night if I am able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing it now "

Brilliant comment! Has he been woken by the sound of you tapping the keys? Hope so for your sake……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staying over night is a no. I don't do it in the singles profile. We don't in my couples one either.

There is a preference for own space and own bed

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Its good manners to offer an overnight sleepover that way the fun doesn't need to feel rushed also to just have fun and then go feels like a wham bam thank you maam

Thats not for me I like to know their mindset and energy over a drink and chat and each time can only get better

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Mostly stay the night

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I have been a seeing a hot wife couple for a few years now. I always spend the night at their home.

Plus, we can enjoy ourselves, as much as we like, evening, night and morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on occasion but don't make it a regular thing. There's only one person I've been comfortable enough to stay around his place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it but would stay if get invited in one bed with women only. Love kisses, cuddles no rushing anywhere. Might offer ever breakfast in bed serving naked. As well as morning sex before leaving.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

No for me

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"So you get on well and they ask you to sleep over. Do you or is that too personal? "

Done a few sleepovers. Prefer it to be honest but usually knackered by the end of it

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

Depends on the situation, but have done previously and might again.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't stay over ,I prefer to go home afterwards.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

lancs

I have done in the past

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. Quite often I do. But... I'm also learning that it's quite hot to not if that makes sense? Go home after hours of kissing and then see what happens later.

I quite like waking up next to someone but it's not something I do straight away. For one, my bedhair troll impersonation will wither even the strongest morning glory.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

I've done it many times as I've been lucky enough to meet nice ladies. It's always fun

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