FabSwingers.com forum: Who am I talking to ?

By *xxLandNxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

As a couple not sure how to take this question when asked during messages. A few times when answered it’s the male half they stop responding. Would have thought if you’re messaging a couple you would be be willing to converse with either or both. It’s not something we’ve ever thought to ask a couple.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah always gets us too, what should it matter when talking to a couple.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I never ask, I just assume it's the male half of the couple talking to me.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's practically a nailed on guarantee that when this happens, it's just a bloke either pretending to be a couple or said Mrs isn't active on fab or even real....and all they're after is horny chat with the lady half

It's happened plenty of times to us

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

Of course it matters. Always nice to know who one is talking to. You're not one person. Alters the flavour. To stop chatting if it's the one you don't fancy so much - now that's wrong. But knowledge is nice.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

95 percent of conversations I've had on here with couples have been with the female half and that has been fairly obvious.

The few times I've had to ask who I'm speaking to is when it's like trying to get blood from a stone conversation wise with their monosyllabic messages.

Bearing in mind I haven't sent an introductory message in 3 years so these are all very well verified couples who contact me and then often expect me to carry the conversation.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I think it's reasonable to ask. After all, when you are talking to someone, it's nice to know which someone that is!!

Gbat

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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"As a couple not sure how to take this question when asked during messages. A few times when answered it’s the male half they stop responding. Would have thought if you’re messaging a couple you would be be willing to converse with either or both. It’s not something we’ve ever thought

to ask a couple.

Gets us every time ! Had a couple today thought it was angel I told them it was Tom GHOST !! I think they are the male wanting fun on own or not a real couple account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, after 2 or 3 exchanges you can usually tell

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
over a year ago

RCT/South Wales

Just from my perspective I've spoken to some "couples" and suddenly it's "oh she's asleep" or "Mrs would prefer us to meet alone first" or they just mess up and say I instead of us and I'm thinking, hmm this is just a dude not a couple.

I prefer meeting in clubs now so I know who I'm talking to x

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By *xxLandNxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I (N) work away from home a lot. I happy to engage in conversation if we’re not together or move to chat to a platform where we can both respond.but wouldn’t go arranging meets or go into inappropriate chat without L being involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr W&W does most of the intial chatting , but he always tell who we are interested in its him.

Im more a face to face person as messages dont show thw real personality of a person much prefer a social

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
over a year ago

RCT/South Wales

Sorry, I should've said it's either guys posing as a couple or a couple where it's made out I'm chatting to the lady then I realise it's the guy, that ticks me off. Best thing is ending messages with an initial so I know who is replying. Didn't mean any disrespect to you guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take it that it’s always the fella I'm talking to.. treat both equally..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When messaging from our joint profile we always sign off with an initial so the recipient knows who they’re talking to.

I’d expect the same, although as others have said, it’s usually easy to tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been brave enough to reach out to a couple

But I would ask who I’m talking to….more for names sake than sex of the person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just from my perspective I've spoken to some "couples" and suddenly it's "oh she's asleep" or "Mrs would prefer us to meet alone first" or they just mess up and say I instead of us and I'm thinking, hmm this is just a dude not a couple.

I prefer meeting in clubs now so I know who I'm talking to x

And this is why some will ask who they're talking to, as there are a fair few fake couples profiles on here.

Also, it can be helpful knowing which half of the couple you're conversing with depending on the dynamics of the conversation and what you're talking about

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We always say straight away that it tends to mostly Mr Brum chatting. Explain that while we both read the messages, Mr Brum is quicker at replying.

We never ask, you can normally tell if it is the make or female messaging.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We both chat but always sign of who has sent the message.

We do tend to ignore those messages only aimed at one of us though

Beard

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For the purposes of fab we see ourselves as one unit. If someone is going to change the way they talk depending on which one of us they think is reading it tells us all we need to know. Same with the forum, it is always me but why is that important?

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We tend to be more often in the situation where a lot of people assume it’s Mrs they are chatting to and depending on the time of day/night it may be Mr. If it’s people we have met or have been chatting to we will straight up say who’s chatting. Also our typing styles although not totally different have enough differences to show who is chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always me, the F of the couple, who is chatting and this is the first thing that it says on our profile. Mr can’t be doing with the high volume of ‘questionable’ messages that we receive. I have more patience and a great fake profile radar.

I never ask who I’m talking to. It usually ‘feels’ quite clear anyway. If I’m talking to a couple it makes no difference who it is but from time to time when it is the lady of the other couple it’s really nice to have a girlie chat about the lifestyle instead of the usual!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Totally agree 95% of single males freak out when they eventually ask who is typing and beard replies that it's him just to see there reaction we believe that our profile is 50/50 with regards to messages and responses and if males don't like beard replying then we would rather just block them anyway

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