FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie couple going to cupids

By *irandmiss OP Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Hi all. We are lookong at going to cupids this weekend. Neither of us have been to club before and just wanted to get a vibe of what to expect and peoples experiences. All thoughts and comments welcome

By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

You’ll have a great time.

Make sure that you are clear with each other on your boundaries. Decide whether you wish to play separately or together. Most clubs have a number of single guys looking for some action. Often these are called meerkats due to the observation of the action and their inability to initiate conversation and advice is to be assertive and decide what you’re looking for before you go. We had a really uncomfortable couple interaction in a Spanish club when the Irish couple we were playing with were on completely different levels of expectation. It’s very uncomfortable when the mail of a couple’s balls deep inside another man’s partner, and that man is uncomfortable/unhappy with the situation.

By *irandmiss OP Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Thanks for this. Yes boundaries are important. Think we just want to check the place out and maybe play with each other first.

By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

We never go to a club or a party for that matter with the expectation that we will definitely play with anybody else. We always have each other to play with. We will always look to initiate fun together and play with others when it’s appropriate, and we have clear and agreed boundaries.

By *irandmiss OP Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"We never go to a club or a party for that matter with the expectation that we will definitely play with anybody else. We always have each other to play with. We will always look to initiate fun together and play with others when it’s appropriate, and we have clear and agreed boundaries. "

That's fair enough. We have never played outisde of each other while been together so its a bit daunting.

By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

The first time is always going to be a little nerve wracking. That’s why you need to have agreed clear boundaries from the get go. We had that and overtime those boundaries have evolved and become less rigid, but you need to have a good clear understanding between you as the start.