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Number 1 rule joining a couple

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

I think you always respect a couples wishes if you join them, anyone had bad experiences when they haven’t?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We think it's equally important that the couple respect the wishes of whoever joins them.

Our worst experience was with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I met a couple it ended with the police at my door at 3am doing a welfare check, I steer clear these days

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Last time I met a couple it ended with the police at my door at 3am doing a welfare check, I steer clear these days "

Jesus Christ

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Good to chat before hand to understand expectations and limitations. Communication is key. Have always had amazing mfm meets with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you always respect a couples wishes if you join them, anyone had bad experiences when they haven’t?"

Definitely a two way street

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"I think you always respect a couples wishes if you join them, anyone had bad experiences when they haven’t?

Definitely a two way street "

100% or don’t do it

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

Respect is universal and communication is key to this, everyone involved has to feel like a person and enjoying the experience

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By *otlWelshCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Where the male who joined us decided to start playing Alpha and making R feel uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where the male who joined us decided to start playing Alpha and making R feel uncomfortable. "

What did you do / say?

Did you end the meet?

KJ

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think everyone should respect each others wishes.Just because you meet a couple it does not mean what they want is more important than what the person joining them want to happen. Singles are not there just to be a couples plaything and for their fantasies alone. Respect should work for everyone involved.

The last couple I met they started to push me to do things I didn't want to do the second time we met and acted like I was being spoiling their fun when I stood my ground and said no despite feeling extremely pressured to do what they wanted.It was a horrible experience and it made me decide to never meet couples alone again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think respecting boundaries and everyone’s wants is a very basic requirement for any meet to work.

Mr

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a threesome or moresome but I removed the looking for couples part from my profile because of the amount of messages I got with ridiculous instructions from couples I'd never spoken to before.

I don't agree for one second that the couples wishes come first.

I'm nobody's doormat and if they are so entitled and demanding in their introductory message they will more than likely be exactly the same in person.

If it's not mutual fun for everyone involved and all parties there as equals it won't be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no, regardless of who is saying it!

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