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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i thought it would be fun to see what your kink is and while here ask if any ladies actually enjoy

anal, fisting, object insertion, DP and foot play

theres nothing better than watching a pussy stretch over my hand and making her squirt or cumming on her feet.

dont be shy ladies

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You won't find many shy ladies on here. None of those kinks appeal to me though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You won't find many shy ladies on here. None of those kinks appeal to me though."

What do you like hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fisting and watersports, love em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"actually enjoy"? So you think those do it just do it to keep their men happy?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


""actually enjoy"? So you think those do it just do it to keep their men happy?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love everything me

Will say tho im not really into fisting, just the thought of having a hand up my muff makes me cringe, ok so i lied i suppose that means i dont love everything lol

I love foot play, water sports, candle wax etc, thing is i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""actually enjoy"? So you think those do it just do it to keep their men happy?

"

Perish the thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounding........ Big turn on feeding a sound down the japs eye.ummm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest"

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand."

i mean what could be more normal that pissing one someone

Kinky my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand."

I've said that many a time in relation to people's profiles. Many people seem to use the word kinky to try and make them sounds more exciting than they actually are but are unable to expand on it.

Much like NN, I'm not sure exactly what I would class as kinky, while they might not all be my thing I certainly wouldn't class anything on the OP's list as kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

i mean what could be more normal that pissing one someone

Kinky my arse "

On someone? That's just wrong... It's either in the mouth or not at all!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"You won't find many shy ladies on here. None of those kinks appeal to me though.

What do you like hun "

It entirely depends on mood, who I'm with, scenario etc. If a guy is prepared to go with the flow, is open to try most things that's a big turn on for me, what follows could be any one of a number of things a favourite of mine is being dressed in a corset on my knees giving a long slow blow job but I wouldn't define that as a kink, some people might think the leather paddle and restraints we keep in our bedside cabinet are though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

i mean what could be more normal that pissing one someone

Kinky my arse "

I actually see it as normal and perfectly acceptable too. I don't think there's much that I've tried that I wouldn't do again and plenty still left on my list.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

I've said that many a time in relation to people's profiles. Many people seem to use the word kinky to try and make them sounds more exciting than they actually are but are unable to expand on it.

Much like NN, I'm not sure exactly what I would class as kinky, while they might not all be my thing I certainly wouldn't class anything on the OP's list as kinky."

what a suprise! that u guys disagree again shocker!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The word kinky is just shorthand for slightly outside of what is considered by quite straight laced people to be normal, I think we all know what the op means.....just as we all know the answers he's after

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

i mean what could be more normal that pissing one someone

Kinky my arse

On someone? That's just wrong... It's either in the mouth or not at all!"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal"

Oh that'll do I suppose

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal"

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand."

Not necessarily .... I don't consider what I like to be kinky because for me it's normal, but what another does that I wouldn't I would term kinky but not in a negative way .... Just because it's out of my comfort zone, I still 'understand' and 'agree' that others are entitled to their own 'thing'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i dont class any of this as kinky as to me its just normal

I not sure what i do class as kinky to be honest

I know what you mean. I see the word 'kinky' as a label by those who either don't agree or don't understand.

I've said that many a time in relation to people's profiles. Many people seem to use the word kinky to try and make them sounds more exciting than they actually are but are unable to expand on it.

Much like NN, I'm not sure exactly what I would class as kinky, while they might not all be my thing I certainly wouldn't class anything on the OP's list as kinky."

You guys have a point most of this stuff is normal ..

But it is nice to know there are people out there that actually enjoy it. Hope everyone has a good wknd x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There a few things I would like to try but not sure if they classed as been kinky..

I like the idea of having a hot steamy session with a pregnant woman or some one that's got milk ..

Is that classed as been kinky ? Guess it's a fantasy. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal"

i love asphyxiation, the problem is being single its hard to know who you can trust when it comes to messing with your air supply, but if im going to be honest having someone who you dont 100% trust doing it kind of adds to the trill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There a few things I would like to try but not sure if they classed as been kinky..

I like the idea of having a hot steamy session with a pregnant woman or some one that's got milk ..

Is that classed as been kinky ? Guess it's a fantasy. ."

Depends on who you're asking-some people might say that's normal for them as that's what they need to turn them on/get them off. I would guess that would be classed as a fetish in this case.

People who class doggy as adventurous would be horrified at the thought and think you should be locked up for everyone's safety!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal

i love asphyxiation, the problem is being single its hard to know who you can trust when it comes to messing with your air supply, but if im going to be honest having someone who you dont 100% trust doing it kind of adds to the trill "

Totally agree-it's having the thoughts 'will they/won't they stop' that does it for me!

Even if you do know them, having someone else control your air supply is still a bit risky!

I'm lucky to have a circle of friends in the kink world who I would trust to recommend who to play with in this way-I'm sure you have friends like that too x

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I love everything me

Will say tho im not really into fisting, just the thought of having a hand up my muff makes me cringe, ok so i lied i suppose that means i dont love everything lol

What if you are the one doiing the fisting ? Lol

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Sounding........ Big turn on feeding a sound down the japs eye.ummm "

Now your talking willow. That would bring a tear to a glass eye x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wanna know how to make me go all gooey, include candle wax, rope, restraints, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, whips, pinwheels, pegs, humiliation, water, breath play and very rough handling.

How's that for starters?!

crystal

i love asphyxiation, the problem is being single its hard to know who you can trust when it comes to messing with your air supply, but if im going to be honest having someone who you dont 100% trust doing it kind of adds to the trill

Totally agree-it's having the thoughts 'will they/won't they stop' that does it for me!

Even if you do know them, having someone else control your air supply is still a bit risky!

I'm lucky to have a circle of friends in the kink world who I would trust to recommend who to play with in this way-I'm sure you have friends like that too x"

Actually most guys i meet look at me like i have two heads when i say i like it

I find it very hard to find guys who are into it

Its great when i do tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love everything me

Will say tho im not really into fisting, just the thought of having a hand up my muff makes me cringe, ok so i lied i suppose that means i dont love everything lol

What if you are the one doiing the fisting ? Lol"

ive fisted guys before, i love what other love so if its their thing im up for it, so long as they understand they arnt returning the favour

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Is it fair to say that many of the things mentioned could be called kinks but few of us think. they are kinky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love everything me

Will say tho im not really into fisting, just the thought of having a hand up my muff makes me cringe, ok so i lied i suppose that means i dont love everything lol

What if you are the one doiing the fisting ? Lol

ive fisted guys before, i love what other love so if its their thing im up for it, so long as they understand they arnt returning the favour "

I've been fisted plenty of times and really enjoy it. If done right its extremely erotic.

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

One of my friends thinks that leaving the light on is kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my friends thinks that leaving the light on is kinky. "

you mean its not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, some answers are best left to fet sites which are more understanding than many people on here who simply wouldn't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my friends thinks that leaving the light on is kinky. "

And attaching a wire or two for a bit of electroplay...

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually most guys i meet look at me like i have two heads when i say i like it

I find it very hard to find guys who are into it

Its great when i do tho "

I wonder what guys would look at me like if I divulged my full list of kinks to them?! Three heads? Four?!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol"

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I wouldn't call anal a kink

Fisting hurts, no matter how much a bloke says he is great at it & never hurts a lady,I have yet to be convinced otherwise.

N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie! "

lol im shit at dirty talk too, i just feel stupid, im not good at the verbal stuff at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie!

lol im shit at dirty talk too, i just feel stupid, im not good at the verbal stuff at all"

Ball gags all round then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't call anal a kink

Fisting hurts, no matter how much a bloke says he is great at it & never hurts a lady,I have yet to be convinced otherwise.

N"

i cant take a fist, ive had a few try, i just find it painful, anything that takes that much effort isnt worth doing in my opinion

Last time someone tried they didnt even get half way in before i told them to stop and i felt like i was peeing fire for days after

ive had a few guys tell me its because it was done wrong and they could do it but im not prepaired to go thro that again just to boost some guys ego ta very much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie!

lol im shit at dirty talk too, i just feel stupid, im not good at the verbal stuff at all

Ball gags all round then! "

And if you don't have a ball gag, a pair of knickers and duct tape works wonders...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie!

lol im shit at dirty talk too, i just feel stupid, im not good at the verbal stuff at all

Ball gags all round then!

And if you don't have a ball gag, a pair of knickers and duct tape works wonders..."

you'd need a big gob to get my knickers in there lol

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Does anyone find it offputting if nobody speaks..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he once got upset when a girl asked him to talk dirty lol

I'd find that hard too, mainly because I'm crap at it if its not spontaneous, it just sounds forced and like something from a Carry On movie!

lol im shit at dirty talk too, i just feel stupid, im not good at the verbal stuff at all

Ball gags all round then!

And if you don't have a ball gag, a pair of knickers and duct tape works wonders..."

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone find it offputting if nobody speaks..?"

yes, i like communication during sex i just cant do dirty talk, i can tell guys what i like and am happy to guide them in the right direction if they arnt quite doing things to my liking i just cant do the "fuck me big boy" thing

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By *he WolfsterMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I was only ever fisted once by a girl who had very small hands. If I am now looking for a girl with small hands then do I have a small hand kink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone find it offputting if nobody speaks..?

yes, i like communication during sex i just cant do dirty talk, i can tell guys what i like and am happy to guide them in the right direction if they arnt quite doing things to my liking i just cant do the "fuck me big boy" thing "

If you said "fuck me big boy" to me I'd have to stop and go laugh it off somewhere...lol

It's almost as funny as "ooo, baby, your pussy feels so good" (which is about the best I've got!) Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone find it offputting if nobody speaks..?

yes, i like communication during sex i just cant do dirty talk, i can tell guys what i like and am happy to guide them in the right direction if they arnt quite doing things to my liking i just cant do the "fuck me big boy" thing

If you said "fuck me big boy" to me I'd have to stop and go laugh it off somewhere...lol

It's almost as funny as "ooo, baby, your pussy feels so good" (which is about the best I've got!) Lol

"

I remember one guy

True story this

Who was into the Dom/dirty talk thing, kept asking me to beg him for his cock, i was gagging for a shag but he wouldnt till i begged him for it, he was pissing me off in the end so i got dressed while saying, ive never wanted anyones cock that much im begging for it, and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only recently found my sub side and now I love it when a man takes control and is rough with me, taking me from behind hard and fast with his arm round my neck, getting tighter with every thrust(just to make sure I don't try to move away) (I never do) Fisting- yes I have had a few men who knew what they were doing enough for me to enjoy it, but boy does it hurt after and the next day, but I rather like a bit of pain with my sex sometimes, mood depending of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone find it offputting if nobody speaks..?

yes, i like communication during sex i just cant do dirty talk, i can tell guys what i like and am happy to guide them in the right direction if they arnt quite doing things to my liking i just cant do the "fuck me big boy" thing

If you said "fuck me big boy" to me I'd have to stop and go laugh it off somewhere...lol

It's almost as funny as "ooo, baby, your pussy feels so good" (which is about the best I've got!) Lol

I remember one guy

True story this

Who was into the Dom/dirty talk thing, kept asking me to beg him for his cock, i was gagging for a shag but he wouldnt till i begged him for it, he was pissing me off in the end so i got dressed while saying, ive never wanted anyones cock that much im begging for it, and left "

Hahaha!

Brilliant. X

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"Fisting and watersports, love em "

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"I wouldn't call anal a kink

Fisting hurts, no matter how much a bloke says he is great at it & never hurts a lady,I have yet to be convinced otherwise.

N

i cant take a fist, ive had a few try, i just find it painful, anything that takes that much effort isnt worth doing in my opinion

Last time someone tried they didnt even get half way in before i told them to stop and i felt like i was peeing fire for days after

ive had a few guys tell me its because it was done wrong and they could do it but im not prepaired to go thro that again just to boost some guys ego ta very much lol

"

I'm like that , but I've found a woman can do it to me ( smaller hands ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I have any I've enjoyed BDSM play but I think I just love the high I get from it.. I seldom get arroused by it

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