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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Are we talking about all women or some women? | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here Are we talking about all women or some women? " Are they not a collective? Like the Borg? | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here Are we talking about all women or some women? " Well probably a lot more than half actually | |||
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"So yesterday you posted saying you’re struggling to meet females, and today just go to slagging them off instead? Great way to meet females " | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that." Strangers do not upset me | |||
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"Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street..." I'm pretty sure I would look twice at half a woman in the street! | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here Are we talking about all women or some women? Well probably a lot more than half actually " Is that because they won’t meet you? | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " With an attitude like that, good luck finding yourselves a female.... | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Don't think they think they are gods gift just think they get so much interest that they can be select in who they choose | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that. Strangers do not upset me " | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Supply and demand, women can afford to be picky, if you aren’t what they are looking for then just accept it and move on. Don’t get all bitter about it. | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " What do you mean by saying “owed something for a meet”? | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here Supply and demand, women can afford to be picky, if you aren’t what they are looking for then just accept it and move on. Don’t get all bitter about it." | |||
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"Everyone is god's gift in their own little way just some things that they are more worthy than others " But apparently God is a woman so she's guffawing now | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Is this how your intial messages to women's profiles tend to go? Because I can bet you a shiny dollar, I know why nobody is meeting you | |||
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"Everyone on fab, whether they be male, female, couples, trans has every right to their own tastes and preferences. And finding someone who matches your own preferences while you also meet theirs is just as rare on here as it is in the real world. Nobody should be expected to compromise on what they're looking for to suit anybody. To be fair, OP, I find your opening post rather contradictatory. You're essentially criticising the lady folk of fab and accusing them of some sort of sense of entitlement while demonstrating your own. I've not had a huge amount of sucess since coming back to fab after a short break, but as someone who's been using this site over the last 10 years, I know how it works and completely understand that I'll only appeal to a handful of people and, given the times that I can play, probably even less than before - and that's absolutely fine." | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " This post suggests you do message women you wouldn't look at twice and then can't accept the rejection. You're mainly looking for couples or bi males, according to your profile. So even if I were looking for couples, and fitted your criteria, I wouldn't be interested because of that statement. You also need to bear in that single women get to pick and choose owing to the ratio of women to couples and especially single men. Personally, I don't think the ratios are particularly healthy but a sense of entitlement can be found in a number of people on here not just single women x | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Well you seem like a bundle joy | |||
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"Brilliant thought this would get attention haha" Was it the attention you were hoping for? | |||
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"Brilliant thought this would get attention haha" It’s not actually that funny. It’s a bit embarrassing for you | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that." Freedom of speech? On Fab? You're joking, right? | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that. Freedom of speech? On Fab? You're joking, right? " What’s that haha | |||
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"Couldn’t agree more xx We aren’t having a pop just stating how we are finding the site so far ? Are we not entitled to an opinion Seems not with all the comments " hey its all good with me I get called fake lol. Water of a ducks back, but love the interesting posts on here so keep them coming everyone lol | |||
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"Newsflash - women don’t owe you anything, god forbid we have preferences but we do! Someone’s profile status above is ‘I’m here for me, your self entitlement means nothing to me’ - and it couldn’t be more spot on " Love this answer | |||
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"Maybe there is no freedom of speech then lol. " There is freedom of speech (within forum rules). However that freedom also applies to people who find what you've said unpalatable | |||
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"Couldn’t agree more xx We aren’t having a pop just stating how we are finding the site so far ? Are we not entitled to an opinion Seems not with all the comments " It's about how you express an opinion as opposed to seemingly having a rant and alienating people. Shame of it is that you actually had some good advice particularly about meeting bi women. | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that. Freedom of speech? On Fab? You're joking, right? What’s that haha" In our experience on here, not one single "woman" (read - singular....take that as a normal grammar nazi would) would ever finish off a statement/message with "haha"....that's VERY much a man thing to do...especially when it's not remotely funny | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Amen!!! | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here What do you mean by saying “owed something for a meet”?" I've been trying to puzzle this out And why do you msg women you wouldn't look at twice in the street? | |||
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"I identify as “God’s gift” - I wonder if that’ll get me more female attention? " It’s worked you’ve pulled | |||
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"I identify as “God’s gift” - I wonder if that’ll get me more female attention? It’s worked you’ve pulled " | |||
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"Everyone is god's gift in their own little way just some things that they are more worthy than others But apparently God is a woman so she's guffawing now " Now now as the song goes it's a man's world but women have shown the ability to prove they are better than most guys in doing things example England football men have never gotten as far as the women have and I'm man that feels proud of them doing this just like any sport | |||
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"Everyone is god's gift in their own little way just some things that they are more worthy than others But apparently God is a woman so she's guffawing now Now now as the song goes it's a man's world but women have shown the ability to prove they are better than most guys in doing things example England football men have never gotten as far as the women have and I'm man that feels proud of them doing this just like any sport " Well apart from 1966. | |||
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"So yesterday you posted saying you’re struggling to meet females, and today just go to slagging them off instead? Great way to meet females " I know right. People took the time to give quality advise and shared experience and they took absolutely none of it onboard and made zero changes. Still at least this thread has shown what they really think KJ | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Sorry not found this I think women have to be far more cautious to The Approach of the site in general for various reason's you maybe give of red flags. | |||
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"Couldn’t agree more xx We aren’t having a pop just stating how we are finding the site so far ? Are we not entitled to an opinion Seems not with all the comments " You didn't give your opinion you made a statement, it's all in the wording guys! | |||
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"Brilliant thought this would get attention haha" What’s brilliant about it? You’ve just insulted women on here. It will certainly get you attention, probably not the type you’d want though. | |||
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"I tend to agree … I am a woman, no I don’t get rejected (in the fab world). If I am not to somebody’s taste, I am totally fine with it. I love women, not just because they are hot, but because I think we are amazing. On here, however, I do think that a lot of women have delusions of grandeur. We can pick who we want. But in the real world, we wouldn’t walk down the street and have our pick. No one would. I just think that maybe people just need to be a little kinder. My profile isn’t the kindest - but it states what I want. The reason for this is because I don’t want to waste any one’s time! I’m only looking for women, and as a woman (never-mind a man), I cannot be bothered. Anyone who thinks the op is lying, they are absolutely fibbing!! Have fun guys … let’s not take this too seriously. But yeah, US women need to be less knobish!!! " | |||
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"Think all the women on here deserve respect and since there are hordes of Randy blokes I expect the compliments flow! As far as the site goes if I were a woman getting hundreds of messages from “admirers” I’d be pretty chuffed with myself. I think being on here alone suggest an attitude and behaviour that is pretty attractive and half the women In the street don’t have that! " Message quantity means nothing. If I leave my profile as it is but tick the Looking for men box I'd get 50+ messages a day. Perhaps the women think the men really want them. | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " | |||
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"Brilliant thought this would get attention haha" Not sure why you think drawing attention to your attitude regarding women, who either have a high opinion of themselves, yet "you wouldn't look twice at walking down the street" is amusing. Something tells me you'll be getting even less meets with this post, and your profile stating what you expect, rather than what you would bring to a meet. | |||
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"Well that message will upset a few on here, but freedom of speech and all that." All three of them | |||
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"Not going to lie but as a couple we have found the women seem to think because they’re on here there gods gift…! your on a swinger site get real and stop pretending your owed something for a meet, feel sorry for the guys on here to there just looking for fun but get scrutinised for being male, really don’t get it..! Half the woman on here you wouldn’t look twice at on the street soo why message them on here " Just plain simple numbers ratio. As to the latter part that goes both ways though. | |||
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"So yesterday you posted saying you’re struggling to meet females, and today just go to slagging them off instead? Great way to meet females " I thought the same thing Miss S x | |||
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" I have encountered a couple of women through fab who are used to compliments and daily validation off site and as a result they now expect nothing less. They really do ask "do you not know who I am?" or in one particular case when meeting their very first words before saying hello were "Are you really nervous about meeting me?". " Oh my goodness, little shocks me on the forums but that has. Why would anyone want to meet people with that attitude? | |||
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"There’s a lot of fragile egos and barely concealed misogyny around." Quite | |||
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" I have encountered a couple of women through fab who are used to compliments and daily validation off site and as a result they now expect nothing less. They really do ask "do you not know who I am?" or in one particular case when meeting their very first words before saying hello were "Are you really nervous about meeting me?". Oh my goodness, little shocks me on the forums but that has. Why would anyone want to meet people with that attitude? " It didn't go beyond that first social because that told me all I needed to know but very public reactions on the forums since and comments from other people about chatgroup behaviour show that it's still ongoing. I can only assume that some are happy to ignore attitudes like that if they can get their leg over. | |||
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" It didn't go beyond that first social because that told me all I needed to know but very public reactions on the forums since and comments from other people about chatgroup behaviour show that it's still ongoing. I can only assume that some are happy to ignore attitudes like that if they can get their leg over. " Yes sadly the “Any hole’s a goal” is rife on Fab. I received an invitation to join a chat group which I declined as I’m aware they can be pretty toxic. A thick skin is needed on here at times. | |||
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" Yes sadly the “Any hole’s a goal” is rife on Fab. " Just 90% bottle it when it comes to actually kicking the ball at the goal KJ | |||
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