FabSwingers.com forum: Bi male couples are rare?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

[Removed by poster at 23/02/23 05:27:45]

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I am sub bi guy and still waiting to get a gen meet

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.

Edited due to typo

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We're a couple with a bi male and we get plenty of interest.However,we are only looking to meet single guys these guys.There are those who state "no bi guys" so they are of no interest to us!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "

Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi.

Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

We are a bi male couple, there are more of us than you think.

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We're about. We mainly come out after dark and difficult to spot.

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

Don't know if it's a location thing, but plenty near us. Plus all the couples that have straight male listed, but he is actually bi

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Seems to be getting more and more acceptable these days. Especially now club nights hold bi events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a bi male couple, there are more of us than you think."

Same here but we search for bi male couples not looking for singles on here meet enough at clubs

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’re here..

it’s the same issue with finding a couple where all are attracted to each other.

Only this way, all 4 have to be attracted to each other..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same and having the same issue. Just posted on a nother thread why is it hard to find a bi meet.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are equal opportunity pervs..lol

What's not to like it's great fun for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.

Edited due to typo"

This is still sadly so true.. but us bi guys will continue to fight the fight. Guys be what you want there are no rules

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

"We are equal opportunity pervs..lol

What's not to like it's great fun for all."

That made us giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are equal opportunity pervs..lol

What's not to like it's great fun for all."

And thats what life is about right.. fun

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

It is a lot rarer for the male half to have the bi/curious box ticked

I'd say you see a lot more than you used to though

Joining in threads like this are bound to help you find a match too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are equal opportunity pervs..lol

What's not to like it's great fun for all."

Love your equal opportunities

As the OP says a lot of profiles state that the female is bi but the male is straight. Nice to see on here that there are plenty of bi couples around.

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

Bi single here looking for a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re here..

it’s the same issue with finding a couple where all are attracted to each other.

Only this way, all 4 have to be attracted to each other.. "

Yes!! It’s nigh on impossible!!

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Bi male couple here

Don’t think we’re in that short of a supply tbh but we do see a lot of couples with straight males who state they won’t meet couples with a bi male, fair enough, we move along.

Now profile straight but bi in dms single guys numbers are off the charts haha

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By *ndi37Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I totally agree. I have always been curious about meeting a couple, ideally for me to play with the guy while he pleases the Mrs. It seems OK for straight/curious but people forget there is gay/curious people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women themselves find it hard to accept men to be bisexual. Sex is still deeply steeped in power interpretations and symbolism. The one screwing is the one who has the power, and traditionally as determined by pure biology it's the masculine that can do it because of his phallus.

The same way as how men are usually fine with their female partner being bisexual, but get iffy when they see her get fucked by another woman with a strap on or a dildo bigger than their cock. Like it or not, a lot of women are still biologically and evolutionally hardwired to have an aversion mentality towards men playing with cocks that aren't their own, or god forbid get penetrated by one and "fucked like a woman" by another man. It's still seen as immensely emasculating.

That leaves aside the point that bisexuality is the least accepted and most stigmatised bit of the overall LGBT community, even by fellow non-heterosexual people. We're seen as greedy, closeted, and basically either gay or lesbian but yet to find the guts to come out as such. It's pretty much lesbian porn made to appeal to heterosexual male taste for more pussy and boobs in their face at the same time which has sort of normalised lesbians in societal sexual acceptance. You don't see that the other way round though (gay porn made to appeal to straight females normalising gays in societal sexual acceptance), because female sexual desire has always been seen as secondary to male sexual desire.

Riiiiiight, that's my five minutes!

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

We are a bi couple, we have had lots of bi fun, we attend bi nights at clubs and there are lots of us around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We state were only looking for both bi/bi-curious couples but couples message us and the male half is straight but when you talk to them they say they are bi, most of the time they put straight as they can play straight with couples but it puts some couples off if the male half is bi, probably scared the bi guy will try and suck their cock

Lol, jokes aside..everyone has their preferences though.

Miss S x

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Bi guys have more fun

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Bi nights at clubs, plenty of male partners playing with other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi guys have more fun"

I am inclined to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi guys have more fun"

And bi girls

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Both bi here and not ashamed to state in profile can't be everyone's cup of tea true is we don't get to much interest for some reason but this is fab we still have our funs so we are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both bi here and not ashamed to state in profile can't be everyone's cup of tea true is we don't get to much interest for some reason but this is fab we still have our funs so we are happy "

No shame needed more fool them for missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They seem to be rare in my area

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

bi male couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bi male couple here"

I wish I was closer you sound perfect

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

"Seems to be getting more and more acceptable these days. Especially now club nights hold bi events "

You two are sensational

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.

Edited due to typo"

This. 100% this.

And there are more couples with a bi male on here than it would appear. Lots just don’t advertise it openly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few 4somes where stated man straight then find them sucking me off shocked me at 1st but soon realised sex is sex all feels good

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Bi couple here, not that we have played with a bi couple in a while....time to get back to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both bi x

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Bi MM couple here. Looking for ladies or couples with bi guys.

Sadly yet to fulfill our fantasy of fucking both partners of a bi couple at the same as they hold and kiss each other...

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.

Edited due to typo

This. 100% this.

And there are more couples with a bi male on here than it would appear. Lots just don’t advertise it openly. "

That's true, it's a shame they do but I suppose everyone is entitled to keep a part of themselves private if they wish

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

We're a bi couple, but we don't play with couples, only single guys. We're also not into 3somes, however our profile is clear and we still get a lot of interest.

We don't usually have any trouble finding guys when we want to play.

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

Bi couple here, male is sub. We've got a few pics of MM play.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Bi couple here

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By *bacusMan
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

Only bi in a mmf threesome for me. Need those titties with a side serving of cock and cum

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Bi male couple here x

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By *vent HorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Both bi couple here.

Haven't met a both bi couple in ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both bi here

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

A nice aunty experience will soon sort out a hubby. you can help if you wish . selection from large set of vintage underwear just like what he found in aunties room when he was young and mischeivous... All on video for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both bi here

Hi guys your both hot

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By *xploring2getherCouple
over a year ago

Desborough

Bi Male and curious Female here

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Both bi here and always looking for like minded xx

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford

" We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "

Why? People have the right to choose who they want to interact with in the swinging scene. We don't want to meet with bi males, but we're not stopping anybody else seeking out bi males.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"I am sub bi guy and still waiting to get a gen meet "

im a bi cd and it has been just so difficult to find anyone genuine

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.

Edited due to typo"

We’re totally bisexual and don’t give a hoot what people think. Give us both any day. Getting freaky with other bi people is awesome. Xx

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Both extremely bi here. X

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Not that rare as we are both bi.

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By *odandbecksCouple
over a year ago

Minehead

Its just one of those things, we thought the straight male couples were rare,

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I am bi curious male with female fully bi. We have had people who we know block us because I changed from straight to bu curious.

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Almost impossible to find bi couple's where the guy is bi where I am

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Bi couple here have played with bi males such a good time we all had

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Bi male here!

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

Bi male over here too!

Em x

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By *over757Man
over a year ago

Vera Spain

Rare here in Spain and I got shouted down for metioning it on another thread!!!

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Bi couple here ! xx

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist and, to be honest, don’t have any problems finding bi couples. It’s a glorious way to play too

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are a bi curious couple. Not classing ourselves as fully bi just yet as still exploring our bi sides.

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By *ackG1996Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

I'm one part of a MF couple and I'm bi

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Definite Bi male phobia in the swinging scene…

Not entirely sure of the cause in this day and age.

But toooooo many straight men message.

So, it’s not just our imagination.

But definitely an added level of complication…

As the guy on guy dynamic might “cock block” lol…

Two tops? Or two bottoms??

Ahh well…

Good luck to all us Bi male couples !

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By *oxnGingerCouple
over a year ago

London/East Sussex/Kent

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By *oxnGingerCouple
over a year ago

London/East Sussex/Kent

Bi MF couple here. Definitely more fun to be had this way.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Bi mr couple here too

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Bi couple here, yes a lot of the guys we meet on here are what we call fab straight

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Interesting times we live in

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Bi couples are so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi mr couple here too"

I know you are, on my Hotlist see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also Fabbed and Hotlisted one or two others while I’m here too

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By * and P southeastCouple
over a year ago

essex

Both bi here x

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By *unlovers769Couple
over a year ago

Beverley

Don’t get discouraged or disheartened there are couples out there which you will find it’s amazing how many men have straight on their profile that are actually bicurious or bisexual

Chin up and best foot forward!!

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By *zsander23Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Bi couple here too but inundated with messages from single guys or oral bi only guys.

Full bi fun is amazing though

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By *unwanted34Man
over a year ago

London / Leeds

Bi guy here looking for bi couples x

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By *aura987Couple
over a year ago

Brampton

Both bi here as it states on our profile. Increases the fun so why not…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a fully bi couple looking for either a dom bi top or another bi couple where the man is dom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use Bi-curious as hubby is still exploring this side of himself openly more now.

It's nice to see him letting go and allowing himself to truly be himself sexually.

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Especially more difficult looking for bi couples interested in more than oral harder still if the guy is a top

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By *urringtiggraCouple
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

Bi couple here...male is bi vers ...think that just means greedy.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Bi couple here...male is bi vers ...think that just means greedy.

Welcome to my hotlist

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Bi couple here also

..We only meet bi couples we just find it a lot more fun ..

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

We're a bi couple but it doesn't mean that we have to play bi. We're open to it if the other couple want to, it's not a must.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Definite Bi male phobia in the swinging scene…

Not entirely sure of the cause in this day and age.

But toooooo many straight men message.

So, it’s not just our imagination.

But definitely an added level of complication…

As the guy on guy dynamic might “cock block” lol…

Two tops? Or two bottoms??

Ahh well…

Good luck to all us Bi male couples ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both bi couples on our couples profile...it is really hard...who's fairly local, rule out the smokers, the barebackers, the ones who can only meet during the day, the ones who are only really orally bi curious or who don't top and were casting our net into very shallow, dead waters...then you both have to find them at least vaguely attractive...bi nights in clubs have been the answer for my partner mostly...but it's still hard

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

leicester

We’re a bi couple male and female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi top if required partner is bi curious but not started her bi journey yet.. waiting to meet the right lady to show her the joys of the female form.

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi.

Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.

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the reason is they are bigots,

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi.

Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.

the reason is they are bigots, "

This could be true yes.

Though I've messaged and met happy and lovely relaxed bi couples from here.

I think lots do hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been good to see this thread resurrected and see the number of bi couples posting here. Especially for a bi guy like myself...x

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

"We're about. We mainly come out after dark and difficult to spot. "

You sound like a pair of sexy badgers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully Bi- Couple here

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