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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just wondered what some of the male fabbers thought about women on here and their preference. im an athletic guy who likes big women but i keep getting that questioned!

does anybody else like fat girls to fuck?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't mind if I am attracted to them and they me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i couldn't imagine fucking a fat girl.

I much prefer to partake in mutual pleasure with a fuller figured honey, a rubenesque female, a woman with curves, a girl with a smooth rounded silhouette.

But that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

does anybody else like fat girls to fuck?

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Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought "

BBW ...is the usually accepted term mate ...just a tip

But in answer to your question yes I very much enjoy BBW or Curvey, or fabulous women ...great fun and often - but not always I might add - less self conscious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no, lol...dont get the hump, it is what it is but i adore all the bbw's!!!

message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly have a way with words dont you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Now ladies be nice to him. Look how shy he is

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm not a BBW but I'm a curvy girl. Not sure about the word fat tho. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

self confessed chunky monkey lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats me i meant by the way xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Argh you're in Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grab the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a rubenesque woman! like my men to be stocky so i know i cant break them lol x

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As BBW just love it when guys refer to me as "a fat girl" !

Whilst it might be a fact, fat isn't a way to describe anyone you want to get intimate with. Try curvy or just BBW in future.

Shame you're not closer as I might have let you fuck this fat girl

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"Is a rubenesque woman! like my men to be stocky so i know i cant break them lol x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh jeez, seems as tho i upset some folks, really guys dont mean to offend anyone (nice wee bit of back tracking) i shall watch my terminology in futureand who says im shy? lol...c'mere granny, i'll show you shy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh okay .... but i'm warnin' you, you might have to show me more than once :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry sorry sorry sorry..rubanesque? chubby? fat? curvy? bbw? chunky? large? whatever....you're all still sexy as hell..bring on the big wummin, lol oh yeah and id love to, haha!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"oh jeez, seems as tho i upset some folks, really guys dont mean to offend anyone (nice wee bit of back tracking) i shall watch my terminology in futureand who says im shy? lol...c'mere granny, i'll show you shy "

You've got a hot body ill give you that...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"oh jeez, seems as tho i upset some folks, really guys dont mean to offend anyone (nice wee bit of back tracking) i shall watch my terminology in futureand who says im shy? lol...c'mere granny, i'll show you shy

You've got a hot body ill give you that... "

It is nice to look at!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i wouldnt granny cos after one time youd be knocked out by the sheer ride of your life, lol

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and so do you little miss hottie

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"and so do you little miss hottie "

Really?? Wouldn't of thought I was your cuppa tea x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I knew this thread would deliver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love a six pack lol xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"i wouldnt granny cos after one time youd be knocked out by the sheer ride of your life, lol

xx"

Ah .... a pneumatic fucker

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I knew this thread would deliver "

What are the rolley eyes for ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes really and thats whats this thread is about...people question my taste all the time and i wondered if i was one of many or in the minority

yeah babe you look great...although my fav size of girl is about a 24..fucking lovely, lol x im sending you donuts as a belated xmas pressie!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"yes really and thats whats this thread is about...people question my taste all the time and i wondered if i was one of many or in the minority

yeah babe you look great...although my fav size of girl is about a 24..fucking lovely, lol x im sending you donuts as a belated xmas pressie!!"

Oh I only asked coz you said about fake boobs in your profile x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oh and thanks for the doughnuts but I'm on a diet. I wouldn't want to be a size 24 thanks!! Lol x no offence to the larger lady but I'm happier slimmer x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I knew this thread would deliver

What are the rolley eyes for ?"

The OP's initial semantic blunder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well you look great as you are hun...very very nice curves indeed!

i wish all the bbw's out there would realise how sexy you all are...we dont all go for skinny size 10's you know

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

So you don't mind fake boobs then?!

I'm confused... Lol.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I knew this thread would deliver

What are the rolley eyes for ?

The OP's initial semantic blunder."

He's retracted it but it was right in the first place.

Fat isn't a derogatory word and there are lots of fat women on this site.

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

My preference is a man with a toned athletic body, but being fat, some of society wants you to only like your 'own kind' if you know what I mean.

So then some ladies think they're taking the mick when one shows an interest.

I know I do sometimes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"well you look great as you are hun...very very nice curves indeed!

i wish all the bbw's out there would realise how sexy you all are...we dont all go for skinny size 10's you know "

Now you've offended the 10's

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I knew this thread would deliver

What are the rolley eyes for ?

The OP's initial semantic blunder.

He's retracted it but it was right in the first place.

Fat isn't a derogatory word and there are lots of fat women on this site.

"

I'm sure there are, as there are many fat guys on here too. Also, as evidenced by at least a few responses here, i can't imagine most fuller figured ladies (or gents) would like to be called fat upfront, regardless of their comfort level with the term. Hence my post. The title was a dead giveaway really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh jeez, seems as tho i upset some folks, really guys dont mean to offend anyone (nice wee bit of back tracking) i shall watch my terminology in futureand who says im shy? lol...c'mere granny, i'll show you shy

You've got a hot body ill give you that...

It is nice to look at!"

It's all the exercise he gets from throwing 'fat' women around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha, help me out granny!! seems i best shut my mouth..

and na..dont like fake boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol "

I'm fat. In my eyes anyway. Other people may think I'm slim, others may think I'm obese.

It's just a word ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My preference is a man with a toned athletic body, but being fat, some of society wants you to only like your 'own kind' if you know what I mean.

So then some ladies think they're taking the mick when one shows an interest.

I know I do sometimes. "

Me 2!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very good wishy washy...thats me busted, lol

if only! the only msgs i seem to get on here are from blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don't mind fake boobs then?!

I'm confused... Lol. "

Have you got fake boobs?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"haha, help me out granny!! seems i best shut my mouth..

and na..dont like fake boobs."

Right. So I'm not your type, that's what I thought. Lol x

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

I'm fat. In my eyes anyway. Other people may think I'm slim, others may think I'm obese.

It's just a word ffs. "

Exactly, some people get really hung up about it. As long as the person isn't saying it to my face in a nasty way I'm not fussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knew this thread would deliver

What are the rolley eyes for ?

The OP's initial semantic blunder.

He's retracted it but it was right in the first place.

Fat isn't a derogatory word and there are lots of fat women on this site.

"

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"So you don't mind fake boobs then?!

I'm confused... Lol.

Have you got fake boobs? "

Yes..... But they're a good advert for fake boobs coz they don't look overly fake I don't think. Don't tell me you don't like fake boobs either??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well your wee pic doesnt show me your boobs hun so i didnt know they were fake...you look my type in the pic, nice and curvy but sorry, fake boobs are a no no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs NSA prefersto be called curvy than fat.

Either way, she has amazing breasts!! All real!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tell you what, send me a pic and i'll let you know, haha!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

I'm fat. In my eyes anyway. Other people may think I'm slim, others may think I'm obese.

It's just a word ffs.

Exactly, some people get really hung up about it. As long as the person isn't saying it to my face in a nasty way I'm not fussed "

It wouldn't bother me if they were saying it to my face. It's just a word. They are entitled to their opinion.

Some may call me old. Some may call me young. I don't get hot and bothered about those words either. Just words.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"well your wee pic doesnt show me your boobs hun so i didnt know they were fake...you look my type in the pic, nice and curvy but sorry, fake boobs are a no no for me

"

Oh, thought seeing as you'd looked at my profile you would of noticed. Most people don't even realise. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very good wishy washy...thats me busted, lol

if only! the only msgs i seem to get on here are from blokes "

Are they fat men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well hun they look real but do they feel real and do they schwinnnnng??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondered what some of the male fabbers thought about women on here and their preference. im an athletic guy who likes big women but i keep getting that questioned!

does anybody else like fat girls to fuck?

"

Can ladies chip in? ..I love bigger ladies , so sexy. Skinny does nothing for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just a skinny runt.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

na theyre not fat me, haha....some quite buff types, some quite bent types...loads of types really but im straight!

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

butterfly 61, lets make a couples profile, lol x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"well hun they look real but do they feel real and do they schwinnnnng??? lol"

They swing a damn sight better than they did when I was totally flat chested. And I've had no complaints. I know plenty of people with enhanced boobs and they don't all feel rock hard and look fake I bet most of them you wouldn't even be able to tell.

Anyway back on topic.. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don't mind fake boobs then?!

I'm confused... Lol.

Have you got fake boobs?

Yes..... But they're a good advert for fake boobs coz they don't look overly fake I don't think. Don't tell me you don't like fake boobs either?? "

I've never had the pleasure of sampling any ..so can't say; but would definitely be up for trying out a fair pair ...I expect they're pretty versatile

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I am just a skinny runt..... "

You've got a lovely bum!! Curvy in the right places even tho your slim x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"So you don't mind fake boobs then?!

I'm confused... Lol.

Have you got fake boobs?

Yes..... But they're a good advert for fake boobs coz they don't look overly fake I don't think. Don't tell me you don't like fake boobs either??

I've never had the pleasure of sampling any ..so can't say; but would definitely be up for trying out a fair pair ...I expect they're pretty versatile "

You need to come visit.. X

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

I'm fat. In my eyes anyway. Other people may think I'm slim, others may think I'm obese.

It's just a word ffs.

Exactly, some people get really hung up about it. As long as the person isn't saying it to my face in a nasty way I'm not fussed

It wouldn't bother me if they were saying it to my face. It's just a word. They are entitled to their opinion.

Some may call me old. Some may call me young. I don't get hot and bothered about those words either. Just words. "

And thats the beauty of it all everyone is different with different options, there is someone for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought "

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite the body. Ooft

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness "

It had Julie.... Thought you would have known this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

It had Julie.... Thought you would have known this "

*has*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i need to come visit or the curvy ass chick? lol

my experience is ive been with a fair few girls who had fake tits and they didnt move much..i like them a bit droppy, too much of a handful and flapping about as i bounce a girl up and down ontop, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness "

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i need to come visit or the curvy ass chick? lol

my experience is ive been with a fair few girls who had fake tits and they didnt move much..i like them a bit droppy, too much of a handful and flapping about as i bounce a girl up and down ontop, lol"

Neither. The guy who's comment I quoted. I'm not 'fat' enough and I have fake boobs. Why on earth round I invite you!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat but not a word i like to be described as i go for curvy but that seems not enough is there an in between?

if only scotland wasnt so far away tasty body op. mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men "

Not by any I know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cos youd love me, im a wee sweetheart really, lol

id sweep you off your feet and onto my c***, haha..only kidding!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men "

And there was one of these size threads recently where men were moaning larger ladies are lazier in bed and can only do a couple of positions etc.

Not my words I hasten to add!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer to myself as 'fat'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not see fat, just curves.

fat is another label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So someone prefers bigger ladies. Why does that have to turn into a flight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight even haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men

Not by any I know! "

I'm talking about conversations between men ..you know, on the golf course, down the pub - without women present lol

Anyway I'm just saying personally I don't discriminate

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

im size 18, bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men

Not by any I know!

I'm talking about conversations between men ..you know, on the golf course, down the pub - without women present lol

Anyway I'm just saying personally I don't discriminate "

Yeah I know it is exactly like us women all talking about bbc is far better or any other generalisation!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

"

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I say both. But fat not a nice word. So I would say I prefer chubby over a skinny girls, Chubby girls so much more fun

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I say both. But fat not a nice word. So I would say I prefer chubby over a skinny girls, Chubby girls so much more fun "
Agree with you - it is an emotive word that is likely to upset some people and not necessary.

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn


"I say both. But fat not a nice word. So I would say I prefer chubby over a skinny girls, Chubby girls so much more fun Agree with you - it is an emotive word that is likely to upset some people and not necessary. "

Ye your right. Fat now nice word and some girls will find it Offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought

What a load of rubbish!

Size has nothing to do with performance you know!

Or wetness

I hate to be controversial but my experience tells me different ...I'm not saying it's a rule but well I'd suggest this is certainly an attitude held by many men

Not by any I know!

I'm talking about conversations between men ..you know, on the golf course, down the pub - without women present lol

Anyway I'm just saying personally I don't discriminate

Yeah I know it is exactly like us women all talking about bbc is far better or any other generalisation!"

Yes we can't generalise ...that would be rubbish! But I stick to what I say ...however, every women is different and can be exquisite is her own way 'curvy' or 'skinny' ...that IS my experience

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Not a nice word**** my stupid iPhone grrr lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

holy shit, this thread has revived my inbox...now inundated with women and not guys for a change, lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not a nice word**** my stupid iPhone grrr lol "
lol, dont worry - know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I find interesting about this thread was on another site there was athletic guys saying how large woman contacted them and did they really think they would be interested.. So I asked why wouldn't they and they said cos obviously if a person is slim or athletic then they go for the same body type.. I laughed hard at their ignorance

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"holy shit, this thread has revived my inbox...now inundated with women and not guys for a change, lol"
serves you right for putting a decent sixpack on display...;-)

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By *ukus 62Woman
over a year ago

Essex

mmmmmmmmmmm loooking gooood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"holy shit, this thread has revived my inbox...now inundated with women and not guys for a change, lol"

Have to say I am curious as to what u look like on top of that body :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like fat wobbly bits at all.

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd


"You certainly have a way with words dont you "

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

*runs in shakes her wobbly bits and leaves***

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well brenda, i just tried to add you as a friend so you could see but i guess im too young, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ricky gervais is taking piss out of fatties now on e4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"holy shit, this thread has revived my inbox...now inundated with women and not guys for a change, lol"
you are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to recall that the the word "fattie" was picked up as rather emotive and offensive in a similar thread ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol...thank you very much, you're a nice bunch in here, lol

first time in the forums but im glad i did, its been interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fatty here wishing I lived in Scotland!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a size 18/20 and yes that makes me fat and proud of my body, oh and OP probably the reason you get so much male attention is because your profile says you're Bi- curious, even though you have said in here you're straight!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"lol...thank you very much, you're a nice bunch in here, lol

first time in the forums but im glad i did, its been interesting "

Just dont ever change that avatar - it is a bit like the advert some years back... all the girls are drawn to it

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A fatty here wishing I lived in Scotland!!! xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think we're getting away from the topic itself, forget the fat word, i apologised to anyone i offended and got told off by plenty, i just wanted to know mens thoughts on fucking bigger women as opposed to slimmer girls...been with plenty big and small women and i wouldnt say bigger women struggle to get into positions at all...well maybe having their legs at their ears which is one of my favs, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well brenda, i just tried to add you as a friend so you could see but i guess im too young, lol"

Omg no to old haha but I'm still curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you _phrodite and you look rather delectable yourself!

x

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"Not a nice word**** my stupid iPhone grrr lol "

I feel you there

I updated Facebook status that should of said

' isn't GOK lovely'

but my phone changed it to

'isn't cock lovely'

I got so much stick for that lol

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"just wondered what some of the male fabbers thought about women on here and their preference. im an athletic guy who likes big women but i keep getting that questioned!

does anybody else like fat girls to fuck?

"

I always question buff guys about their claims of liking me because based on my experience of guys who have to spend as much time in the gym that it takes too get that buff, they normally have an appreciation for a more toned figure than I have.

Occasionally have been proved wrong but not often

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"thank you _phrodite and you look rather delectable yourself!

x"

Tehe... I am in with a chance x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I say both. But fat not a nice word. So I would say I prefer chubby over a skinny girls, Chubby girls so much more fun "

Potato Potarto.

When you say chubby we all know you mean fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say both. But fat not a nice word. So I would say I prefer chubby over a skinny girls, Chubby girls so much more fun

Potato Potarto.

When you say chubby we all know you mean fat."

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Perhaps we do all know that some words are euphemisms for other, more negative words. Nonetheless some words keep coming up in threads (and have done over the years) and they invariably have caused upset. So I cannot see the point in using them really... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some lovely woman posting on this thread bbw or chubby woman are so much better then skinny woman to look at and be with for me !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im getting out of here...im not getting hate male...anyone with anything decent to say please feel free to message anytime for a chat but right now ive had it! good night x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Perhaps we do all know that some words are euphemisms for other, more negative words. Nonetheless some words keep coming up in threads (and have done over the years) and they invariably have caused upset. So I cannot see the point in using them really... ? "

I don't see the point in denial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you prefer in the guys you play with? Toned? Slim? Curvy?

I like all my guys to be trim and toned! Girls I'm less fussy about although a classic hourglass shape would be my pick! It's a lot harder for lassies to control curves than for guys in my opinion!

R xx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Perhaps we do all know that some words are euphemisms for other, more negative words. Nonetheless some words keep coming up in threads (and have done over the years) and they invariably have caused upset. So I cannot see the point in using them really... ?

I don't see the point in denial."

I guess it all depends on where you are coming from. I tend to call a spade a spade in everyday situations and yet I would be more careful, would try to be sensitive in situations when I suspect the use of certain words upset others - consequently I use different words.

Words have connotations and these vary from one person to another. Whether that is here in the forums or in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it more accepting for a toned bodied man to start a thread using descriptions of womens size that can upset some and also come out with inaccurate statements about sexual technique and arousal, than say a more softer tummied and older man?

This thread says it can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps we do all know that some words are euphemisms for other, more negative words. Nonetheless some words keep coming up in threads (and have done over the years) and they invariably have caused upset. So I cannot see the point in using them really... ?

I don't see the point in denial."

But I do see a point in rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As BBW just love it when guys refer to me as "a fat girl" !

Whilst it might be a fact, fat isn't a way to describe anyone you want to get intimate with. Try curvy or just BBW in future. "

Well I class myself as curvy these days but wouldn't be very happy at being classed a BBW or, even less, as fat. T

XXX

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Perhaps we do all know that some words are euphemisms for other, more negative words. Nonetheless some words keep coming up in threads (and have done over the years) and they invariably have caused upset. So I cannot see the point in using them really... ?

I don't see the point in denial.

But I do see a point in rudeness.

"

I never see a point in rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As BBW just love it when guys refer to me as "a fat girl" !

Whilst it might be a fact, fat isn't a way to describe anyone you want to get intimate with. Try curvy or just BBW in future.

Well I class myself as curvy these days but wouldn't be very happy at being classed a BBW or, even less, as fat. T

XXX"

Well whatever you class yourself as ...great bod xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how different words can offend different people. Personally, "skinny" has always struck me as a really derogatory term - at least as offensive as "fat".

The euphemisms are even weirder sometimes - surely an hourglass is in a literal sense curvier than a sphere? Yet some properly enormous women like to describe themselves as "curvy". "BBW" is even more bizarre - unless obese women actually are automatically beautiful?

Ultimately they're all labels, sure they can be used with an intention to offend but often they're not. Seems a shame to focus so much on which ones we happen to like to use and like to hear used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curvy women! I don't use the word fat because people's perception of weight varies and that's a whole debate in itself!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

love to fuck fat girls classic! body of a god manners of a .....

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"i love it, you cannot beat loads of soft voluptuous flesh lying all over you, and ive found big girls fuck better than thin girls and their pussies are much wetter, mmmm..my mates rip the piss out of me but curious what other guys thought "

what a crock if fuckin shit. Never mind Taysudw, you're in fuckin la-la land!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

*Tayside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the bigger women.xx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"love to fuck fat girls classic! body of a god manners of a ..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a rubenesque woman! like my men to be stocky so i know i cant break them lol x "

Amen to that.

Although I find it hard to believe men who take such pride over their bodies can feel attracted round women who wobble. I know. I wobble

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By *stwo2011Couple
over a year ago

dundee

What's fat tho? I would draw the line at 40 Stone hahaha!! I'm 9 stone and have fat bits,beauty only skin deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

today its bbw's.tomorrow single guys.

next day tv's.

the merry go round bashing which is the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol "

love it that's exactly what i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a rubenesque woman! like my men to be stocky so i know i cant break them lol x

Amen to that.

Although I find it hard to believe men who take such pride over their bodies can feel attracted round women who wobble. I know. I wobble"

Well I only meet slim and slender guys so there is plenty out there who adore wobbles! That's why there is bbw porn

Not broken one yet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

love it that's exactly what i say "

Same here, I hate the term BBW, I am fat and that is that! To be honest fat is only a slur if you allow it to be. I dont really see the difference in someone referring to me as a bbw and calling me fat, they both mean the same bloody thing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't like the word BBW, I'm fat, yes it's not a nice word but its the truth lol

love it that's exactly what i say

Same here, I hate the term BBW, I am fat and that is that! To be honest fat is only a slur if you allow it to be. I dont really see the difference in someone referring to me as a bbw and calling me fat, they both mean the same bloody thing!!"

Cos the word fat is used in degrogrative situations like road rage.. They will say oi u fat slag.. They don't say oi u bbw slag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love curvy women! I don't use the word fat because people's perception of weight varies and that's a whole debate in itself! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's fat tho? I would draw the line at 40 Stone hahaha!! I'm 9 stone and have fat bits,beauty only skin deep"

I'm 9.5 stone and have wobbly bits, size 12 but wouldn't see myself as breakable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!."

Just becomes a notch on the bed post or a tick of a wish list for the young lads then doesn't it like the looking for older women does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a nice word**** my stupid iPhone grrr lol

I feel you there

I updated Facebook status that should of said

' isn't GOK lovely'

but my phone changed it to

'isn't cock lovely'

I got so much stick for that lol "

though to be honest, it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of the women who have posted on this thread i see nothing wrong with.

personalities are fine, if anything i can see why they get angry over some terms used against them.

no need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!."

If being bigger is what makes me more attractive to a guy then amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh my .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!.

Just becomes a notch on the bed post or a tick of a wish list for the young lads then doesn't it like the looking for older women does "

Isn't this site and nsa all about forfilling desires and fantasies, not finding happy ever afters :/

Are we not all bed notches regardless of age

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!."

But if the first thing I notice about a guy is his physique I can't (and don't) complain if that was the first thing he noticed about me.

I love playing with gym bunnies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!.

Just becomes a notch on the bed post or a tick of a wish list for the young lads then doesn't it like the looking for older women does

Isn't this site and nsa all about forfilling desires and fantasies, not finding happy ever afters :/

Are we not all bed notches regardless of age"

No we are not and that wasn't where I was coming from either hence my comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!.

Just becomes a notch on the bed post or a tick of a wish list for the young lads then doesn't it like the looking for older women does

Isn't this site and nsa all about forfilling desires and fantasies, not finding happy ever afters :/

Are we not all bed notches regardless of age

No we are not and that wasn't where I was coming from either hence my comment"

Where was u coming from then cos I understabd a bed notch to mean nsa sex..

And hence what comment :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but they both allude to the fact that a woman is overweight. If someone takes a fancy to me I don't want it to be just because I am fat!.

Just becomes a notch on the bed post or a tick of a wish list for the young lads then doesn't it like the looking for older women does

Isn't this site and nsa all about forfilling desires and fantasies, not finding happy ever afters :/

Are we not all bed notches regardless of age"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it more accepting for a toned bodied man to start a thread using descriptions of womens size that can upset some and also come out with inaccurate statements about sexual technique and arousal, than say a more softer tummied and older man?

This thread says it can. "

Excellent point!!

He did say "I think" though. That points to personal experience, not a generalisation across every woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made me laugh reading this ..

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By *ustylikesgentsCouple
over a year ago

North wales coast


"No, i couldn't imagine fucking a fat girl.

I much prefer to partake in mutual pleasure with a fuller figured honey, a rubenesque female, a woman with curves, a girl with a smooth rounded silhouette.

But that's just me."

style and class x

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

For me personally, I like to visit clubs and enjoy getting naked (sauna / jaquzzi )

So call me old fashioned... (and please excuse me) but women look good naked.

And if I happen to click with the person I am talking too? With mutural attraction then hopefully we carry on.

Gorgeous and sexy can be any size but also you can be too full of yourself as well.

So to me, naked chatting is the perfect leveller to the person.

Long darker hair and a fuller breast is an obvious drawn for me but will I discriminate against short haired smaller chested blondes?

Of course not.

That naked click and attraction is the key for me.

Nothing to do with size, shape, colour or chair length.

xxx

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton


"

That naked click and attraction is the key for me.

Nothing to do with size, shape, colour or chair length.

xxx"

Sorry....

hair length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure larger ladies must love this site because of the positive attention they get.that amount could never be matched in a regular pub or club.must be a good ego boost for them.

Not our thing but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think we're getting away from the topic itself, forget the fat word, i apologised to anyone i offended and got told off by plenty, i just wanted to know mens thoughts on fucking bigger women as opposed to slimmer girls...been with plenty big and small women and i wouldnt say bigger women struggle to get into positions at all...well maybe having their legs at their ears which is one of my favs, lol "

I have no problems getting my ankles to my ears, and it's one of my faves too.

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By *leasing_to_the_thighsMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I like both but within extremes i wouldnt say im a fan of bbw and i dont like girls who are skin and bone the middle ground is perfect curvy girl thin waist big ass and tits ill agree with u on the wetness though bigger girls in my oppinion have the wettest pussys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl rubbish

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

omg i dont like to meet guys whos fuck big girls yuck lol so i check their verif to see lol im not big girl or curvy just normal atletic with meat in the right places lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet seems more women are looking for guys with body's like the OP how about us average how's?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure larger ladies must love this site because of the positive attention they get.that amount could never be matched in a regular pub or club.must be a good ego boost for them.

Not our thing but each to their own."

Size 16 here with J cup breasts- I do just fine in bars and clubs. Thanks for the relentless efforts to try and make bigger ladies feel bad about themselves though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height weight proportional works best for me.... Not too much, not too little. But mosrly if she's into me and I'm into her, then its all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres somebody for everyone in here, thats the beauty of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think i prefere to be called a bbw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet seems more women are looking for guys with body's like the OP how about us average how's?? ??"

My OH is 6'2 and nearly 16 stone of pure Scottish meat lol so no I dont go for whippet thin and toned men. Prefer people to be real inside and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure larger ladies must love this site because of the positive attention they get.that amount could never be matched in a regular pub or club.must be a good ego boost for them.

Not our thing but each to their own."

Never had any issues getting attention in bars and clubs despite being fat, I guess it all comes down to most people not being narrow minded and only going for a body type, not the person that that body happens to contain.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"love to fuck fat girls classic! body of a god manners of a ..... "

Yeah but he can get away with it because all the BBWs have gone googly eyed over him..

Words are words people need to just stop taking offense to everything.

This thread has made me laugh...seriously !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Looks like it is The End

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