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The purpose of winks

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By *ermaine44 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Birmingham

For the people that use the wink feature, what is its purpose in your eyes?

I’ve received a few winks in the past week and naturally I have winked back at those I am interested in but then that tends to be the end of the interaction

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

To show interest in a profile.

Mrs

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Just an indication of liking what you have seen and an invitation to possibly check you out. If it's returned I'll often follow it up with a message thanking them for the wink and enquiring if they might like to converse. Often, the messages go unreplied, but such is the nature of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an indication of liking what you have seen and an invitation to possibly check you out. If it's returned I'll often follow it up with a message thanking them for the wink and enquiring if they might like to converse. Often, the messages go unreplied, but such is the nature of fab "

Or not even opened..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A way of showing interest and want to communicate. I normally message back, even if not interested just to let them know. But at times it’s good to chat.

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By *uperman4UMan
over a year ago

Derby

Since you can frequently waste a lot of time and effort constructing and sending decent messages that end up going unread, a quick wink is simply an easier way to show an interest and hopefully attract the attention of the person/people you like.

If they wink back then you can start a conversation.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

To show interest, if its not reciprocated we just move on...

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

They used the wrong vowel

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By *assiieneilxMan
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

To gain an instantaneous block

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By *enrythe8thMan
over a year ago

worthing

people on here should really lighten up and stop being so serious and bloody miserable...

It’s meant to be a bit of fun chasing whatever your after...

A release from the crap of the world...

It’s meant to be a shag/swingers site...

Who cares if your the winker or winkee...

Or put lol or haha after your txt....

Smile a bit!!!

It won’t hurt

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

It shows that you have an interest in the profile

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

It's to say hello and look at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it as a way to show we’re interested and if we get one back, we send a message introducing ourselves. We do get winks and when we wink back nothing happens, some times we’ll drop a message anyway but a lot of the time we just move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If we return a wink it's usually to acknowledge that we are interested. People rarely if ever respond. If we wink first it's to show tentative interest, again people rarely if ever respond

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Show interest but mainly a bit of fun

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Sorry I’ve just got something in my eye

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then "

You must get an awful lot of winks

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then

You must get an awful lot of winks "

You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink to me is to show initial interest. If I’m interested I respond with a wink and maybe a nice message

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then

You must get an awful lot of winks

You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down. "

I squirmed a bit when I read about neutering men then.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I just find winks are usually from people miles away ,who don't fit what I'm after .so I don't often look at them now.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For me, it is a time saving thing.

It saves me the time to write a message to say I like your profile, and saving your time reading and deleting the message.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then

You must get an awful lot of winks

You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down.

I squirmed a bit when I read about neutering men then. "

It would certainly solve a few of society problems that’s for sure if we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If winks are to show interest in a profile, why not also a message on top of it?

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