FabSwingers.com forum: Single women meeting guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I work away a lot, leaving my man on his own, give him full permission to have another woman over, as long as it’s filmed and sent to me so I can enjoy it too! We have a lot of verifications, and happy to verify on snap, but everyone gets put off by the fact they’re meeting just him. Even tho I do vixen hotwifing myself so, it’s just fair is fair to me. We love watching eachother with other people even on video because we love filming! Any advice how to approach?

Or if you’re interested DM & wink

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm so weary of couples profiles that state only the male is playing with or without the females knowledge/consent. It's a trick used by single males who set up a fake couples profile and give the usual excuses as to why the imaginary wife isn't playing.

I'm not in any way suggesting that this is the case with yourself. You're obviously genuine. But there's a plethora of fake couples accounts on here these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so weary of couples profiles that state only the male is playing with or without the females knowledge/consent. It's a trick used by single males who set up a fake couples profile and give the usual excuses as to why the imaginary wife isn't playing.

I'm not in any way suggesting that this is the case with yourself. You're obviously genuine. But there's a plethora of fake couples accounts on here these days."

^^^this^^^

From my own perspective if he’s playing as a single I’d recommend he tries having a personal profile as well as your couples one for when he meets alone. There’s o much of this that even the genuine people such as yourselves will be lumped with the bad eggs, sorry

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I'm not in any way suggesting that this is the case with yourself. You're obviously genuine. But there's a plethora of fake couples accounts on here these days."

As a man looking to meet with a couple I have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also unsure of couples profiles playing alone.

Also, the filming of it would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good but not so sure about the filming tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The filming would be a huge turn off

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

ive found in the past that men that are part of a swinging couple generally worse than single guys in many ways ... plus theres those that are not part of couples and worse of all there are those who dont want there swinging partner to know at all ...

same in clubs i find its nearly always the guys of couples who play up not the single guy they think they can touvh just because they are part of a couple they dont take no as a answer ..

not all of course but they do tend to stand out more ... thats my take anyway

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

1 as said lots of fake accounts try this scenario

2 I won’t enable cheating which this setup would also make me think was a possibility. Only way around that would be to meet/talk to you & get confirmation of your consent

3 video would put me off too, wouldn’t trust that anonymity was ensured and that it wouldn’t end up online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single man it’s hard to get acknowledged let alone get a conversation from some of you people.. but I do understand on where you women are coming from..

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

As well as the issues mentioned by others. Largest of course being the singles faking as couples so often it's hard to believe a single male of the couple isn't just a single male.

In my opinion. Women just aren't as into the hot husband thing as men are hot wife.

Men (not all of course) love the thought of sleeping with another man's wife. It's a serious turn on.

I suspect that not nearly as many women are turned on by this and would therefore not seek out the male half of the couple.

Combined with the obvious fact single women are so hugely outnumbered on here and then able to be selective about their partners.

I think all of this factors in to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As well as the issues mentioned by others. Largest of course being the singles faking as couples so often it's hard to believe a single male of the couple isn't just a single male.

In my opinion. Women just aren't as into the hot husband thing as men are hot wife.

Men (not all of course) love the thought of sleeping with another man's wife. It's a serious turn on.

I suspect that not nearly as many women are turned on by this and would therefore not seek out the male half of the couple.

Combined with the obvious fact single women are so hugely outnumbered on here and then able to be selective about their partners.

I think all of this factors in to it.

Agree with this. I’d much rather seek out a single man than a male from a couple.

As my husband only likes to watch/join in with me it’s the best fit for us. Have had a few male half’s from coupes wanting to play but for some reason just wasn’t feeling it that same as a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also unsure of couples profiles playing alone.

Also, the filming of it would put me off. "

This.

There is an effectively unlimited supply of men on here - there's no reason if meeting just a man I'd pick an attached one. It wd be hot if you watched in real life - but knowing you'd just be watching remotely / at another time wd be a huge turn off, sry.

You might find a couple you can play with together and separately easier to find, I guess?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree the filming won't be for all & that will put people off.

My other half Is free to meet alone and has his own profile ,plus we have our joint one.

He fills me in on his meets ,but we wouldn't expect other women to be comfortable being filmed.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd also maybe suggest him getting his own profile ,as your current one is very female dominated .

If he sets his own up with a few good pics of himself and cross references the couples one ,it may help too.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris, pictures and evidence of you playing as a hotwife or couple would be absolutely irrelevant to us OP in terms of meeting him alone.

We are extremely wary of any profile (however genuine) that is anything other than a single guy, that promotes the guy playing alone, as have had some undesirable experiences. For similar reasons, we have a couples account for fun/bants/sharing and arranging occasional meets as a couple, but Pumpkin arranges everything solo through her singles account.

Our advice would be that he sets up a single male account oriented around him playing alone, and reference the fact that you also have a couples account to show good faith.

Do keep in mind that that puts him in the same pool/ratio of guys:women and he’s unlikely to get the same kind of attention that you do on here as a female.

Hope your luck improves x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes completely get this! mine is generally because I work away so I want my mr to have fun too even if was with a couple who was willing to film and send to me! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah a singles account maybe is a good idea! Thanks maybe we will take this on board!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any filming would be mentioned before meet, so no one is put into an uncomfortable position. This is our dynamic I prefer to see rather than to hear about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any filming would be mentioned before meet, so no one is put into an uncomfortable position. This is our dynamic I prefer to see rather than to hear about it

I think "hear about it" is him describing it to you.

Have you considered audio recordings instead of video? I've got a couple and they are easily as hot as the videos of play sessions.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I prefer a message from a couples profile saying play alone.

But I’d expect a Snapchat live video with both of you to say it’s okay.

I also wouldn’t video/ pics but that’s just personal preference.

Single man profiles saying they have permission is 90% of fab lol

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