FabSwingers.com forum: Rough or gentle?

By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'll go first... Rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough sex

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Gentle by preference, but very passionate!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends on mood, company and circumstance.

Variety is good

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Never rough

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By *illinghumbleMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Depends on mood, company and circumstance.

Variety is good

Really depends on the mood dosn’t it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Really depends on the mood dosn’t it "

Absolutely it does.

Sometimes I want hands around my throat while they fuck me like they hate me. Sometimes I want to spend time softly exploring each others bodies and snuggling in and so many kisses. Sometimes I want to be howling with laughter throughout.

Honestly, I probably tend more towards the former. But I have no interest in going that rough with people I don't know.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I do enjoy choking, but needs some trust to be established to be comfortable

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By *oupleformeetCouple
over a year ago

london

You tell us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the mood but I prefer it gentle and passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ruled by the hormones of my monthly cycle. Rough at the start to middle of the month, gentle nearer the end , cuddles only the last few days . Repeat. So yeah depends on the mood. Beginning of the month high testosterone levels , end of the month high estrogen levels. The mood changes because of the hormones in my brain. Which cuts when I want to meet significantly. I never get gentle sex on here because I'm not that horny to bother meeting at that time of the month. It's when I'm feeling sexually frustrated, when my fantasies turn to gang bangs and I have the desire fuck for days! That's when I meet.

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Like music and food depends on how the mood grabs you

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

Depends on connection with the other person

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"You tell us xx"

You tell us xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Gentle leading to rough can't rush it

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Right now? Rough.

Grab me by the throat, push me against the wall, tear my underwear off and fuck me like your life depends on it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Gentle to rough and mix it up. All animal

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Gentle leading to rough can't rush it"

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Gentle by preference, but very passionate!"

Perfect...

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

depends on what mood we are in and who is joining us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood..

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"depends on what mood we are in and who is joining us"

I think the "mood" is the key answer

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely depends on the mood, sometimes I crave closeness and others I want to be fucked.

Mrs

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By *eiled VixenCouple
over a year ago

Bath

Rough...and hard! X

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Depends on mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person(s) and on the mood, the vibe.

I like variety, one night I'll want gentle, love me sex then next I'll want you to slap my arse and give it to me good and hard

So no, I couldn't just choose the one.

Miss S x

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Best of Boths then

"Depends on the person(s) and on the mood, the vibe.

I like variety, one night I'll want gentle, love me sex then next I'll want you to slap my arse and give it to me good and hard

So no, I couldn't just choose the one.

Miss S x"

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

Mood, trust, experience with that person/persons.

Combination of things to lead, we personally stray to passionate over rough, but sometimes... passionate gets passionate and a bit rough.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Very rough

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Very rough"

My man!

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By *aite5793Man
over a year ago

stockton

Either depending on mood & scenario

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

Depends on the mood and who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually rough

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Usually rough

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Both! They can be slow and dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of lady gaga, "baby when it's love, if it's not rough, it isn't fun!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rougher the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough! A bit of variety is nice but generally rougher the better for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of Boths then

Depends on the person(s) and on the mood, the vibe.

I like variety, one night I'll want gentle, love me sex then next I'll want you to slap my arse and give it to me good and hard

So no, I couldn't just choose the one.

Miss S x"

Exactly

Miss S x

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Gentle, going into rough, maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Gentle with the odd bit of pounding to mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like music and food depends on how the mood grabs you "

All about moods. That switch has to be flicked. If only men knew its whereabouts, some do i guess

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Depends on my mood, the circumstances, the person, whether it's with someone I know or a newbie.

So many factors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone answer why a guy rough fucks you in the pussy but as so as he goes for anal it all slow and gentle, but once back in the pussy it all bang bang bang again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rough all day long x hubby is a gentle lover so nice to experience the opposite, brings the best out of me xx

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Either I 'll go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough,gentle,Roughroughrough!!! Manybe some gentleness. Hard handed deep rough!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone answer why a guy rough fucks you in the pussy but as so as he goes for anal it all slow and gentle, but once back in the pussy it all bang bang bang again?

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I smash it rough in the ass aswell. Once entered!! Pussy gets pounded good deep rough. Alot! BANG,BANG BANG.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Start gentle always end rough

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
over a year ago

"rough all day long x hubby is a gentle lover so nice to experience the opposite, brings the best out of me xx"

Snap x

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Also depends on the mood with me but do prefer Rough and hard

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Gentle

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

With hubby it’s I gentle and loving but with others love it rough and good pounding

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Right now? Rough.

Grab me by the throat, push me against the wall, tear my underwear off and fuck me like your life depends on it.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first... Rough"

I let the mood take control sometimes rough and sometimes gentle

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Relaxed is the term I use rather than gentle or rough.

Though I have found guys of certain age groups often try get choky/ throaty with me sometimes which is uncalled for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough - love to give a good pounding.

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Relaxed is the term I use rather than gentle or rough.

Though I have found guys of certain age groups often try get choky/ throaty with me sometimes which is uncalled for "

Relaxed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relaxed is the term I use rather than gentle or rough.

Though I have found guys of certain age groups often try get choky/ throaty with me sometimes which is uncalled for "

Dominance something to prove,maybe.

Angry,pent up. Letting off steam!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person.

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"With hubby it’s I gentle and loving but with others love it rough and good pounding

Boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the mood of the day and the people I'm with. Rough is great but also can't beat the slow, sleepy sex of a Sunday morning.

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By *ineapple_paradiseWoman
over a year ago

South Woodham Ferrers

Well I say gentle then in the moment lose the plot and like it hard and rough lol x

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Bit of both

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Is both allowed, surely you can do both in a good play session?

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

Deep hard fucking! Nothing beats the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend on my mood / who I'm with etc

However I do tend to prefer it rough and very hard

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

both at the right times xxx Anne

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Deep hard fucking! Nothing beats the feeling "

Hallelujah!!

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

For normal home life I have nice gentle love making. If on a meet from here then I like the exact opposite and really enjoy it rough. Plenty of bum spanking, hair pulling, throat grabbing, hard pounding fun. Variety is the spice of life, so they say

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Depends on the situation, position and the mood for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always depends on the mood location and person I'm with x

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By *rcuriouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Really depends on the mood dosn’t it

Absolutely it does.

Honestly, I probably tend more towards the former. But I have no interest in going that rough with people I don't know."

??! You can have all types in the same session. Sometimes plain old missionary is perfect looking eachother in the eyes soft and gentle, other times spanked, hands around throat and fucked raw left in a puddle of fluids… all are great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mixed

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Certainly mix it up

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

Depending on they mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depending on they mood "

Totally agree, mood and environment decides this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough for me

Miss P

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

A mix. Quite enjoy the slow and sensual followed by fast and hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs loves it rough and hard

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

Rough and wild

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By *ess007Woman
over a year ago

Blackpool

Rough for me

Works every time

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Slow, gentle and passionate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first... Rough"

There's a time and a place for both, as far as I'm concerned lol. I absolutely love being fucked like a dirty little slut, but equally I love just being passionate, and close and making love - just depends on our mood at that time

Mrs

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Depends on what mood we're both in sometimes we like it slow and sensual and other times it can't be rough enough but only with that certain level of trust

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By *ature male OldhamMan
over a year ago

Royton nr Oldham

I love both...depends on the partner (s ) and situation

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By *eus10Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Happy with either, but can't really beat Rough

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

A mixture of both

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

"Depends on mood, company and circumstance.

Variety is good

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

I love both but if I had to choose one it would be tough X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to the mood ain’t it. But most times it always starts gently but then soon becomes rough and hard

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Gentle x

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Gentle x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really depends on the mood dosn’t it

Absolutely it does.

Honestly, I probably tend more towards the former. But I have no interest in going that rough with people I don't know."

^^^ exactly

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow

A bit of both usually works well. Start gentle and get a bit rougher as time goes on and his climax gets closer. But there is rough/sensual and then there is rough/downright painful. Rough/sensual every time please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough it is never like in Romantic movies for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, usually a little rough at night, very gentle the morning after.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Slow, sensual, exploring for me.. wham bam leaves me unfulfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do really enjoy rough sex but not bordering on painful. Intense, passionate and firm is best with a little choking thrown in. Also love a slow, sensual, taking our time with each other coming together. So I guess as stated above, depends on the mood. (T)

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Always love a good hard rough seeing to lol

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Rough it is never like in Romantic movies for me. "

Rough is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off gentle .. build a rhythm … then finish like the clappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I’m feeling and how the vibe is between us

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

"Right now? Rough.

Grab me by the throat, push me against the wall, tear my underwear off and fuck me like your life depends on it.

Yes please!

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By *Oral_loverMan
over a year ago

Denham

Bit of both, can't beat a good deep hard fuck with some hair pulling.

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