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By *evonrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Spent a weekend chatting to someone who seemed genuine, was very flirty and had been verified. Promises were made and given but surprisingly today that profile has vanished! Seems like a common occurrence and bizarre really, why not just ignore or block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not that uncommon on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not uncommon unfortunately just take it on the chin and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not uncommon unfortunately just take it on the chin and move on"

Well said

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Happens all the time.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

All the time

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Fantasists abound.

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Yeah, I’ve had this happen to me and I’ve only been on fab for about 5 mins.

Also, I am getting confused about read but not deleted messages. Had a few promising chats but then the woman/couple just doesn’t reply but also doesn’t delete the message(s). Are they just putting me on hold for a bit? Surely if it’s a no, then they would just delete?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Yeah, I’ve had this happen to me and I’ve only been on fab for about 5 mins.

Also, I am getting confused about read but not deleted messages. Had a few promising chats but then the woman/couple just doesn’t reply but also doesn’t delete the message(s). Are they just putting me on hold for a bit? Surely if it’s a no, then they would just delete?"

Don’t try to be logical. You just have to let go. Not easy I know

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By *evonrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Not uncommon unfortunately just take it on the chin and move on"

Ha ha, “ taking it on the chin” was just one of a number of promises made!!

Nice to hear from a maid though….!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I’ve had this happen to me and I’ve only been on fab for about 5 mins.

Also, I am getting confused about read but not deleted messages. Had a few promising chats but then the woman/couple just doesn’t reply but also doesn’t delete the message(s). Are they just putting me on hold for a bit? Surely if it’s a no, then they would just delete?"

I do this. Usually I’ve either been interrupted and lost track, or leave it as a message I want to reply to either when in a different frame of mind or think of a decent reply. But doesn’t hurt to pick it up with a friendly message to see if they want to continue the convo after a few days of silence.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Could be any number of reasons they left fab.

They changed their mind ,life got in the way,they weren't single etc

It happens alot, to women too

Try not to dwell on it.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Could be any number of reasons they left fab.

They changed their mind ,life got in the way,they weren't single etc

"

You also find that some women's/couple's profiles are just sad lonely men. Therefore there's never any chance of a meet anyway. Sad but true.

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

People get horny and want to meet st the time, then get the jitters and delete their profile all the time. I reckon most couples definitely start that way.

This is a swinging site, not a dating site. If you are offended by meets not happening, you might be in the wrong place

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead


"Could be any number of reasons they left fab.

They changed their mind ,life got in the way,they weren't single etc

You also find that some women's/couple's profiles are just sad lonely men. Therefore there's never any chance of a meet anyway. Sad but true.

"

very true, this has been the case for me many times

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Standard behaviour on here now. Drier than the desert these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the "saved" button when I'm chatting to someone I like, I also put them in my hotlist, 6 people who I've been chatting to have deleted their accounts in the past 3 weeks

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"I use the "saved" button when I'm chatting to someone I like, I also put them in my hotlist, 6 people who I've been chatting to have deleted their accounts in the past 3 weeks "

Oh dear this doesn't bode well for me on that strike rate - deletion imminent

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Women get literally hundreds of messages, some do get lost in the ether

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By *evonrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Could be any number of reasons they left fab.

They changed their mind ,life got in the way,they weren't single etc

You also find that some women's/couple's profiles are just sad lonely men. Therefore there's never any chance of a meet anyway. Sad but true.

"

Tha5 certainly occurred to me. It was the veris that confused me though, although I guess if you’re really duplicitous you have a couple of accounts and self-verify?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me yesterday on kik

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By *evonrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I can imagine that making it into your saved box would be quite a cause for celebration!

Shame we can’t chat….

xx

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I have been ghosted more times then I have actually met people (not including socials).

I just say to myself. it comes with the territory and just keep on going

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

East Yorkie


"Spent a weekend chatting to someone who seemed genuine, was very flirty and had been verified. Promises were made and given but surprisingly today that profile has vanished! Seems like a common occurrence and bizarre really, why not just ignore or block?"

Happens all the time and sometimes youve just not gotta take it personally.

Some people just cant be honest and say “ sorry its working and your not my type. Happened to me and got 300 messages and was having right laugh etc. Then all of a sudden blocked without explanation. Took it very personally and slumped me for a while.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Just happened to me again, contacted by a couple, told me to send my number and they would meet me at a certain hotel in a certain local place. I pointed out that there wasn’t a hotel of that name in that town, I was blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spent a weekend chatting to someone who seemed genuine, was very flirty and had been verified. Promises were made and given but surprisingly today that profile has vanished! Seems like a common occurrence and bizarre really, why not just ignore or block?"

Welcome to fab, the struggle is real, give it no mind n move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that ghosting or just someone deleting their profile?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

its normal people lose interest our youve been fooled and was talking to a guy wanking ...one thing tho you've not been ghosted being ghosted is someone you know very well dropping you and disappearing like a girlfriend or long term friend ..

nothing is real on this scene until its really happening and sadly because of the very over abundance of men its men that suffer most ...

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Got ghosted after about three months of chatting and what I thought was a successful meet…..it’s a confidence knock for a while to be honest but you have to just move on (H)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just seems to be one of these things on here...don't take it personally

Mrs

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By *evonrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"its normal people lose interest our youve been fooled and was talking to a guy wanking ...one thing tho you've not been ghosted being ghosted is someone you know very well dropping you and disappearing like a girlfriend or long term friend ..

nothing is real on this scene until its really happening and sadly because of the very over abundance of men its men that suffer most ..."

Yes thanks for putting me right on that. Can’t imagine how anyone who has managed to chat to some of the lovely profiles on here ( yours included) would ever be so stupid as to just stop chatting to them…..but I guess it takes all sorts!

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"Got ghosted after about three months of chatting and what I thought was a successful meet…..it’s a confidence knock for a while to be honest but you have to just move on (H)"

Nothing about you is average H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I’ve had this happen to me and I’ve only been on fab for about 5 mins.

Also, I am getting confused about read but not deleted messages. Had a few promising chats but then the woman/couple just doesn’t reply but also doesn’t delete the message(s). Are they just putting me on hold for a bit? Surely if it’s a no, then they would just delete?"

I read every message but rarely delete them, no need to, just read it and move on (when they don't add a pic/meet what I'm after etc)

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Got ghosted after about three months of chatting and what I thought was a successful meet…..it’s a confidence knock for a while to be honest but you have to just move on (H)

Nothing about you is average H x"

Thanks

I felt very much below average after being ghosted but a far more successful meet with a follow up has helped

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"Got ghosted after about three months of chatting and what I thought was a successful meet…..it’s a confidence knock for a while to be honest but you have to just move on (H)

Nothing about you is average H x

Thanks

I felt very much below average after being ghosted but a far more successful meet with a follow up has helped "

You are an absolute delight darling

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

They could've been put off by someone else you have to remember most people could be chatting with more than one and it could've been something that they said or more then just one. It's not easy for a woman when she just joining and gets hounded by loads of random messages not all of them could be pleasant

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