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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After one, two or three (maybe more) lady wanks in the bath...

How many people need to watch porn/people on cams/dirty talk or have to think about something you enjoy to get off?

Is it different for men and women?

Most of the time I don't need anything and can just enjoy it.

Dicuss, I'm intrigued...

Miss S x

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By *lex_xxx_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Chester le Street

As a man who needs to wank everyday it depends really on my mood. Sometimes I'm so horny I can do it straight off with no aids. If I'm wanting to fantasise about something in particular though I use porn.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I just think about past meets and I'm instantly off on one.....

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I just think about past meets and I'm instantly off on one....."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that over the years it takes something a bit more kinky to really turn me on.

Maybe I've built up a tolerance to vanilla.

Filthy chat or being teased by a woman, or thinking about fucking a married woman with her husband watching seem to get me going best.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Depends on my horny mind. Sometimes one is enough for the day. Sometimes i can get ready for another bash within half hour.

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By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants

I wank practically every day, even if I've got meets or hubby is sorting me out. Sometimes I watch porn but often I don't need anything except my imagination...it can be all sorts that can keep me "entertained"....hubby, the anticipation of a meet to come or perhaps one I've had. Occasionally. I won't be thinking of anything at all except the feeling I'm giving myself....

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After one, two or three (maybe more) lady wanks in the bath...

How many people need to watch porn/people on cams/dirty talk or have to think about something you enjoy to get off?

Is it different for men and women?

Most of the time I don't need anything and can just enjoy it.

Dicuss, I'm intrigued...

Miss S x"

I think your latest pic in the bath is sufficient. Was that pre, in-between, or post wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly to don’t need to watch anything or have any special toys and probably once a week is fine for me but a nice video or particularly an erotic story/audio book will always help me along hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wank practically every day, even if I've got meets or hubby is sorting me out. Sometimes I watch porn but often I don't need anything except my imagination...it can be all sorts that can keep me "entertained"....hubby, the anticipation of a meet to come or perhaps one I've had. Occasionally. I won't be thinking of anything at all except the feeling I'm giving myself....

Mrs x"

I'm the same in the sense that u don't have to think of anything and just enjoy the moment and the feelings.

Sometimes like you said it's nice to fantasise, think of things but most of the time I am just blank almost

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After one, two or three (maybe more) lady wanks in the bath...

How many people need to watch porn/people on cams/dirty talk or have to think about something you enjoy to get off?

Is it different for men and women?

Most of the time I don't need anything and can just enjoy it.

Dicuss, I'm intrigued...

Miss S x

I think your latest pic in the bath is sufficient. Was that pre, in-between, or post wank? "

Thank you

It was pre-wank, doubt I could hold my legs in the position long enough for a picture post-wank haha

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly to don’t need to watch anything or have any special toys and probably once a week is fine for me but a nice video or particularly an erotic story/audio book will always help me along hehe "

I think a lot of women it seems are like that.

Men on the other hand I feel need more help on their way?

Miss S x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

East Yorkie


"I just think about past meets and I'm instantly off on one....."

Its 50/50 really sometimes im just in that mood and can go.

Sometimes some assistance required especially if i fancy a long wet play

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I certainly to don’t need to watch anything or have any special toys and probably once a week is fine for me but a nice video or particularly an erotic story/audio book will always help me along hehe

I think a lot of women it seems are like that.

Men on the other hand I feel need more help on their way?

Miss S x"

Yes we do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly to don’t need to watch anything or have any special toys and probably once a week is fine for me but a nice video or particularly an erotic story/audio book will always help me along hehe

I think a lot of women it seems are like that.

Men on the other hand I feel need more help on their way?

Miss S x

Yes we do lol"

I wonder why though? What makes us/me different?

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch porn to get off, occasionally I will dirty talk with my Dominant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I watch porn to get off, occasionally I will dirty talk with my Dominant. "

Is that everytime?

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies. Some days horny enough to just go for it, more often than not i either chat to people or porn, type depending on mood!

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By *amueljMan
over a year ago

Dorset

In my opinion, men are much more stimulated by visuals, where as a lady will enjoy reading erotica or using her imagination

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

I fantasise about fucking a married woman whe her husband watches and or listens from spare room

Also fantasise about me and the wife being out together and the hubby's are at home unaware

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"In my opinion, men are much more stimulated by visuals, where as a lady will enjoy reading erotica or using her imagination "

Some truth in that, I never watch porn, my mind is corrupted enough with my memory

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I love watching good quality porn and I love reading erotica. On the other hand, it is also amazing when you just allow yourself the headspace to let your thoughts flow to whichever erotic topics they may.

I do think some people become dependant on porn though and it becomes like a drug. Scientifically it works just like a drug...

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By *amueljMan
over a year ago

Dorset


"In my opinion, men are much more stimulated by visuals, where as a lady will enjoy reading erotica or using her imagination

Some truth in that, I never watch porn, my mind is corrupted enough with my memory "

That mind sounds like a good place to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love watching good quality porn and I love reading erotica. On the other hand, it is also amazing when you just allow yourself the headspace to let your thoughts flow to whichever erotic topics they may.

I do think some people become dependant on porn though and it becomes like a drug. Scientifically it works just like a drug..."

What would you say is good quality porn? The type that is properly filmed out with a story etc?

Yeah, it's mad how it can be almost like a drug to some people. Not a good road to go down I can imagine.

Miss S x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"In my opinion, men are much more stimulated by visuals, where as a lady will enjoy reading erotica or using her imagination

Some truth in that, I never watch porn, my mind is corrupted enough with my memory

That mind sounds like a good place to be "

Trust me on this, If I went to see a psychologist I'd possibly make their head spin clean around with my recollections

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness

All I need to do is think of the mrs. Either what we get up to, or what she gets up to with someone on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I need to do is think of the mrs. Either what we get up to, or what she gets up to with someone on a meet. "

This is nice

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature cuckold porn & mmf..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mature cuckold porn & mmf.."

Can you without it or no?

Miss S x

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Think one of the lucky ones as don’t even need to wank, I can cum without being touched, just words or actions can make me cum

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I tend to memory wank, I rarely watch porn, saying that I haven't had a wank in ages.

Mrs

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"I love watching good quality porn and I love reading erotica. On the other hand, it is also amazing when you just allow yourself the headspace to let your thoughts flow to whichever erotic topics they may.

I do think some people become dependant on porn though and it becomes like a drug. Scientifically it works just like a drug...

What would you say is good quality porn? The type that is properly filmed out with a story etc?

Yeah, it's mad how it can be almost like a drug to some people. Not a good road to go down I can imagine.

Miss S x"

Good quality production, good cinematography, a good story, but also something which focuses a lot on nuances of emotional expressions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to memory wank, I rarely watch porn, saying that I haven't had a wank in ages.

Mrs "

Me neither, soon changed that today

Needs must when you have rare alone time

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love watching good quality porn and I love reading erotica. On the other hand, it is also amazing when you just allow yourself the headspace to let your thoughts flow to whichever erotic topics they may.

I do think some people become dependant on porn though and it becomes like a drug. Scientifically it works just like a drug...

What would you say is good quality porn? The type that is properly filmed out with a story etc?

Yeah, it's mad how it can be almost like a drug to some people. Not a good road to go down I can imagine.

Miss S x

Good quality production, good cinematography, a good story, but also something which focuses a lot on nuances of emotional expressions. "

See I find some of them too scripted and not a turn on.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture and it depends on my mood! Sometimes I can have a great wank just with my mind to help and other times I have fun watching porn, chatting and edging! Both are great fun

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The mind is a wonderous thing ... biggest sex organ in the body ... can do amazing things to the libido ...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm 100% focused on the actual sensation rather than a visual or fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 100% focused on the actual sensation rather than a visual or fantasy."

Yeah same as me then, didn't know if I was the odd one out

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The mind is a wonderous thing ... biggest sex organ in the body ... can do amazing things to the libido ... "

Definitely

Miss S x

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"I'm 100% focused on the actual sensation rather than a visual or fantasy."

Same here, glad I'm not the only one, otherwise I can't cum. X k x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need stimulus...stimuli? Whatever. I need porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am totally into the fantasy. The porn that runs in my mind is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally into the fantasy. The porn that runs in my mind is amazing "

Using the past memories saved up top

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"I am totally into the fantasy. The porn that runs in my mind is amazing

Using the past memories saved up top "

Not necessarily. I can actually totally make things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagination or I really enjoy watching the videos we’ve made

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to watch anything to get me off, I always think about things that Mr and I have gotten up to. If I watch our vids or occasionally porn, I'll cum in about a minute

Mrs

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