FabSwingers.com forum: the 'Str8' debate

By *andy T.V. OP TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

This has been talked about in another thread about TV's but....... I reckon it could do with a thread if its own.

Guys;

Some of you out there call yourself straight but have Couples (mm) Men

on your 'looking for' list.

Will just one of you explain that??

I'm not talking about str8 guys that like TV's.....I' m perfectly OK with that...except for the ones that, when u meet, just want to suck you and even ask to be fucked !! Oh what a turn off !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as straight because I am 98% of the time. I do, however, enjoy bi-mmf threesomes on occasion.

Situationally-bi is a good description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also get a lot of straight men looking at my profile, getting in touch and having m2m sex.

The truth is they'd prefer a female to play with, but the reality is women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place.

So in the true spirit of them just wanting to get their kicks, any port in a storm

I challenge any man to say he hasn't had at least one homo-erotic thought in his life

Some follow that through to actions and are comfortable with it, some dream of doing something about it and others are in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone back and forth with putting 'straight' or 'bisexual' in my profile. Not because I'm confused but because in my experience, people have been very quick to judge when I've put bisexual... couples assume this means that I really want a session with the man when in fact I'm more interested in 'str8' swinging sessions. Argh... why can't we all just say we're 'sexual'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've gone back and forth with putting 'straight' or 'bisexual' in my profile. Not because I'm confused but because in my experience, people have been very quick to judge when I've put bisexual... couples assume this means that I really want a session with the man when in fact I'm more interested in 'str8' swinging sessions. Argh... why can't we all just say we're 'sexual'

Completely agree. People attach labels and make inaccurate assumptions. You stated the most common in your post.

That being said, its all down to personal preference at the end of the day and I'd rather people were honest so no ones time is wasted.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Sometime I like to see wife with more than one guy ,ok at clubs and party's,but if we want private meet I put mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so what are you doing?

bullying people into changing their profile to suit you?

why dont you just leave people alone.

if someone is interested in meeting they will make contact or should that also be run through you first?

who made you god? if someone wishes to display straight,bi,gay ,alien whatever.

it has nothing to do with you if your not interested in meeting them.

to many people are posting must do this or must have that threads.

its another form of bullying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been talked about in another thread about TV's but....... I reckon it could do with a thread if its own.

Guys;

Some of you out there call yourself straight but have Couples (mm) Men

on your 'looking for' list.

Will just one of you explain that??

I'm not talking about str8 guys that like TV's.....I' m perfectly OK with that...except for the ones that, when u meet, just want to suck you and even ask to be fucked !! Oh what a turn off !

Maybe they don't read what they are clicking preoperly and just think of a couple as mf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so what are you doing?

bullying people into changing their profile to suit you?

why dont you just leave people alone.

if someone is interested in meeting they will make contact or should that also be run through you first?

who made you god? if someone wishes to display straight,bi,gay ,alien whatever.

it has nothing to do with you if your not interested in meeting them.

to many people are posting must do this or must have that threads.

its another form of bullying."

Huh? Many people ask questions about what people have on their profile but don't get such rubbish written on the thread! Maybe cos the op isn't female??

Also a lil pot calling the kettle blac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my profile says straight.

my best mate is a gay man. i go to parties which have tv's and gay men and women at them and also straight people.

i respect all of them and dont stand there going 'why you in a dress, why you in a dress' over and over.

it gets pretty boring and pathetic. let people live and do what they please.

this is not 1938 germany.

i may sound like im having a go. trust me im not. just i have friends who get sick of being questioned because of a lifestyle choice and feel bullied by people constantly asking questions about them.

you should go to one of these fetish clubs or parties and see for yourself just how normal people are and happy to be among like minded others.

no wonder so many people have difficulty coming out.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"I class myself as straight because I am 98% of the time. I do, however, enjoy bi-mmf threesomes on occasion.

Situationally-bi is a good description."

This really, I have had one guy that came to play with us and the mood took me so i had a fiddle and tried oral, was not really fussed either way to be totally honest but thats not to say it would not happen again in the right circumstances.

I am no way homophobic, love DP with the wife and she if she can fit them in t 2 cocks in her mouth at same time.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We're always amazed that people take the time to read the profiles of people who contribute to these forums, then criticise them because they haven't got this, that or the other included. Seems some people don't have an awful lot to do with their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my profile says straight.

my best mate is a gay man. i go to parties which have tv's and gay men and women at them and also straight people.

i respect all of them and dont stand there going 'why you in a dress, why you in a dress' over and over.

it gets pretty boring and pathetic. let people live and do what they please.

this is not 1938 germany.

i may sound like im having a go. trust me im not. just i have friends who get sick of being questioned because of a lifestyle choice and feel bullied by people constantly asking questions about them.

you should go to one of these fetish clubs or parties and see for yourself just how normal people are and happy to be among like minded others.

no wonder so many people have difficulty coming out."

I think u have really misunderstood the OP!

Noone is being put down for being bi or gay.. The OP is a tv for goodness sake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mr here lol , 100% str8 , pussy , tits , fems ass, fmf's , but I love a blow job and happy to let a guy suck me off in front of the mrs, a blow n go lol no reciprication . 100 % str8 .

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I was going to say that it is probably a case of overeager ticking of boxes on a profile (it happens), but judging by some responses here, maybe not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mandy I don't not want you thinking I'm being nasty or aggressive towards you.

if you felt I was I'm sorry.

forums will always have different opinions and again if I was out of line I am sorry

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"We're always amazed that people take the time to read the profiles of people who contribute to these forums, then criticise them because they haven't got this, that or the other included. Seems some people don't have an awful lot to do with their time?

Some are even worse than that and analyse all your pasts posts to make sure you're being consistant or to find flaws in your posts! To quote that appauling deviant Soxy, 'It boils my piss'

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Sexuality is a very wide spectrum not a neat row of boxes we all fit in.

I honestly don't think that simple labels like 'bi' or 'bi-curious' are that clear cut - it seems a lot of men and women are up for 'a dabble' in a group situation, but never even consider it for a one on one.

Add the influences of society, peer pressure and the media to the mix and it's even more complex.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to answer the OP, the selection of MM is usually a mistake when making the selection by a straight guy.

as far as labels, it is a sex site where people choose to play with sexually compatible others. If someone is bi playful, cool...... just don't write to people who choose not to play with Bi guys as that 'playfulness' can not be the excuse for dishonesty.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

or if they write to you because on your profile as you declare straight, be honest about your 'playfullness'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Bi, i get a great deal of fun fom sucking cock and a male sucking mine as i do if the other peson was female.

I love MMF 3 bodies are much better than 2.

If anyone has a hang up about my bexexuality then fine im certainly never going to keep changing my profile becuase some couples dont like it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"to answer the OP, the selection of MM is usually a mistake when making the selection by a straight guy."

I have on my looking for list Couples (MM) and get messaged by Couples (MF) because I honestly don't think they see the last bit.

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By *TR8HUNTERMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

i dont get str8 guys who meet cds and tvs at the end of the day they still have a cock LOL

so u ant that str8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get str8 guys who meet cds and tvs at the end of the day they still have a cock LOL

so u ant that str8 "

not ar the guys your hunting

I think the top and bottom if it is a lot of guys find it hard to admit to themselves that they are attracted to men, so meeting a man that looks like a woman is easier for them to cope with

At the end of the day we are what we are, if you enjoy it do it i say, and let me watch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get str8 guys who meet cds and tvs at the end of the day they still have a cock LOL

so u ant that str8

not ar the guys your hunting

I think the top and bottom if it is a lot of guys find it hard to admit to themselves that they are attracted to men, so meeting a man that looks like a woman is easier for them to cope with

At the end of the day we are what we are, if you enjoy it do it i say, and let me watch lol"

You can watch me anytime

. That's even more kinky and naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a thing for male genitalia on the female form. And I will give oral to both in a mmf setting.

To be honest I didn't think that made me bi, but I had some hostile re-education from a few on here.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

There have been loads of threads on this subject and it all comes down to the same thing 'Labels'.

We are both at our core heterosexual. Now go look at our profile and its states that we are both bisexual.

A swinging couple we are friends with for example, she is 'straight' and classes herself as straight but she loves to have a feel of a fems boobs... anyone got a label for that?

Angie is heterosexual but 100% comfortable with a women in a sexual context... anyone got a label for that?

As for me, perfectly happy to do anything sexual with another guy in a MFM, but I've never 'fancied' another bloke and I've never (in adulthood) had any sexual activity with another guy one-to-one and I cannot imagine I ever will... anyone got a label for that?

There is four sexual orientation options on the profile on here, Straight, Bi-curious, Bisexual and Gay NONE of those really fit either of us.

So would it be so wrong if we were stated as 'straight' but seeking bisexuals for example? Could that not be read as, 'Well were pretty straight but open to same sex sex' Even that doesn't cover it, as we don't indulge straight guys in a MFM

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"This has been talked about in another thread about TV's but....... I reckon it could do with a thread if its own.

Guys;

Some of you out there call yourself straight but have Couples (mm) Men

on your 'looking for' list.

Will just one of you explain that??

I'm not talking about str8 guys that like TV's.....I' m perfectly OK with that...except for the ones that, when u meet, just want to suck you and even ask to be fucked !! Oh what a turn off !

Simple question.......simple answer

mmmf...3 straight guys one greedy girl.

Next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get str8 guys who meet cds and tvs at the end of the day they still have a cock LOL

so u ant that str8 "

So a straight guy who has a bj off a ts/tv who remains clothed and is very femine is bi? Oook then..

Cos that's what the straight guys I've spoke have said they seek tv/ts for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There have been loads of threads on this subject and it all comes down to the same thing 'Labels'.

We are both at our core heterosexual. Now go look at our profile and its states that we are both bisexual.

A swinging couple we are friends with for example, she is 'straight' and classes herself as straight but she loves to have a feel of a fems boobs... anyone got a label for that?

Angie is heterosexual but 100% comfortable with a women in a sexual context... anyone got a label for that?

There is four sexual orientation options on the profile on here, Straight, Bi-curious, Bisexual and Gay NONE of those really fit either of us.

Het

exible - u r attracted and will only have a relationship with the opposite sex but do also have sexual encounters with the same sex

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"i dont get str8 guys who meet cds and tvs at the end of the day they still have a cock LOL

so u ant that str8

So a straight guy who has a bj off a ts/tv who remains clothed and is very femine is bi? Oook then..

Cos that's what the straight guys I've spoke have said they seek tv/ts for"

granted if a guy was just curious and after one bj from a tv decided it was'nt for him, would say that he was curious at some point..

but any bloke meeting other blokes on a regular / occasional basis no matter how convincing that one is dressed..is by any definition..Bi

but at the end of the day its just anothe lable..

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Het

exible - u r attracted and will only have a relationship with the opposite sex but do also have sexual encounters with the same sex"

That pretty much sums it up, but that isn't a tick-box on here

But even if there were, I dare say some peeps will find something to moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Max here,

Always amuses me to read these kind of threads.

People seem to have hang-ups about guys being bi-sexual but then tend to expect gals who swing to be bi-sexual and question them why they aren't if they are straight.

I get this is only from personal experience

Max

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It's the way of things in this society. Fact is male homosexuality is still VERY taboo to many folks, be they swingers or not.

It really wasn't that long ago that practicing homosexuality was illegal in the UK. It was decriminalised in 1968 (I think) in Britain but many years later before Scotland and Ireland caught up.

I was brought up in a VERY homophobic world (I'm 55 now) and was myself effectively 'programmed' to be homophobic and anti-gay etc. While at the same time I've never really noticed any stigma towards lesbians or bisexual females.

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By *uicyjaynkinkykayCouple
over a year ago

slough

Hi I'm bi male married to straight female... She knows I'm bi and likes the openess that I do like sex with fem couple men tv ts and I'm open bout it xxxx

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By *uicyjaynkinkykayCouple
over a year ago

slough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well mr here lol , 100% str8 , pussy , tits , fems ass, fmf's , but I love a blow job and happy to let a guy suck me off in front of the mrs, a blow n go lol no reciprication . 100 % str8 .

Well I'm 100% straight and there's no way I'd even contemplate letting a guy give me a blow job.

Just the though would have my toes ripping the insoles out of my boots.

No matter how desperate, no matter what the sexual situation, there's no way its' going to happen.

So does that mean there's different degrees of 100% straight or what?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My profile says bisexual but I don't think it's entirely accurate. I'm not attracted to men but enjoy sucking a cock, very very rarely in a 1:1 mm situation so long as the owner fulfils my criteria, usually in a 3sum but have also enjoyed playing straight with just women and with mf couples. Bi-playful someone mentioned before might be a better way of describing me. I don't worry about it really. I am what I am blah de blah.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"So does that mean there's different degrees of 100% straight or what? R"

You may have made a good point there, as there is so much talk about different levels of bi-curious/bisexual maybe that's a problem. Perhaps things should be debated in the context of different degrees of straight.

Or as I sometimes phrase it, 'I'm 100% straight but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of having sex with a guy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a thing for male genitalia on the female form. And I will give oral to both in a mmf setting.

To be honest I didn't think that made me bi, but I had some hostile re-education from a few on here."

we should call it "Straight-kink" or something if people want to label everything.

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over a year ago

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By *Bi-Fetish-CoupleXCouple
over a year ago

Higham Ferrers

I see it as clear as this.......

Male+female = straight

Female+female = bi

Guy+guy = bi

Tv/ts+guy = bi

Doesn't matter what you do with them, and sexual contact with the same sex makes you bi, if afterwards you decide it's not for you and never do it again then yeh I'd go for being straight but tried bi, if you enjoy playing with guys then you Bi!

Simples

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I class myself as straight because I am 98% of the time. I do, however, enjoy bi-mmf threesomes on occasion.

Situationally-bi is a good description."

A while ago, I asked for a little advice on the forums on meeting for a social for the first time, a couple. All but one poster had very useful thoughts and experiences to bring to the table. There was one who was really quite rude to me, who simply couldn't see why I would meet a couple as I had 'straight' on my profile.

I'll say it again, I'm a human that likes being naked with other humans. What I do with one, in a certain situation, I may not do again in another. Gender has little baring on those decisions and attempting to place labels on ourselves is always going to fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I class myself as straight because I am 98% of the time. I do, however, enjoy bi-mmf threesomes on occasion.

Situationally-bi is a good description.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

What would happen if TVs and bi guys stopped entertaining 'str8' guys? Do you think there would be a marked increase in the number of bisexual profiles?

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"What would happen if TVs and bi guys stopped entertaining 'str8' guys? Do you think there would be a marked increase in the number of bisexual profiles?"

No, but I do think a good dose of honesty with and tolerance towards others might steer things in that direction.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Labels often fall off or get put onto the wrong item anyway.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Well mr here lol , 100% str8 , pussy , tits , fems ass, fmf's , but I love a blow job and happy to let a guy suck me off in front of the mrs, a blow n go lol no reciprication . 100 % str8 .

so using your 'definition' which being a bi guy i happen to think is total cobblers btw..

when would 'you' deem yourself to be say bi curious, or bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see it as clear as this.......

Male+female = straight

Female+female = bi

Guy+guy = bi

Tv/ts+guy = bi

Simples

Even if the TS is more feminine looking than most woman on here and the guy only has a bj of them and has never touched a cock in his life that would make him bi.. What if its a post op TS.. They are still legally men in this country even if they have female anatomy now

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By *Bi-Fetish-CoupleXCouple
over a year ago

Higham Ferrers

Yeh I'd say he is bi, the reason being is that I have played with TS's and had a BJ from them, genitically there male so I'd class myself as bi, no point in me trying to justify my sexuality to myself, I enjoy playing with guys and ts/tv's and females, therefore I'm bi. Post op ts are different as they are female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you possibly be 100% straight if you'd let another guy suck your cock?Does it really need explaining?Doesn't make an ounce of sense

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By *Bi-Fetish-CoupleXCouple
over a year ago

Higham Ferrers

"How can you possibly be 100% straight if you'd let another guy suck your cock?Does it really need explaining?Doesn't make an ounce of sense"

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"How can you possibly be 100% straight if you'd let another guy suck your cock?Does it really need explaining?Doesn't make an ounce of sense

Blindfold a guy and then have a fem and a guy take turns in giving him a blow-job, then see if he can tell the difference. If the blindfolded guy happens to be what you all refer to as bisexual it will just be a good laugh.

However, repeat the process with a strictly 100% straight male. The thing is, while not knowing he will thoroughly enjoy the blow-jobs from both the fem and the male... That is until the blindfold comes off and the 'experiment' is reveled. At this point the 'subject' throws up, throws a fit, beats the shit out of the other guy etc...

Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl...you are joking aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

"I also get a lot of straight men looking at my profile, getting in touch and having m2m sex.

The truth is they'd prefer a female to play with, but the reality is women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place.

So in the true spirit of them just wanting to get their kicks, any port in a storm

I challenge any man to say he hasn't had at least one homo-erotic thought in his life

Some follow that through to actions and are comfortable with it, some dream of doing something about it and others are in denial "

And here was me all these years thinking I was totally straight thank you for informing me that I am bi and only in denial I really had no idea until now.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

"I class myself as straight because I am 98% of the time. I do, however, enjoy bi-mmf threesomes on occasion.

Situationally-bi is a good description."

Or a TRY-sexual lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R "
so would dp come under form of sex with guy ?

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R "

Agree 100%. Always find it strange the vast amount of mails each day I get from straight male profiles who tell me "only have straight incase a friend sees profile or to keep all the gay guys from mailing". But yet keen to have meet with u

Regardless, to each their own xx

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

"The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R so would dp come under form of sex with guy ?"

Only if it was a guy you were DP ing.

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I gave up worrying about the straight/bi whatever debate because there really is no simple black and white answer, unfortunately, just like transvestism and possibly swinging and even mobile phone choice, there are way more than fifty shades of grey, hugz to all, xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R so would dp come under form of sex with guy ?

Only if it was a guy you were DP ing."
well guys touch during dp and of course during dvp, so would that be bi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way I see it......guys who have any form of sex with another guy are bi.

If they say they're straight, its either because they feel ashamed, refuse to come to terms with it or seek to deceive! R so would dp come under form of sex with guy ?

Only if it was a guy you were DP ing. well guys touch during dp and of course during dvp, so would that be bi ?"

Well I've done DP (one in each) quite a few times without touching the other guys cock.

On the other hand I tried DV once, it just wasn't happening.

As soon as my cock touched the other guys it was game over.

I could only see it as being rubbed off by another guys cock and that was never going to happen.

I guess that's what comes of being genuinely 100% straight! R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of interesting reading here. My female partner is fully Bi-Sexual, she is attracted to male and female. I'm orally bi curious however I have to be attracted to men somehow and be Bi something as why would I want to give a man a BJ or let him do it to me, otherwise I would be straight wouldn't I? I've done it once and want to do it again, (curious), if I like it then I would say I'm Bi-sexual if I never want to do it again then I'd say I was straight and it was a fantasy too far.

I do agree I think some men are a bit hung up to admit they are bi?

Women have no issue admitting it so if you like cock whether its orally or otherwise I would say you are Bi! Admit it and be proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't get my head round why so many can't grasp this and it really needs explaining,funny though

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over a year ago

Just thought I'd add my bit to the topic I'm a bi lad when it comes to sex I enjoy giving and receiving oral from both sexes but if playing with a couple the women allways gets preferential treatment. I also enjoy anal sex again giving and receiving more so receiving. But here is what I'm confused about I don't find men attractive in the slightest only there sexual organs. So I don't know really where I fit in am I trisexual bisexual or strait with a kinky side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so what are you doing?

bullying people into changing their profile to suit you?

why dont you just leave people alone.

if someone is interested in meeting they will make contact or should that also be run through you first?

who made you god? if someone wishes to display straight,bi,gay ,alien whatever.

it has nothing to do with you if your not interested in meeting them.

to many people are posting must do this or must have that threads.

its another form of bullying."

You need to chill the fuck out man OP isnt demanding anyone doing anything he is asking a question

People like you spoiling for a fight is whats making this forum turn to shit

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By *andy T.V. OP TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

Oh blimey I seem to have opened big can of worms........

To those who took offence....I'm sorry, but I was just asking !!

Of course alot of us do not simply fall into convenient pigeon-holes.

And I agree, just considering yourself sexual or 'trysexual' ( i like that ) is cool.

And str8 guys that like sex with TV's but who dont recipricate....I'm cool with that too...especially if they are open about that on thier profile.

However......I just wanted ONE single ( i.e. not part if a mf couple) guy who has a 'str8' profile with looking for (mm) & Men to put his hand up and enlighten me.....

Yeah it was too much to ask...I ask them when they message me requesting a meet.... .they NEVER reply.....which is ok,...saves me the bother of blocking them.

The way I see it....if we want to live in a society where we are respectfull and tolerant of each other, being honest with ourselves is the first step....otherwise you are part if the problem.........(ducks for cover before fan hurls shit everywhere LOL)

XXX

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

For the last few hundreds of years society has been programmed and for the most part been happy to accept that homosexuality between males is a filthy, disgusting perverted form of sex that is also totally against most religions and was illegal in this country until relatively recently. That 'conditioning' still currently exists in society today to a lesser degree perhaps but it still exists.

Perhaps the only lesson learned here is that single guys stating they are straight but seeking MM action don't read to forums or they don't feel a need to explain themselves to the likes of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class my self as a straight guy but if I bumpt into a good looking tv who flooted my boat ide play and I'm past caring wot people think of me life is to short. My motto is if you don't like wot I'm saying stop asking me questions

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By *ellyNwTV/TS
over a year ago

Orrel

"Just thought I'd add my bit to the topic I'm a bi lad when it comes to sex I enjoy giving and receiving oral from both sexes but if playing with a couple the women allways gets preferential treatment. I also enjoy anal sex again giving and receiving more so receiving. But here is what I'm confused about I don't find men attractive in the slightest only there sexual organs. So I don't know really where I fit in am I trisexual bisexual or strait with a kinky side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my profile says straight.

my best mate is a gay man. i go to parties which have tv's and gay men and women at them and also straight people.

i respect all of them and dont stand there going 'why you in a dress, why you in a dress' over and over.

it gets pretty boring and pathetic. let people live and do what they please.

this is not 1938 germany.

i may sound like im having a go. trust me im not. just i have friends who get sick of being questioned because of a lifestyle choice and feel bullied by people constantly asking questions about them.

you should go to one of these fetish clubs or parties and see for yourself just how normal people are and happy to be among like minded others.

no wonder so many people have difficulty coming out."

We love the Fetish Scene because of this so more open minded and less judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can a TV "float the boat" of a straight guy?

The mind boggles ha

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"How can a TV "float the boat" of a straight guy?

The mind boggles ha"

in real terms, orifices and some form of sex

in a few, the fabrics and the allure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you possibly be 100% straight if you'd let another guy suck your cock?Does it really need explaining?Doesn't make an ounce of sense"

Because the so called guy is a ts who looks more feminine than most of the females on here?

Do u not watch the maury show

Bet if a ts gave u oral and u had no idea of what was in their pants it wouldn't even cross ur mind or disgust u unless u found out afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A highly unlikely scenario,can put as much spin on it as you want,someone thats into someone the same sex isn't straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a new member on here. I'm straight and it clearly states on my profile I'm looking for women or MF couples. Yet I have been bombarded with messages from bi guys inviting me to give them a go!

Sorry bi guys, I'm just not that way inclined......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a new member on here. I'm straight and it clearly states on my profile I'm looking for women or MF couples. Yet I have been bombarded with messages from bi guys inviting me to give them a go!

Sorry bi guys, I'm just not that way inclined......"

It's probably due to the amount of bi guys on here who say they're straight and can't believe other guys are honest.

Just go into your Privacy settings and block single guys......sorted.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been talked about in another thread about TV's but....... I reckon it could do with a thread if its own.

Guys;

Some of you out there call yourself straight but have Couples (mm) Men

on your 'looking for' list.

Will just one of you explain that??

I'm not talking about str8 guys that like TV's.....I' m perfectly OK with that...except for the ones that, when u meet, just want to suck you and even ask to be fucked !! Oh what a turn off !

may be just looking for a pair of str8 guys who play as a tag team!

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