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Whats with the begging for fabs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are peoples self esteem that low that they really need to beg for fabs either on the forums or their profiles?, we don't get it ourselves, if we see a fab it's nice and a compliment but can't understand all the posts/profiles being needy about them....flame away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and breath lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The number of Fabs on a profile looks like the modern equivalent of having the longest friends list, a competition curtailed when friends lists were limited to 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are peoples self esteem that low that they really need to beg for fabs either on the forums or their profiles?, we don't get it ourselves, if we see a fab it's nice and a compliment but can't understand all the posts/profiles being needy about them....flame away!"

Yes I've noticed the rise of this phenomenon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people see it as a competition! " can I get to number 1?"

Can ask for the publicity to get their pictures fabbed! Perhaps they are just proud of what they have?

We also notice a lot of people deleting and re uploading the same pics time and time again!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I think some people see it as a competition! " can I get to number 1?"

Can ask for the publicity to get their pictures fabbed! Perhaps they are just proud of what they have?

We also notice a lot of people deleting and re uploading the same pics time and time again! "

If they deleted and uploaded again, surely the fabs would start at zero again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people see it as a competition! " can I get to number 1?"

Can ask for the publicity to get their pictures fabbed! Perhaps they are just proud of what they have?

We also notice a lot of people deleting and re uploading the same pics time and time again!

If they deleted and uploaded again, surely the fabs would start at zero again?"

Yes they would!! Not sure if the two are connected, just thought I would mention it as well....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I think some people see it as a competition! " can I get to number 1?"

Can ask for the publicity to get their pictures fabbed! Perhaps they are just proud of what they have?

We also notice a lot of people deleting and re uploading the same pics time and time again!

If they deleted and uploaded again, surely the fabs would start at zero again?

Yes they would!! Not sure if the two are connected, just thought I would mention it as well.... "

Maybe they think it will do better the second time around lol. I'm off to upload some donuts

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X"

Haha you are getting a right old private eye lately that's my job you're pinching

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

Blame the site, they gave us Fabs for pics, the Hottest Pic gallery etc...

Lets not forget those OH SO ANNOYING winks......

Webcams etc - What on earth is going on....

Stop having Fun, what do you think this site is, your not here to enjoy yourself..... are you?

Sorry, we find all of this good fun, except the winks.... they just ruin a good day for anyone don't they wink wink

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

some people have insecurities, they feel validated if total strangers say positive things about them..

like the kid in the class always seeking attention..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Haha you are getting a right old private eye lately that's my job you're pinching "

No it's only coz I noticed a thread about fake boobs and having fake boobs myself I had a read and noticed a comment by the male half about his wife and user no longer on site. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blame the site, they gave us Fabs for pics, the Hottest Pic gallery etc...

Lets not forget those OH SO ANNOYING winks......

Webcams etc - What on earth is going on....

Stop having Fun, what do you think this site is, your not here to enjoy yourself..... are you?

Sorry, we find all of this good fun, except the winks.... they just ruin a good day for anyone don't they wink wink"

Winks we get, PM's we get, FABS in general we get, but actually asking for any/all of them seems a bit desperate and for us is a turn off

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Haha you are getting a right old private eye lately that's my job you're pinching

No it's only coz I noticed a thread about fake boobs and having fake boobs myself I had a read and noticed a comment by the male half about his wife and user no longer on site. Lol x "

fake boobs I thought you were talking too much sense ! Don't you dare send me your cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X"

im going to get crucified for this but im going to fab your pics miss hottie.... damn your sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X"

Miss marple rises again! Lol

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

We understand you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Haha you are getting a right old private eye lately that's my job you're pinching

No it's only coz I noticed a thread about fake boobs and having fake boobs myself I had a read and noticed a comment by the male half about his wife and user no longer on site. Lol x

fake boobs I thought you were talking too much sense ! Don't you dare send me your cock pic "

Haha! You know what I mean! Xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Haha you are getting a right old private eye lately that's my job you're pinching

No it's only coz I noticed a thread about fake boobs and having fake boobs myself I had a read and noticed a comment by the male half about his wife and user no longer on site. Lol x

fake boobs I thought you were talking too much sense ! Don't you dare send me your cock pic

Haha! You know what I mean! Xx "

Especially if its bigger than mine lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Miss marple rises again! Lol "

Hahaha.. I'm gonna get a reputation on here for the wrong reasons aren't I?? Lol x

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By *banned4noreasonCouple
over a year ago

t

Marple beats Jessica Fletcher anyday of the week!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Miss marple rises again! Lol

Hahaha.. I'm gonna get a reputation on here for the wrong reasons aren't I?? Lol x"

They may have left, but that doesn't mean they haven't come back!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if self esteem issues exist, a fab icon will not resolve them long term.

and over compensating for it won't help, swinging can support some, sadly not all.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Miss marple rises again! Lol

Hahaha.. I'm gonna get a reputation on here for the wrong reasons aren't I?? Lol x

They may have left, but that doesn't mean they haven't come back!"

Oh have they, no idea I haven't gone looking for them, I know they used to get a lot of stick for it tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted some of mine and put new ones on before I became a site supporter and could only have 12 pics. Now am a site supporter I can have 50 so I have reloaded some previously deleted. Mainly so I can have a good mixture of my B&W ones and some I took myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed that one couple who only really posted in the forums when new pics were uploaded seen to of left the site?? X

Miss marple rises again! Lol

Hahaha.. I'm gonna get a reputation on here for the wrong reasons aren't I?? Lol x

They may have left, but that doesn't mean they haven't come back!

Oh have they, no idea I haven't gone looking for them, I know they used to get a lot of stick for it tho x "

*giggles @ Miss Marple*

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I deleted some of mine and put new ones on before I became a site supporter and could only have 12 pics. Now am a site supporter I can have 50 so I have reloaded some previously deleted. Mainly so I can have a good mixture of my B&W ones and some I took myself "

And very nice they are too!! Xx

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I've noted that as well. Indeed some people not only ask for people to fab them but remove some older pics and then repost. I guess to invigorate their running total for that pic. As it goes into newest pic and gets seen again by all us pervs .

Whether it works or not I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deleted some of mine and put new ones on before I became a site supporter and could only have 12 pics. Now am a site supporter I can have 50 so I have reloaded some previously deleted. Mainly so I can have a good mixture of my B&W ones and some I took myself

And very nice they are too!! Xx "

Thank you gorjus! Ditto

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