FabSwingers.com forum: Just Sex, or is it more than that

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sex or are we seeking something more deeper? That we cannot declare really?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm definitely just after sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm definitely just after sex "

Me too. But minds have to connect. Plus lust and desire passion and fucksbilty!!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I'm definitely just after sex

Me too. But minds have to connect. Plus lust and desire passion and fucksbilty!! "
oh no.. as long as they are not gross and say hi. Don't need any of the rest of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sex it is. My pics are up.

Pm open is you like,want its here!!

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By *miles69Woman
over a year ago

barrow

This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November

. So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..

When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November

When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"

I’d just like to say, from someone who also met the love of their life on fab, fair play and what a lovely outcome!!

I’ll admit I was here for short term nsa and it took me a while to admit to myself but like you say, when you know, you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November

When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"

You have made me smile deeply truly i mean that!

Thank you for shareing your story with us, faith keeps us going daily!

My journey after life support , near death. Has taken me too many points and thoughts.

I keep coming back to " real conne tins " of the hearts minds with, real true intentions! Will win you your peace here on earth.

Many we are in loss, fearful.hurt,traumatised,perplexed. And wandering to belong,yet we fear commitment the word " love " and more.

Seek ,search your lot. And Heal now! You will know when you have arrived Home!

But true love & peace is from within deep inside of you, not externaly nor in the other person.

I post much. It wont make sense. Some may do atimes. Share,be open grow. A short time is only here.

Peance n love to all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm definitely just after sex

Me too. But minds have to connect. Plus lust and desire passion and fucksbilty!! oh no.. as long as they are not gross and say hi. Don't need any of the rest of it"

You do you. Your call. We need fuck n go heh a fix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The added extra or enhancement to our sex life is great but I honestly believe that Dora gets a huge self confidence boost from the attention she gets in here and at clubs.

There’s no denying you are desirable when you’re surrounded by hard cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The added extra or enhancement to our sex life is great but I honestly believe that Dora gets a huge self confidence boost from the attention she gets in here and at clubs.

There’s no denying you are desirable when you’re surrounded by hard cocks. "
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Agree , many forms appeal. We are complex humams deeper than we admit. But we need and require stimulus from other bodys and minds.

I adore " Pussys and the word Cunt sexually.

Keep it moveing fabbers.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just sex and the excitement !

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

just sex ass we like 3sums

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

We're big Cake by the Ocean fans, as the Scandinavians say.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

We're big Cake by the Ocean fans, as the Scandinavians say."

Rather Scandinavia than Weston super mare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely just sex, already have the relationship side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the sex but if you bring cake its not going to waste lol

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

For me, right now I’m just looking for a long term FWB because I am focused on my career goals and being in relationships in the past has gotten in the way of my aspirations. Obviously if I meet someone who I have good chemistry with and supports my dreams and aspirations then that could change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just sex and the excitement !"

keep it 100.

Hard to find though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

Cake bake. Then maybe sex if the moods are set and Alighned well lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing deep but not just sex either.

Friendly enjoyment, let's put it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

Cake bake. Then maybe sex if the moods are set and Alighned well lol

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November

When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"

This is fantastic! Congratulations to you both. I always say that the best things come when you aren’t really looking, you just have to put yourself out there and see what happens. And you hit the jackpot. Awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex but made some really good freinds off here as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing deep but not just sex either.

Friendly enjoyment, let's put it that way"

Deep or non deep ad suits. I like some level of mind connections.

But blowing off steam and cobwebs!

I sure do need and want the physical as much as all out there!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm definitely just after sex "
..Hi!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm definitely just after sex ..Hi!

Lol

Pulling your both legs infact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"just sex ass we like 3sums "
whats ass??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex and cake

Or is it cake and sex?

We're big Cake by the Ocean fans, as the Scandinavians say."

Esp norfolk coast,winter or spring/summer best place in the Uk for me!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely just sex, already have the relationship side of things."
cool.

I see where some have states its abit more open om fab.

Bar the no shows,and hyped status posts etc.

I hope the events post page , works well for meets daily and otherwise for just no drama sex and Fwb's and group play.

Any had good results from this kind of posts???

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Pure sex. We already have everything we need with each other. As with meeting anyone in 'normal' life friendships can develop while swinging, but that's not we set out to find.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Oldly enough we were both just purely seeking sex originally. But by the end of the first meet really we found something more in each other. That was over 5 years ago now.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Sex or are we seeking something more deeper? That we cannot declare really?"

I would say it's mostly for sex, but I'd also say it's about the new experiences too.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Definitely more than sex as we love the social aspect just as much as the physical side of things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely more than sex as we love the social aspect just as much as the physical side of things. "

Same here.

I keep posting daily for social plus more.

Laughs,chat,food etc.

I can bang and go too. If thats what is required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oldly enough we were both just purely seeking sex originally. But by the end of the first meet really we found something more in each other. That was over 5 years ago now."

nice.

We like good hearty stories of out comes that are smooth.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

For me, it's usually more than that.

Don't get me wrong, every so often I'm happy to indulge in general hedonism with pretty things. But mostly I prefer to have an actual connection with someone rather than just fuck for the sake of it.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Connection and regular who I would be able to open up and be myself.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

It is for the sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Connection and regular who I would be able to open up and be myself. "

I agree,

Respect,value,safe space,place for both no shameing coz of differences.

exactley my point for connections, so to share more and be in a safe space and place vice_verse. To grow and enjoy , where once there may have been limits.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does it have to be one or the other, cant we just vibe with the people we vibe with and let it be whatever it turns out to be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me, it's usually more than that.

Don't get me wrong, every so often I'm happy to indulge in general hedonism with pretty things. But mostly I prefer to have an actual connection with someone rather than just fuck for the sake of it.

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We think the same.

Everything really is a " connection ' is it not even so on here??

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By *ommy_73Man
over a year ago

Herts & London

For me it's sex - but there obviously has to be a physical or personal attraction.

And for any repeat meets it really, really helps if we actually get on - similar outlooks, opinions etc.

But, yeah, sometimes it's just about the coitus. Just letting go and fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man could only dream of his own Charlie's angels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it have to be one or the other, cant we just vibe with the people we vibe with and let it be whatever it turns out to be?"
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Create what you want it to be. .your own reality!

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

For us it is just sex. Fulfilling fantasies that we are unable to fulfil with just the two of us. Not looking for love or soul mate connections as we have that ourselves.

But whether it’s club fun or an arranged meet, the guys still have to have something about them other than performance. We like to build a bit of a rapport with them. Gents are invited to join us based on personality as well as looks. Even if it is a blindfolded type meet, we still like to have a chat and laugh with the guys during/after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely just sex for me and good terms without dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November

When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"

Wow!

This is my dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be more than just sex.

I couldn't do it without some sort of connection. A spark. A good vibe. A nice pair of eyes that i can look into and get lost in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a connection/attraction but it just friends with fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex or are we seeking something more deeper? That we cannot declare really?

sex and friendship maybe

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex for me unless I have at least some form of connection or chemistry

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Swinging site so it’s sex we are all after ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely sex

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have sex just for the sake of it. That's what my right hand is for.

Much more enjoyable with a connection that allows me to explore more deeply.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

It's sex with people we actually like a little. At least a five minute convo.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"For us it is just sex. Fulfilling fantasies that we are unable to fulfil with just the two of us. Not looking for love or soul mate connections as we have that ourselves.

Totally agree, we're definitely of the same mindset

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Originally I joined for NSA sex. Then I wanted and found a Friend with benefits.

Now I want more than that…. And great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happily married... its purely sex...

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By *ig bird brightWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I think as a couple you have that connection etc at home so it's just sex for you .

But for me as a single I like to have some sort off connection as if its not there I can not have sex . And to find a fwb you I can feel comfortable safe with and discover my sexual desires as meeting just randoms for me I cant do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to have an attraction, good vibe and get along with the person.. i dont fuck anyone but its purely sex for me. Some are now friends but thats it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is deff more, most like more and want amd desire more!

Yet wish and want freedom's without the constraints of full blown commited relationships because of past experiemces.

Many stay conservative because they " Fear " the responce of loseing it.

Be open many may want the same!

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Just sex for us, we have each other for everything else.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Just sex for me but hubby gets excitement out of watching me with other guys

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Just sex for me and hubby loves to see me fucking other guys and when in clubs and in a play room not time to chat as to busy

Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just sex for me but hubby gets excitement out of watching me with other guys"

Nice,we admire confident people.

And gents whom encourage pleasures for their ladies.

Step up you londoners??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me, right now I’m just looking for a long term FWB because I am focused on my career goals and being in relationships in the past has gotten in the way of my aspirations. Obviously if I meet someone who I have good chemistry with and supports my dreams and aspirations then that could change"

Grind your thing pal. Sex comes n goes.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

When I first joined the site I was looking for sex sex and more sex but latterly I come to find that rather unfulfilling. Meeting relative strangers, stripping off and getting down to it used to be exciting but now I'm at the point I was barely getting hard it was doing so little for me. I'm not looking for a relationship from fab but realised someone regular to get to know and explore various things together is better than random one offs. Sadly it appeared that is very rarely available here hence I don't even bother looking for it now.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"Nothing deep but not just sex either.

Friendly enjoyment, let's put it that way"

Nailed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex is empty, but too deep is off putting…

Best experiences are a mix - both looking for a connection but with the understanding that it’s not too serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined the site I was looking for sex sex and more sex but latterly I come to find that rather unfulfilling. Meeting relative strangers, stripping off and getting down to it used to be exciting but now I'm at the point I was barely getting hard it was doing so little for me. I'm not looking for a relationship from fab but realised someone regular to get to know and explore various things together is better than random one offs. Sadly it appeared that is very rarely available here hence I don't even bother looking for it now."
.. " Connection's " is the key!.

Deep down most are seeking it,yet they run away from it. I have posted much about this area apart from the Sex.

Many frown upon my posts thinkng iam d*unk or too deep etc etc.

Dont seek,it will come its a process of patìence.

But we all have to engage. The planets and systems work hand in hand.

I hope you find your peace soon.

Peace out.

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By *idsHornyCpl40Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

Just sex for us

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Just sex

Pure and simple

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