FabSwingers.com forum: Bi-sexualities

By *ew Chapter OP Couple
over a year ago

Redruth

How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean it’s such a broad term these days but personally I’d say at least having some sexual or romantic interest in more than one gender.

That’s the broadest I can make it but sure there will be a whole range of answers.

The simplest answer is , do you define your as bi-sexual? If so then you’re bi-sexual

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By *athuilMan
over a year ago

up north

Engaging in some form of sexual activity with another guy is my definition of bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???"

For me personally, it's romantic and sexual attraction to the same sex. A woman can make me as horny as a guy

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???"

So I think this is the majority of men. It relates to me. I like guys hit mkt physically or emotionally attracted to them but I love tue sex. I consider that bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider myself bi curious. Have kissed and sucked and been suck by another guy but that is as far as I would go.

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I mean it’s such a broad term these days but personally I’d say at least having some sexual or romantic interest in more than one gender.

That’s the broadest I can make it but sure there will be a whole range of answers.

The simplest answer is , do you define your as bi-sexual? If so then you’re bi-sexual

This

For me it's about not limiting yourself and opening yourself to people and situations you find attracting.

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By *ew Chapter OP Couple
over a year ago

Redruth

Yeah we think it's still bi-sexual. somthing we might explore x

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I would say why try and pigeonhole and label, if you enjoy some form of same sex contact just go for it and enjoy life is too short.. we all have our limits so if you’ve kissed a guy or felt his cock or even enjoyed a bj no need to label it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???"

Yes or "fab straight"

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I do not fancy men persay! but I love having bisexual sex with a couple where everyone gets involved with no fear od bodies.

So I am trysexual (coz I will try most things) or bicurious

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Don’t bother defining it, just enjoy it, whatever form it takes. Letting loose of the old norms of sexuality and just enjoying giving and sharing pleasure is way more fun

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

To claim bisexuality you are attracted to both genders period. That would be my definition

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Well for me i'm mostly attracted to women mainly but have given and received oral and masturbated a guy and been masturbated by a guy but no kissing or caressing or anal on a couple of occasions and found it as enjoyable as being with a woman doing the same. I have had a mmf a couple of times in the past which is something i want more of but so far its proving to be elusive at the moment.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

"Don’t bother defining it, just enjoy it, whatever form it takes. Letting loose of the old norms of sexuality and just enjoying giving and sharing pleasure is way more fun "

This!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Bi sexual means attraction to my gender and others. That’s all

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By *itCouple30sMan
over a year ago

manchester

Interesting, me and my partner are both gay but lately have found a curious Interest in trying a bi experience, yet to do. But the thought of it is really hot

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Sexuality can be fluid for some people. I only like guys but play with couples depending on what it is. Also find most straight guys like or are curious of Trans,TV/TS, etc than bi men. Who cares what consensual adults do as long you are having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???"

Yes still bisexual.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd say it's more hetro flexible personally, I wouldn't class myself as bi I've never been in a relationship with a woman and wouldn't, other than sexually I've no interest in women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man fuck and sucks 100 other men he can still call himself straight if he didn't go out on 3 dates with the same man.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"How do you define being bisexual...if a man doesn't find another man attractive but doesn't mind being sucked or fucked by another man...doesn't like kissing or giving oral..still bisexual.???"

Questions like this come up quite often and not seen a consensus reached yet lol

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Much a spectrum I consider myself bi sexual love to kiss suck and fuck a man as whose to only pay no which I consider bi curious.

However I'm hetromantic as I don't I'd date a man. However some people are truly bi sexual bi romantic

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You could be a fussy eater as a teenager, but by the time you’re middle aged nothing is off the menu.

We all change as we get older, outlook on life, what we value in a partner, what we value in life. You name it from taste in music or films to who we vote for in elections.

But for some reason people think that sexual experimentation means you become something you don’t feel you are. Loads of new labels like romantically bi or physically bi or just plain bisexual as you had a cock in your mouth once.

This is just simplistic thinking ignoring that we all open to change, why have a mind and not change it occasionally ?

Be who you are, others will define or label you for their own reasons but if you don’t agree you don’t have to.

Be bisexual or be somewhere in between, it really is up to you.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

In my view if you regularly play with the same sex and enjoy it ,you're at least bi curious.

Many think you have to want a relationship with the same sex ,but I think it's engaging in regular same sex play in terms of sex anyway.

I do think there is a spectrum from hetero to gay/bi & not everyone is on one end of it ,there are lots of people on different parts of it.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The main thing I'd say is to be honest about it to others so there's no surprises and everyone's boundaries are respected .

So many will claim to be totally straight when they're open to more during play.

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By *ibertine101Woman
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Ahh love these conversations

Ultimately it’s utterly for you to decide whether it helps or not to have a bit of a definition. The spectrum of our rainbow community is so much more nuanced now and that’s such a good thing.

I’ve heard terms such as bi-playful which for many encompasses sexual contact with the same sex or opposite sex if you’re gay. And then of course we have our gorgeous non-binary folx for whom Pan would be most appropriate…

It’s good to chat these things through though, especially as you continue to explore… but as you’ve seen there are many supportive viewpoints!

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