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"No it's not a weakness to kind and well mannered its something people should practise more of doing rather than putting people down we should lift each other up " | |||
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"I think it depends on the intent. Is someone being nice because they think that it gets them something?" That's a great point! | |||
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"Anybody that buys into that whole bad boy bullshit needs to grow up and gain some intelligence. Being respectful , kind and well mannered towards other people isn’t a weakness is it !!!? " No its not! It's what we're looking for generally x | |||
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"No it's not a weakness. It can be a strength if that's how you project yourself. If you have to tell people you are a nice guy you are obviously projecting a different image and they see something that forces them to doubt the niceness. Bad boys are usually just that. Boys who are bad. " Yep pretty much this | |||
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"No it's not a weakness. It can be a strength if that's how you project yourself. If you have to tell people you are a nice guy you are obviously projecting a different image and they see something that forces them to doubt the niceness. Bad boys are usually just that. Boys who are bad. " ,, agree spot on.. | |||
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"I wonder what people think? Is being a decent nice person seen as a weakness on Fab? Do ladies prefer the bad boys ? " Being nice is a huge plus for us. People who come across as genuine, chatty, friendly...these are the kinds of folk we would love to get to know. Not necessarily just for sexual adventures but just even for the sake of getting to know people on the same wavelength Mrs | |||
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"It depends on what you mean by nice, doesn’t it? People can be nice, but still capable of being able to stand up for themselves and command respect. Manners, empathy, compassion = hot" ,, this,, | |||
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"No it's not a weakness to kind and well mannered its something people should practise more of doing rather than putting people down we should lift each other up " | |||
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"It depends on what you mean by nice, doesn’t it? People can be nice, but still capable of being able to stand up for themselves and command respect. Manners, empathy, compassion = hot" | |||
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"you can be nice and still not be attractive to the person your being nice to" This | |||
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"you can be nice and still not be attractive to the person your being nice to" Yep, agreed. I think I'm one of those guys! X | |||
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"you can be nice and still not be attractive to the person your being nice to This" Agreed | |||
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"Not at all, being a great compassionate loving human is a strength that the world needs more of. I think people often scapegoat being nice for their weaknesses, mistakes or lack of success in other areas to be fair." Yes this, I'll hold my hands up here as I've been guilty of this in the past. Now I own it, it's who I am and if that gets me nowhere then I'm comfortable with that - we would probably not be compatible anyway | |||
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"I wonder what people think? Is being a decent nice person seen as a weakness on Fab? Do ladies prefer the bad boys ? " . No lol And Some will do, many won't | |||
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"I wonder what people think? Is being a decent nice person seen as a weakness on Fab? Do ladies prefer the bad boys ? Being nice is a huge plus for us. People who come across as genuine, chatty, friendly...these are the kinds of folk we would love to get to know. Not necessarily just for sexual adventures but just even for the sake of getting to know people on the same wavelength Mrs" And that is what it's all about.This should be fun and with 'friends' it should be genuine and not forced and uncomplicated, and if it progresses to a "sexual adventure " then how much better is that sexual experience going to be.. | |||
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"I wonder what people think? Is being a decent nice person seen as a weakness on Fab? Do ladies prefer the bad boys ? Being nice is a huge plus for us. People who come across as genuine, chatty, friendly...these are the kinds of folk we would love to get to know. Not necessarily just for sexual adventures but just even for the sake of getting to know people on the same wavelength Mrs And that is what it's all about.This should be fun and with 'friends' it should be genuine and not forced and uncomplicated, and if it progresses to a "sexual adventure " then how much better is that sexual experience going to be.." Exactly, we've got to know some lovely people on here- some are now friends in real life as well as 'fab friends' As you say it's uncomplicated, fun, and the boundaries are clear because we communicate openly Mrs | |||
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"I wonder what people think? Is being a decent nice person seen as a weakness on Fab? Do ladies prefer the bad boys ? " Being nice is only a weakness, when u let people take advantage of your nice nature e.g being a Simp | |||
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