FabSwingers.com forum: Any tips on how to find genuine cuckold couple

By *oung-magic OP Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

Hi there, i have been on this site and other sites mostly met just single females or hotwifing couples, id like to know how can i find a genuine couple thats into cuckolding?

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Following

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Hi there, i have been on this site and other sites mostly met just single females or hotwifing couples, id like to know how can i find a genuine couple thats into cuckolding?"
pal theirs loads on here into cuckolding might just need to widen your search

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

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By *exualPleasuresMan
over a year ago

west Yorkshire

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

Exactly this.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are loads of cuck and FLR couples, but you’ll tend to find them that does the searching, not the other way around. Otherwise it’s just a third wheel fuck.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"There are loads of cuck and FLR couples, but you’ll tend to find them that does the searching, not the other way around. Otherwise it’s just a third wheel fuck."

That’s so true, glad you agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Glad you are in agreement and it’s not just us !

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

THIS

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

Exactly......and the so called "bulls" who assume I am submissive do my head in

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs. "

Most cucks enjoy seeing our wives with other guys, it’s what keeps us going and most wives enjoy the fact that they have the freedom to fuck other guys and their hubbies love to see the wife being pleasured.

Most bulls seem to forget that cuckold meets are primarily about the hotwife getting what she needs, the cuck enjoying the hotwife getting what she needs and the bull is last in the line, basically he’s a cock to provide a service.

But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.

But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !"

They are the ones that talk a load of "Bull" lol

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By *exualPleasuresMan
over a year ago

west Yorkshire

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.

But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !"

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

It’s more complex than I realised when I first entered the scene. But worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys think cuckholding is just fucking another guys wife whilst calling him names, and it’s so much more than that. Experienced cuck couples are looking for a subservient connection which involves time and effort, and on that basis they probably search themselves rather than respond to approaches from others

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Most guys think cuckholding is just fucking another guys wife whilst calling him names, and it’s so much more than that. Experienced cuck couples are looking for a subservient connection which involves time and effort, and on that basis they probably search themselves rather than respond to approaches from others"

Totally agree, that’s why us cuckold couples find it difficult to get serious meets arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with interest x

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Totally agree, that’s why us cuckold couples find it difficult to get serious meets arranged."

You mean you find it difficult to get serious meets from the men you want.

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By *ackandjill3315Couple
over a year ago

aldershot

This is very true

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Put out meets and explain what you want be patient

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Takes time and regular meets for us to build up a cuckold relationship. It's something that develops naturally.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

op there are 1000s of cuckold couples on here and every single one will be different want different from a real life style to role play ..

real life cuckold couples are generally looking for regular guys who can fit into what they want as a couple ..along the lines of fwb but with more connection depending on the couple ie we will all have different lines in the sand

fantasy / role play cuckold couples are easier as its all role play therefor not looking for that connection

its hard for us who live the lifestyle to find guys as the 3rd very hard veru few suit the role or even understand .

do some homework and go find out some basics and not from porn or fantasy books and blogs there are plenty of genuine sites

#justmyopinion

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By *hil33101Man
over a year ago

Hotel meets traveling on business

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs. "

Totally agree. Have to spend as much time acknowledging the male as the female if not more. End of the day it’s the male letting you play with his wife

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.

Ditto

Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.

But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !"

agree with you on all, its not about the fuck as so many so called bulls think , for us its about all 3 having fun and enjoyment,, we like to build up and get to know the guy we are going to have fun and games with , and the more meets we have the better it gets for all, with long term meets we all get more relaxed and open and this leads to the rule book getting thinner,

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By *heFunCuckCoupleCouple
over a year ago

southend

Som great insight from the couple’s here,

We are here, it’s just you need to put in the time and effort and understand us

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

A very good post and some great responses.

Being patient and listening to what both partners like and as importantly don't like is so important.

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

We second this

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think it is fair to say that cuckolding is a wide term that covers quite a dynamic range of couples and kinks.

So it is difficult to offer advice as what one couple wants another will not.

I think the best you can hope for is to look out for cuckold discussions and profiles and see what dynamic fits with your kinks and make contact.

For example if the cuck is bi and this is a large part of their fun, then it is not likely that a straight guy will fit the bill as a bull.

Equally if there is a desire to have regular dates then an attached man is not going to be able to make that commitment.

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

The issue tends to be distance on this site when you find someone who ticks the boxes and to play this scenario it has to be someone local and more than a one off

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

This is exactly it

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"The issue tends to be distance on this site when you find someone who ticks the boxes and to play this scenario it has to be someone local and more than a one off"

You can say that again. I've never struggled to find likeminded couples. For me the struggle has always been finding a couple that that lives local enough to make it possible to get the most out of this lifestyle.

One offs don't really do it for me so I miss out on a lot of instant gratification scenarios but I'd still rather hold out for a couple that's a good match for me.

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By *wosup_1Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

Cuckold husband here for chat with Bull about you pumping my wife full of your babies as I'm made to feel humiliated and watch

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By *eeboCouple
over a year ago

basingstoke

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

There are so many nuances to cuckolding. The interaction with the cuck is as important as with the female. Not every couple wants the same thing. There are things I won’t do to just get laid. It has to work for everyone involved. But when it does, it’s very rewarding

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By *nderlockandkey88Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

Exaclty this

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By *knorwichcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

Nailed it right there!

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

A lot of people confuse being a bull with being a dickhead. So many assume that the cuck is submissive.

Sure there are sub cucks but they are two different kinks.

Trust is essential to a good bull/cuck couple relationship, and sadly too many on here don't want to put the effort in. It's understandable that the cuck couples are a bit defensive.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yep don't answer message that come in at midnite from cucks

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

Always on the look out for good ones. I am allergic to women and hate to refuse action when they are still woundup after I have sorted out hubby who is often completely without entrgy poor chap.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’.

Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics."

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

"There are so many nuances to cuckolding. The interaction with the cuck is as important as with the female. Not every couple wants the same thing. There are things I won’t do to just get laid. It has to work for everyone involved. But when it does, it’s very rewarding "

Well explained

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet.

That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet.

I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet.

I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch."

That’s pretty much symbolic in cuckolding, not for everyone though, but something more experienced loving cuckold couples will do.

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By *wosup_1Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

Cuckold husband here for chat with Bull about you breeding my wife as I'm made to feel humiliated and watch

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet.

I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch.

That’s pretty much symbolic in cuckolding, not for everyone though, but something more experienced loving cuckold couples will do."

Indeed, naturally it has to be fun and consensual for all concerned but if a couple wants to go down the rabbit hole it's something I'd want to explore with them

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

totally get this. all 3 need to be involved- we feel to many bulls approach cuckolding from things they see in porn. They need to remember we are not here to fulfill their fantasy., mor e likely the other way around.

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

I know it's a cliche but really, every couple, including cucks, is different. The cuck may be submissive or he may be a full blown alpha-male - with a kink! Same goes for the wife. However, imho for any "arrangement" to have the characteristics of a cuckold relationship, it needs to be something that has some duration - not a one off, or a few quick meets and done. It needs to be something where both halves of the couple get their needs (diverse as they may be) satisfied - and it is the wifelover's responsibility to listen, understand and meet those needs. The couple are central to this, theirs is the stable relationship - the extra man can and should be discarded and replaced once if and when they "grow out of him". He'll just have to find a new couple as they will find a new man. It is NOT just about sex and certainly not, necessarily, about overt humiliation. There is an enormous psychological element to it - without that, it just ain't cuckoldry (again imho!). In my, sadly limited, experience it is the couple who find and select the guy rather than the other way round - but, by heck, it's good when they choose you!

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I know it's a cliche but really, every couple, including cucks, is different. The cuck may be submissive or he may be a full blown alpha-male - with a kink! Same goes for the wife. However, imho for any "arrangement" to have the characteristics of a cuckold relationship, it needs to be something that has some duration - not a one off, or a few quick meets and done. It needs to be something where both halves of the couple get their needs (diverse as they may be) satisfied - and it is the wifelover's responsibility to listen, understand and meet those needs. The couple are central to this, theirs is the stable relationship - the extra man can and should be discarded and replaced once if and when they "grow out of him". He'll just have to find a new couple as they will find a new man. It is NOT just about sex and certainly not, necessarily, about overt humiliation. There is an enormous psychological element to it - without that, it just ain't cuckoldry (again imho!). In my, sadly limited, experience it is the couple who find and select the guy rather than the other way round - but, by heck, it's good when they choose you!"

This is excellent and agree all

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By *icebigchopperMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’m on this journey at the moment with a new couple, just chatting at the moment with our social being this Friday which we are all looking forward to. Slowly building up the flirting and getting a feel for what they want exactly and how I fit in. So far we are all in the same page

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By *knorwichcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

One thing is a given the Bull must be honest as with me and cuck working together to check the guy is genuine and honest. Porkies get found out and roasted on the fire quickly.

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By *tevebackagainMan
over a year ago

near horrabridge

I would like to find a couple who would cuckold me in a fashion as in I have to watch and clean up it’s very hard to find

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By *nderlockandkey88Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We are here but believe us when we say its even harder to find the right guy, there's too many on here that just don't understand the lifestyle and think it's just a quick shag with Mrs job done. There's a lot more involved and most guys either don't understand that or can't be bothered with the extra effort. What a lot a guys think is involved apposed to what actually is involved can be worlds apart. What one couple wants could be completely opposite to another couple so what one guy can can offer may fulfill some couples fantasies where as the same guy might not even come close for others. Just our opinion on things.

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By *ourbon1Man
over a year ago

wales

great post. i was in a relationship as a couples bi bull for over a year. took us about 3 months of talking and playing to fully develop to meet the couples needs. love to chat if anyone would like to xx

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By *avier888Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Following. Thinking. Learning. Imagining. I like it! Being a Bull can be like a new acting role.

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Start by doing an advanced search. Look for nearby couples and select cuckolding as the "interested in" criteria.

Make it clear in your profile updates that you're looking for a cuckold couple.

Attend local clubs and look out for anklets or tatoos that may indicate and interest in cuckolding.

It's a 'buyer's market' on here for couples so you will need to put the work in.

Good luck

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Love the thread and insight, thank you everyone for sharing and opening up. It’s nice to have the chance to read more experiences and views from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, when we've explored cuckold play, we found that the majority of the guys just saw it as an opportunity to have sex with the female of the couple, forgetting that they are a couple. Yes, cuckold play can differ between couples, yes, as a bull you are perfectly entitled to have your own interests and desires. That's why communication is so important to finding that right connection between the couple (yes both partners) and the bull.

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By *ambs-stagvixenCouple
over a year ago

Nr Huntingdon

We always thought we was a cuckold couple but after looking around and investigating deeper we have figured out we are more stag and vixen couple.

We joined here thinking we would find someone very easily but how wrong could we be.

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By *J wmcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We seek a guy or even 2 to be part of our lives on a more regular basis

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