FabSwingers.com forum: A woman's figure?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never been able to decide what shape or size i like the most in a woman. I love curvy, I love slim, I love all shapes. At times I feel like I'm the only one! Because every guy I chat too seems to like slim skinnier women. If a woman puts a bit of weight on at work. The guys will say some extremely awful stuff about them. So I'm wondering if it's a case where they do like bigger women but are too scared to admit it. Just curious what other peoples view points are on it??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a case ofem being nasty about a woman's body, nothing more, nothing less. If the nastiness stems from them not being able to admit they like a fuller figure they need to grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves all the way for me

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Curvy deffinately

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I've never been able to decide what shape or size i like the most in a woman. I love curvy, I love slim, I love all shapes. At times I feel like I'm the only one! Because every guy I chat too seems to like slim skinnier women. If a woman puts a bit of weight on at work. The guys will say some extremely awful stuff about them. So I'm wondering if it's a case where they do like bigger women but are too scared to admit it. Just curious what other peoples view points are on it?? "

Don’t be an active bystander and get a grip of the uninitiated.

Cliche but it’s the mind that turns me on whatever to the shape and size.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Love a fuller figure, but certainly don't dislike others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv all kinds of women too and I totally get what your saying it seems like some guys won’t say what they really think just what they think people want to hear .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t beat a curvy figure of a woman.. ample/large breasts & a peachy bum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuller figure woman lover here

Lee

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By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Curves all the way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curves all the way xx"

Absolutely gorgeous curvy figure..

love all types..

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By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Curves all the way xx

Absolutely gorgeous curvy figure..

love all types.."
thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves in the right places x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ample,large,curvy and I love me,does that count?

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By *_the_impalerMan
over a year ago

canterbury

I can’t choose

All depends on the girl totally

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By *uriousfarmerMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Girls/Women with curves alday long for me, nothing more seductive than a woman to explore with your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man who's rude about a woman's body will be rude regardless of size. They will say they're too skinny, too fat, too tall, too flat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer curves, personally I love a peachy bum to grab onto!

No man should be saying disrespectful comments about any woman, no matter the size

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Both is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the person. Turn the tables i like dad bod but also gym bod but doesnt mean i would find them all attractive

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I like all types, but I do like peaches as well

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

"As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x "

It’s definitely not as one sided as people make out you’re definitely right !

Also 11/10 pics

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

I think lots of people are simply conditioned to think that slim = beautiful. Society collectively has some odd/narrow/wholly inaccurate definitions of beauty both for men and women.

The antidote is to just like who *you* like for the reasons *you* like them and screw what anyone else has to say about it.

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Naturally curvy, nothing better than natural curves on a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can initially be attracted by a body type but it’s the mental attraction that wins me over.

If I’m chatting to someone and there’s no immediate physical attraction but they exude a strong sexual confidence I’ll take that anytime over looks and a perfect body.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Curves far more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

short and very curvy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The brain and the smiles come first…

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

Sexy for me

Now you can be any size or shape but it's just that thing that makes you sexy it could be your hair a smile a look but it is from within its not a look its an attitude I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said before a curvy woman..

but a slender woman r just as nice.. it isn’t just the body that makes the person..

looks..intelligent..conversational..etc

Variety is the spice of life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ladies all shapes and sizes from skinny to curvy to bbw but I would choose curvy/bbw over skinny any day of the week

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why anyone would bring someone down that isn’t to their taste is beyond me, and pretty childish to be fair.

Everyone likes what they like. Surely you wouldn’t care what others like?

For me I do prefer a more voluptuous woman, I’m all about the ass. That been said a lot is facial attraction and personality too. X

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

From my experience, men seem to prefer bigger butts and boobs. I tell them I'm not their type as I'm petite and althetic.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I love ladies all shapes and sizes from skinny to curvy to bbw but I would choose curvy/bbw over skinny any day of the week "

Skinny?

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Why do you need to choose which you prefer?

I like women, period.

Curvy, slim, athletic, whatever, I'm down for them all.

If a man criticises a body shape, I tend to find it's actually a projection because he is deeply unhappy with his own body.

My favourite example is when a man says a muscular woman looks like a man.... But he himself resembles a sack of onions... So what man is he basing that off? Or is he saying he is not a man?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x "

Not that it's really down to me to comment on anyone else's body... But my preference is for slimmer ladies. And for what it's worth vixen, you look fantastic.

As for those using unpleasant descriptions... You see it all too often. Have a thought guys..

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By *udepaulMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Confidence and a lovely smile, everything else is not important for me

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Has long as the person who’s attached to the skin and bones or curves and pervs is a nice honest person .. then all lovely

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

I like curves, what i class as typical female shape, hips bum boob's. My mrs is curvy now older and great boob's.turns me on easily still after 23 yrs.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Same here curvy x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Has long as the person who’s attached to the skin and bones or curves and pervs is a nice honest person .. then all lovely "

I think compatibility plays more important part than looks. You can be initially attracted to someone but if your preferences in bed don't match, you're not going to really enjoy the sex.

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By *eachrunner1Man
over a year ago

Farnham

Spend some time at a nudist resort and you'l soon realise that attractiveness comes in all shapes and sizes.

As a young man I was convinced that my 'type' was petite women with small pert boobs....

Then I started going to naturist beaches and discovered my eye was drawn to tall women, women with larger hips and/or boobs and even some women who may be considered generally 'curvy'.

Then I realised that what I was attracted to was women who were simply comfortable in their appearance and confident enough not to care what anyone else thought.

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By *dris12345Man
over a year ago

home

"Has long as the person who’s attached to the skin and bones or curves and pervs is a nice honest person .. then all lovely

I think compatibility plays more important part than looks. You can be initially attracted to someone but if your preferences in bed don't match, you're not going to really enjoy the sex. "

I pretty much share your thoughts here. I’m more into someone that is comfy in themselves, then a body type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man who's rude about a woman's body will be rude regardless of size. They will say they're too skinny, too fat, too tall, too flat... "

Yep

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Peachy bum, small boobs and nice hips OK? Asking for a friend.

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By *ranklin40Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Always curvy for me. I love nothing more than a sexy BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penny has rock hard curves and skin like butter, I wouldn't change a thing about her.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Has long as the person who’s attached to the skin and bones or curves and pervs is a nice honest person .. then all lovely

I think compatibility plays more important part than looks. You can be initially attracted to someone but if your preferences in bed don't match, you're not going to really enjoy the sex. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a curvy lady.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have a tendency towards curves, even to what some people would call overweight. But all are lovely.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’d describe myself as curvy but relatively slim - I think confidence is sexy regardless of size and to be fair it’s all perceptive a woman can be a different size of clothing in multiple shops it’s not a one size fits all - put two sized 12 woman next to each other they will never look the same - sexy is a state of mind not a shape x

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

I prefer slim.

But some men will always find a way to put women down and make nasty comments. If it wasn’t their weight it would be their looks, the way they dressed, that they were a whore, that they were bossy, full of themselves. Etc etc.

It’s other people’s insecurities and the media encourage this by commenting on women’s appearance when it’s irrelevant to whatever job they are doing.

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I think as women, we are from an earlier age conditioned to think that men only find a certain type of woman attractive. The typical slim, size 10 toned body. The type of body I could only dream of having. As I have got older and became single again after a long time, and thinking no one would ever find my mum body/big thighs and ass attractive, I have realised that it’s not the case. I went through spells of feeling more desired and sexier recently than I ever did when I was much slimmer. Going through a crisis of body confidence at the moment, but I think that if someone puts down another’s body for whatever reason, they are an arse. Everyone has their own preference, but to put someone down on their appearance just because it’s not to your preference, just makes you not a nice person anyway. See it all the time on here. Get to know the person beneath the body, and that makes them even more attractive or not as the case may be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- I'll add it's not all 'societal'. Regardless of 'society' we can all make our own minds up. In my case, when overweight I had the most vitriol from my older sister & mother. Which was kind of ironic in that they were prolific yo-yo dieters. You could say they were conditioned by society but nah, that's the lazy way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP was referring to people not liking fat as opposed to curves. You can be a size 10 and curvy!

I think there is some truth in the perception about guys happy to fuck fat women but not date them. I know not all guys but in the main.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Male entitlement is a funny thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ALL WOMEN

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By *nippermanMan
over a year ago

keighley

"As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x "
.. you're a very gorgeous lady you need to just ignore them.. I think your curves are perfect

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By *edtimefunMan
over a year ago

Northampton

100% agree .. I like to be able to have a nice cuppa and chat between orgasms xx

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

All kinds of shapes and sizes of women's bodies can be incredibly sexy

A big problem is that society/media/companies have punted the idea that skinny is hot and anything else is not for far too long. That's definitely going to have an effect on what body types people see as attractive. Thankfully, it's beginning to get better but there's still a long way to go!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like small tits big shaped hips and kissable lips

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By *iceyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Curves all the way for me

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By *ac995Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love the hour glass figure

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I like small tits big shaped hips and kissable lips "

Loose lips sink ships

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

A woman's shape is a beautiful thing

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A bit of a curve definitely

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

"As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x

It’s definitely not as one sided as people make out you’re definitely right !

Also 11/10 pics

Thank you

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

"As a slim woman I think a lot of men prefer curves... there are lots of men who see me as too slim... theres also a lot who like to use unpleasant terms to describe my body...

I think its each to their own but lots of men prefer a curvier lady x

Not that it's really down to me to comment on anyone else's body... But my preference is for slimmer ladies. And for what it's worth vixen, you look fantastic.

As for those using unpleasant descriptions... You see it all too often. Have a thought guys.. "

Thank you, and thank you for calling out earlier in the thread that 'skinny is not a flattering term xx

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

"I think as women, we are from an earlier age conditioned to think that men only find a certain type of woman attractive. The typical slim, size 10 toned body. The type of body I could only dream of having. As I have got older and became single again after a long time, and thinking no one would ever find my mum body/big thighs and ass attractive, I have realised that it’s not the case. I went through spells of feeling more desired and sexier recently than I ever did when I was much slimmer. Going through a crisis of body confidence at the moment, but I think that if someone puts down another’s body for whatever reason, they are an arse. Everyone has their own preference, but to put someone down on their appearance just because it’s not to your preference, just makes you not a nice person anyway. See it all the time on here. Get to know the person beneath the body, and that makes them even more attractive or not as the case may be x"

Love this comment, it's all about learning to love ourselves... we all have insecurities, we all go through body confidence wobbles but we need to try and love us x

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Everyone should be accepted for who they are whatever their body type.

Do you call them out when you hear them making such horrible comments or stay quiet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *ustful_connectionCouple
over a year ago

cornwall

I’m a curvier girl and I think your body is perfect! What I would give to have a body like yours! X

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By *edtimefunMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I’m a curvier girl and I think your body is perfect! What I would give to have a body like yours! X

Not just saying this as I know there's no chance of meeting but that's a nice comment you made but I'm definitely sure there's many, many ladies that would love a body like yours xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure the comments they are making have something to do with the size of their dick rather than the size of the woman's waist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pick a curvy bigger lady over a skinny all day long

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

All shapes and sizes are sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All shapes and sizes are sexy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All shapes and sizes are sexy!"

Ah yes, the classic way of not putting anyone off.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"All shapes and sizes are sexy!

Ah yes, the classic way of not putting anyone off. "

All about the efficient gathering of the widest possible demographic, apparently. You have to admire the logic. If (absolutely) nothing else.

My favourite shape is a pentagon, and I've thus never found the shapely woman of my dreams. Some of us are destined to walk this Earth alone. Radially symmetric, but alone.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

"All shapes and sizes are sexy!

Ah yes, the classic way of not putting anyone off.

All about the efficient gathering of the widest possible demographic, apparently. You have to admire the logic. If (absolutely) nothing else.

My favourite shape is a pentagon, and I've thus never found the shapely woman of my dreams. Some of us are destined to walk this Earth alone. Radially symmetric, but alone."

Never give up searching, your pentagon is out there somewhere

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

All sizes and shapes for me, although, given a binary choice between skinny and curvy I would tend to go for curvy. Weirdly, considering it is supposed to be physical, personality is important to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone should be accepted for who they are whatever their body type.

Do you call them out when you hear them making such horrible comments or stay quiet?

I'd like to say i do at times! But unfortunately in some cases, people are just so deluded in their mindset that it's just not worth engaging with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman takes care of herself it’s pleasant for eyes to look at her and admire her beauty. Doesn’t matter if she’s slim,petite or curvy.

Mrs

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