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Winks, Picture fab or messages,

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Which do you prefer?

I would rather they fabbed the pics and winked and then if we like we can message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer messages, but will respond in kind to winks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always nice to receive the trio. Fabs of pic and videos knowing people are enjoying viewing, wink to show interest and a message to take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

messages. Px

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By *eckard2019Man
over a year ago

North West Durham

Depends what the person wants. I wouldn't assume a picture fab means they are interested in taking things further, but a wink or message is more likely to mean they are (unless the message says otherwise).

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

All 3 with messages the priority

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By *nsertWittyNameCouple
over a year ago

Near Hull

We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return."

This is awesome. We respect blunt and direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All three, anything to break the ice

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm easy - any form of interest/appreciation goes down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a message personally

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By *anSMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Much prefer a message, I’ll reply or send thanks to a wink or a fab if someone is too shy to make the first move though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference at all! If people wink we have a look and if we like them, we’ll wink back. If we get a message we always reply even if it’s just a polite no thank you. We look at fabs and may wink the odd one or two who stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference.. just nice to get something to break the ice..

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Probably all 3 here, fab, wink and a decent message ... fancy a fuck does not work

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I like all 3 , but most likely to reply to a message

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I prefer a message. A fab or wink are fine when I'm involved in a forum game, I rarely respond to them to winks

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By *el13ABCMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Don't mind a wink and a fab

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By *rAMissJCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer the fab and message. Amount of guys who message saying the love the pics and don't even fab one lol

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"Prefer the fab and message. Amount of guys who message saying the love the pics and don't even fab one lol "

Happens to us as well

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

Id be happy with any of the above x

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Winks and messages can be flattering, particularly if they are within 20mile of PO30 friends requests get binned if we haven't spoken. Fabbing pictures is nice to recieve and may open doors to a conversion if they aren't contrived from a fab me thread.

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

Don’t look at winks or fab’s

If someone can’t follow the simple rules on my profile then they aren’t the type of person I’m looking for

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I find that a wink back and forth opens the door to a nice message. Tells me it’s okay to progress a bit.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We love it all, but a carefully thought out message from someone who is local-ish, has read our profile and sends some face pics goes to the top of the pile. More so if you’re a sexy couple or fem

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Never look at our winks Historically they’ve never led anywhere.

Fabs are good and we’ll sometimes check out who’s been perving our pics.

Messages we prefer above anything, and we always reply.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

We ignore anything other than well written thought out messages. Not those one liners "how are you" or those that say "wanna fuck tonight".

The small talk messages are just so tedious.....get to the point and tell us what you are after

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By *oupleformeetCouple
over a year ago

london

Fab us. Message us. Chat in public cxx

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Winks or messages as they stay around, fabbed shows last 24 hours unless you seek them out on the picture or clip

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Which do you prefer?

I would rather they fabbed the pics and winked and then if we like we can message them.

"

My preference to, but I do like the odd message ,

Xx

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return."
..totally!

In the uk its a known fact . To Dilly dally!! Many piss around on here alot.

People only do what you allow them to do!

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Any would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a wink to break the ice then take it from there personally

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

We use winks to show interest and message after receiving one back. We do respond to most messages received even if it's a polite no thanks and fabs, we had a fair few of them to do too much about

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By *amasoporkyCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Love all 3 ….if we like what we see we return x

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

We prefer winks.

We don't waste our time writing out unique prose for those who aren't interested and won't waste their time responding. It's inefficient aside from anything else.

A wink should be a pretty much universally understood indicator of "we're prospectively DTF unless you give us a reason not to be"

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree all three with messages coming first.

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By *haky 80Man
over a year ago

Wellington

Like all 3 but winks are good to show interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke signal if all else fails

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm totally fine with Messåges.

I rarely look at Wînks.

Fab'd Photos: a gracious gesture but nothing more.

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By *Jones1983Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Prefer a message, have yet to receive many winks and get very few fabs too.

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By *haringSatisfactionCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale


"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though"

The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?

It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.

I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate.

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

Messages and winks are great. C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs and messages

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I like a wink and a fab, good indicator of liking / being liked.

Then move to message if response xxx

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though

The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?

It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.

I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate. "

For us we’re not looking for a copy of war and peace - doesn’t have to be clever or witty.

Maybe a reference to our profile. Maybe a reference to some snippet of information from our profile, like a common interest or so, something shows they have an interest in us as people rather than just a statistic or fish in a sea that their wide net of copy/paste message is trying to snag.

An expression of some sort on investment will always garner some interest from the receiver.

Surely that’s something a professional, or indeed any hard working, or busy decent person, can find a moment to put a bit of investment in?

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By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

Love a message,a hi how you going etc!...

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale


"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though

The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?

It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.

I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate.

For us we’re not looking for a copy of war and peace - doesn’t have to be clever or witty.

Maybe a reference to our profile. Maybe a reference to some snippet of information from our profile, like a common interest or so, something shows they have an interest in us as people rather than just a statistic or fish in a sea that their wide net of copy/paste message is trying to snag.

An expression of some sort on investment will always garner some interest from the receiver.

Surely that’s something a professional, or indeed any hard working, or busy decent person, can find a moment to put a bit of investment in? "

When put in those terms, it seems very easy to do. And it is. Once or twice or even a dozen times. But fab is a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good wink to break the ice

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Wink and/or message. I usually give a wink and if I get one back then proceed with a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink and fab is always a good start . The. If you like the look of them you can start chatting

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

messages will only get my attention winks get deleted as for fabs on pics im not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message or a wink, not bothered about pictures being fabbed, it's not why we're on here

Miss S x

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I don’t get many messages I’d be lucky to get one lol

Winks and fabs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message, wink, fab in that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all 3!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Like winks like fabs like messages

If they say what interested them about the profile and they can hold a conversation .

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We like them all. Winks are good for catching our attention, fabs are always nice and messages are the gateway to a good time

C x

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We don't mind them all but messages are always nice to get....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really bothered trying to respond to all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and creampie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm easy - any form of interest/appreciation goes down well. "
totally agree..

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I prefer a wink first. It's more an indication that someone's profile has caught my eye and vice versa. If so then I'll message to introduce myself but everyone has their own ways of making the first approach

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Probably all 3 here, fab, wink and a decent message ... fancy a fuck does not work "

This is our preference too

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Wink or message for us, fab just means they’ve liked the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e joy all forms of communication. What ever form, it is always nice to receive xx

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham


"Which do you prefer?

I would rather they fabbed the pics and winked and then if we like we can message them.

"

Cant fab your pictures

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By *ecker30Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I think a wink or fab to show interest. Then I'll message if I get one back

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Wink to test the water,

fab to show more interest, message to take it further

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Don't really mind. Any are OK with us. If we like the look we will follow up.

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