FabSwingers.com forum: New guy and wife (sometimes!!)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New to swinging and want to try so much, wife wants to join sometimes

Havent had much luck here, any advice on how to find like minded couples, girls or guys in bars etc would be good

Anyone know good bars swingers go to in Oxford area?

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You'd be better having a couples profile if your wife wants to join sometimes, people won't take a single blokes profile with a wife who may join seriously, there's too many pretend to have a partner maybe add a profile pic too.

Good luck

Mrs

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"You'd be better having a couples profile if your wife wants to join sometimes, people won't take a single blokes profile with a wife who may join seriously, there's too many pretend to have a partner maybe add a profile pic too.

Good luck

Mrs "

Agree with this^^

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

New to swinging and want to try so much, wife wants to join sometimes

Havent had much luck here, any advice on how to find like minded couples, girls or guys in bars etc would be good

Anyone know good bars swingers go to in Oxford area?"

There aren't any normal bars that swingers just go to anywhere it doesn't work like like that.

If you want to meet swingers in a pub / bat / club type environment then you need to go to a swingers club, become members together as a couple and then pick a night that best suits what your looking for.

However you want to ensure its exactly what you partner wants after many genuine and sober conversations before taking those steps.

Nothing worse that a guy who manages to convince his d*unk wife to go into a swingers club on a night out and then he/ she arent able to handle it when the other plays with people and chaos erupts.

Most decent clubs wouldn't let people in that situation join / come in but 1 or 2 have slipped in and we have been witnesses to the inevitable car crash that ensues.

As the previous poster said have some honest conversations and if she's happy set up a couples profile together.