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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol would swinger mentor make sense for newbies?!

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

If you’re lucky enough to engage early on with someone who is experienced in the ‘lifestyle’ and is willing to answer all of your questions and encourage them you’ll be very lucky indeed

I had that good fortune and was very lucky to have made a friend and a mentor as a result. It also helps that she’s gorgeous

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Lol would swinger mentor make sense for newbies?!"

That’s a very clever thought, I congratulate you.

It’s got no chance , but it’s a highly inventive way to promote yourself and I for one say bravo sir!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope as the forums answer all the questions with a backlog of useful information

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Lol would swinger mentor make sense for newbies?!"
. I think it’s a good idea but how would you decide who is a good mentor

age , verifications , pictures ,bio profile.I occasionally get younger guys & younger couples asking me about the club , spa , socials I attend as well as some off the things I say on the forums about clubs and profile advice. I answer truthfully to my thoughts and experiences whether that’s good mentoring or not I don’t know I would like to think it helps in some way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol would swinger mentor make sense for newbies?!. I think it’s a good idea but how would you decide who is a good mentor

age , verifications , pictures ,bio profile.I occasionally get younger guys & younger couples asking me about the club , spa , socials I attend as well as some off the things I say on the forums about clubs and profile advice. I answer truthfully to my thoughts and experiences whether that’s good mentoring or not I don’t know I would like to think it helps in some way"
I think that's a good way to go about it, but yet alot of ppl struggle on here

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By *amcamzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Id say etiquette more than anything like when your at a social event dos and donts

But if your dealing with a person you should be able to get an understanding of what is or isn't expected imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id say etiquette more than anything like when your at a social event dos and donts

But if your dealing with a person you should be able to get an understanding of what is or isn't expected imo

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I agree with you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been like this for many a couple in the past. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been like this for many a couple in the past. Lol. "
do share your experience

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
over a year ago

york

I got taken under the wing my first time in a club and passed all kinds of useful information. It was very helpful indeed.

Not sure about a full mentorship though

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we acted as mentors to several newbies one girl wanted to visit a club so she came to our house and came with us same with a few couples i think every one gets mentored on their first few club visits

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I bet most new single female profiles get inundated with predators offering to 'mentor' them.

I think the idea is a good one but they should beentored like for like i.e single female to single female, TV to TV etc.

It would stop a lot of the abuse.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Wouldn’t say we’ve mentored people but we’ve certainly introduced and guided people in the lifestyle, mainly at our parties.

It can certainly be daunting for some if keen yet nervous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are ppl who are helpful we ran into a gentlemen who got us moving by i see alot struggle

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

To me is no sense having mentors in the swing life style. That's ok introducing to the scene but more than that i found it controlling the person/s and not let them explore naturally their path

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

just my view but i think you need to make your own journey with swinging theres already enough help via clubs and on here ...theres already a army of men mainly asking sort my profile sort my pics what do you want me to ask what do you want me to say ?? how can i attract you and on and on ... all you can do is be yourself .. swinging is not rocket science its a game of choice / attraction / likes / dislikes / socials or not ...

these forums are a bible of advice

just my opinion but im fed up with looking at profiles that screamed got advice ie they are all the same ...be original be you

#justmyopinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just my view but i think you need to make your own journey with swinging theres already enough help via clubs and on here ...theres already a army of men mainly asking sort my profile sort my pics what do you want me to ask what do you want me to say ?? how can i attract you and on and on ... all you can do is be yourself .. swinging is not rocket science its a game of choice / attraction / likes / dislikes / socials or not ...

these forums are a bible of advice

just my opinion but im fed up with looking at profiles that screamed got advice ie they are all the same ...be original be you

#justmyopinion

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Makes alot of sense with what you said and I agree with most of it, the whole point was to read opinions of real experienced swingers

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"just my view but i think you need to make your own journey with swinging theres already enough help via clubs and on here ...theres already a army of men mainly asking sort my profile sort my pics what do you want me to ask what do you want me to say ?? how can i attract you and on and on ... all you can do is be yourself .. swinging is not rocket science its a game of choice / attraction / likes / dislikes / socials or not ...

these forums are a bible of advice

just my opinion but im fed up with looking at profiles that screamed got advice ie they are all the same ...be original be you

#justmyopinion

Makes alot of sense with what you said and I agree with most of it, the whole point was to read opinions of real experienced swingers "

experienced swingers lol ive been on the scene 30 years it counts for nothing (just get called a know it all for having an opinion ) we are all different we all do things different there's no one path

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