FabSwingers.com forum: Account ages...

By *eordiePeach OP Woman
over a year ago

My own little world

So got some curiosities about peoples ages on here

Are people - any gender or sexual orientation ect - bothered about others lying about age / marital status ect on here? Or during meets - in person, in / outside of clubs or socially?

Personally, age isn't a huge thing to me; I don't see the point of lying about it on profiles or in person - you are however old you are, what's the big deal?

My 'concern'

is;

"are you going to continue saying you're older or younger than your true age?"

"are you doing so for your own personal gain to get that older/younger guy or gal?"

If and when you then meet the person, couple or people you've been talking to, what do you say if you're then called out?

At what point does it become an issue / creepy?

Curious about others POV as I've has some folk 'come clean' AFTER the event rather than just being upfront and - to me at least - I think it's pretty sly and manipulating ::|

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My age is my age, and I don't see the point in lying about it. Only today I had a guy message me who one age in his profile and a different one in his profile text.

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By *Jones1983Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Everything on my profile is truth, so my age, sexual orientation and marital status are accurate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re going to lie about something as insignificant as your age then what else are you lying about?

Has always been my standpoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to beat age filters

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Our profile is accurate in all aspects. Very much what you see is what you get. Attractiveness doesn’t depend on age so would rather people were honest but we aren’t out to start relationships with people we meet to does it matter? If this were a dating site ANY lie is a deal breaker but only lie that counts here is freedom from disease!!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

a lady told me i had the body of a man half my age,, and wasnt sure why would i lie..

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"If you’re going to lie about something as insignificant as your age then what else are you lying about?

Has always been my standpoint "

Yep..honesty, integrity, trust are all part of the swinging lifestyle. If you can't be honest you don't understand swinging.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"My age is my age, and I don't see the point in lying about it. Only today I had a guy message me who one age in his profile and a different one in his profile text.

XX"

That might be an old profile text which doesn't change unlike the age does each year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed … why lie, if you’re genuine and meet/message/vid etc surely it will be pretty obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed … why lie, if you’re genuine and meet/message/vid etc surely it will be pretty obvious. "

Yes exactly age is only a number to me if your attracted to the person and there attracted to you well than wonderful have a great time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think a lot of it is due to the widespread use of Fabs age filters and a lot of people have created multiple profiles to try to overcome others preferences :-

I dislike my time and energy wasted by liars. When I've found people doing it, I'm angry and walk away.

It's refreshing when people are open and honest. It's very likable as a trait.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Why would you lie about it, I get that it’s frustrating when someone has their age filters set really restrictively but you’re not going to change their mind by lying about your age, and when they find out any hope of a second or regular meet is out the window. Don’t do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to tell the truth. A liar needs a good memory and I haven't got one. I'm 27.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's so disappointing to arrange a social to find they are not the age they state, once the filters come off and it's obvious in person, it's just a huge waste of everyone's time.

Mrs

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

Dont see the point in lying... if I'm outside someones age filters so be it.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Ye lies bother me alot.

It's about them discarding my preferences,to dishonestly get what they want.

Same as when people have clearly changed their age to get round filters ,then can't change it back.

People sadly lie to get sex ,if I'm any doubt about how truthful someone Is being,I'd cut them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is as stated, tho parts of me seem both older and younger......my knees should be an 80yo....lol....

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I don't suffer fools very well lol. Lieing about age etc is just a fools world. Meeting with females males or couples of any any is great for me. But have gone to meet many that have lied about their age and use very very old pics. I've always been polite but say to them sorry you aren't what is shown on your profile so won't play. What gets me is the shock they have about that lol. Even had guys come to my place and obviously not what is shown on their profile and asked them to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to tell the truth. A liar needs a good memory and I haven't got one. I'm 27.

Joke. I am 42. I can't see the point in lying about that.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't think many would get away with shaving more than a couple of years off.

That wouldn't bother me too much

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we are very what you see is what you get,

can't understand the point of telling fibs.

I guess some of the people we have met may have altered the numbers on their ages a digit or two, perhaps, but it obviously didn't matter coz we didn't notice lol

I suppose the issue is if somebody says they are on the younger end of the scale and when you meet it's obvious they aren't, makes you spun out.

Daft if you ask me coz the meet becomes doomed then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn't too much of an issue (within reason) as long as we are attracted to the person. We like to hope people tell the truth but I suppose you won't always know.

Marital status, we will absolutely not go with anyone that is actively cheating but again I suppose you won't truly know but we again like to hope people are being honest and will avoid people who admit it and we would walk away from a meet or not see them again if we found out they were lying.

Miss S x

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Our ages are real just like all the info on our profile because we see that unless you are honest and open then any potential meeting would have a somber air to them if someone lied and they got caught in said lie

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By *r. ComeagainMan
over a year ago

somewhere in East midlands

Some people generally are the age they say they are I'm generally 33 but don't look near it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be really angry and upset about being lied to to be honest. In fact, I think it would definitely put me off.

Mrs

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

Age is my age,growing old disgracfully.

What can be frustating is the fact age parameters don't move up as your age does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume that everyone is lying about something. Or at least not revealing X.

The intent bothers me more than any lies. I really couldn't care less about their age/ marital status/ sexuality/ etc.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My age is real and I'm happy to fly the flag for people my age. If that means I'm outside some people's age preferences or filters then so be it. Many of them are outside mine too.

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By *dris12345Man
over a year ago

home

My age is my age, at times I wish it wasn’t as I’m just a year or two out of the range if someone I’d like to message, but honesty on here is the best policy

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"My age is real and I'm happy to fly the flag for people my age. If that means I'm outside some people's age preferences or filters then so be it. Many of them are outside mine too. "
,,, spot on..

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

My age is rightish,just the month and day wrong, but the year is correct..a poor attempt at privacy

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

To some extent we get why people fudge their ages a bit but as others have said if peoples' claimed ages are a long way off their true ages it makes you wonder what else they are not being honest about. We have made minor (few months) changes to our ages for privacy reasons

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"My age is rightish,just the month and day wrong, but the year is correct..a poor attempt at privacy

Same I'm a few months older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age on here is my actual age ! I have just turned 37 !

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"My age on here is my actual age ! I have just turned 37 ! "
,, me too,,

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Ours are correct, have seen a few that were a few years older than us when we met them, now a few years younger, eternal youth via Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is correct and I'd want someone in a couple if Im going couple and single if I'm going for single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meeting genuine people for some fun - what’s the point in lying about age if when you meet they are going to doubt you anyway ?

I’m an older guy - but still know what to do

- and it all works

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

Really hate to find people that have lied about any part of their personal lives, if you’ll to lie about your age. What won’t you lie about.

Your profile is the first point others see of you. Once we find a lie the trust is broken.

If we find before it’s a blocked profile and note made.

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

My age is right, I’m 44 this week so it’ll go up on my actual birthday in a few days. I’ve found it’s mainly men that tend to knock a few years off, the women I know all have the right age on. In fact few years ago pre covid was in a club with several guys I know and this came up, on fab I was the oldest but in reality I was actually the youngest.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t really care as I only meet people one off anyway 99% of the time.

As long as I physically I want to fuck with them them it’s all cool. I deem simply most people profiles are half bollocks anyway ..

Add in I require a video call prior to meeting in person so it’s kinda easy to catch out if someone looks nothing like their photos .

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