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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope everyone’s having a good time.

Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.

Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.

Be interesting to see what people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's more than before...I doubt very many are pretending to be bi to play with ladies...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think there's more than before...I doubt very many are pretending to be bi to play with ladies..."

I have experienced it twice. That may be just unlucky.

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By *cottish jockMan
over a year ago

london

It gives the guys who are truely bi a bad rep and makes it harder for them to meet I think or it could just be my experience

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn garden city

Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.

I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It gives the guys who are truely bi a bad rep and makes it harder for them to meet I think or it could just be my experience "

Agreed

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn garden city


"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.

I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Well said Panda.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi. "

I hope so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.

I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."

100000% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of the "bi" guys here are actually gay pertaining to be bi so they can attract the cock they wouldn't get if they listed themselves with their "true" sexuality

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.

I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."

Totally agree with you on this Panda. I’m pretty much the same as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always been here

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

I'm fully bi and one that's looking for another bi/gay man to join me

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi. "

.

I have no doubt you're right

As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but

most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.

.

I have no doubt you're right

As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but

most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale "

I disagree

I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle

I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality

Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

Absolutely, I said it is more widely accepted but it's still not normalised. I actually get more pushback in gay bars for being bisexual than I do anywhere else. If I try explaining what pansexuality is, it blows most people's minds. It's easier to say I'm bi, which is something that I didn't feel comfortable doing 10 years ago. It's easier to be yourself but it's still not perfect as there are a lot of people stuck in their ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more "Fab Straight" that want to suck cock

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.

I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."

Couldn't have put it better myself, I'm fairly low down the bi spectrum so still say I'm curious with experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.

Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.

Ah that's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I should pretend to be bi to play with women - great logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was straight till I came on here.. Now I've had more cock than hot dinners.. Weird but who cares. I just love sex

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.

.

I have no doubt you're right

As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but

most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale

I disagree

I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle

I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality

Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages "

I fully concur

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi. "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi. "

Yes, hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more "Fab Straight" that want to suck cock

Miss S x"

Ooooh yes

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

There's certainly more who are open about being bi, compared to say 15 years ago when I was active on another site, and I get far more 'looks' from guys than even four years ago when I was more active in seeking meets.

Maybe some have changed from bi-curious to bi over time, as well as it being more acceptable to couples now - mmf seems very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just need to be true to themselves and list as what they actually are, not what they think will help them to score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been bi for many years always had a girlfriend or partner as well, been bi top for the last 15 years but happy to suck on a cock and share with my girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi opp but my profile sayes straight. Its not to decieve anyone. Its because im fully bi in a couples situation only and not on M M meets and it keeps men away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.

Exactly this! "

Exactly.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I hope everyone’s having a good time.

Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.

Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.

Be interesting to see what people think. "

Sorry to say we will not meet bi guys also a good number of single ladies it will help with some but put as many off..

But you answer your question I think being bi is far more socially acceptable these days so more people are willing to come out.

No more no less

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Fully bi hubby here who's wife is totally aware and extremely supportive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be more socially acceptable thankfully. Love sucking cock now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.

.

I have no doubt you're right

As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but

most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale

I disagree

I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle

I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality

Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages "

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I think everyone is more open now and not ashamed to be what they want to be. I'm old enough to remember "contact" magazines before the Internet existed. Even in these secret days people would never show their faces in adverts to avoid being recognised. Look on here now and people are showing their faces in their public photos because people simply don't care anymore about getting recognised. It's the same with bi men and women as it's accepted now.

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By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Perhaps it's more about acceptance these days. A few decades ago being gay was mostly hidden, societal prejudice made it that way.

Sexuality is freer now.

I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps it's more about acceptance these days. A few decades ago being gay was mostly hidden, societal prejudice made it that way.

Sexuality is freer now.

I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now"

Its certainly getting easier.. I still think its us bi guys that carry the most societal stigma

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By *ikemilfloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think society has always been quick to pigeonhole people whereas it’s not as simple as that.

What’s wrong with enjoying licking pussy and sucking cock ?

Both at the same time with a couple even better !

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I hope everyone’s having a good time.

Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.

Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.

Be interesting to see what people think. "

Fab bi. Only suck cock in hope to fuck pussy.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I don't think there's more than before...I doubt very many are pretending to be bi to play with ladies..."

I think you are underestimatimg some guys on here. Most lie to fuck the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sexuality is freer now.

I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now"

Same here male been bi for almost 40 years bi top for the last 15 years. When I sucked my first cock all those years ago you didn't dare tell anyone big secret.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Absolutely, I said it is more widely accepted but it's still not normalised. I actually get more pushback in gay bars for being bisexual than I do anywhere else. If I try explaining what pansexuality is, it blows most people's minds. It's easier to say I'm bi, which is something that I didn't feel comfortable doing 10 years ago. It's easier to be yourself but it's still not perfect as there are a lot of people stuck in their ways."

I'm pansexual but not interested in everybody. I like feminine and androgynous people, whatever is in their underwear.

I generally don't want to meet masculine men, but because the choices are limited, I've opted for 'Bi' on here.

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