FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse

By *weetiepieshar1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Over the last week I have had 3 guys sending abusive personal messages to me. I have reported this to admin but all three are still on the site. I wonder if I didnt report them correctly or if its ok to call someone a fat cunt among other things on here these days. I have been on and off this site for over 15 years and always paid to be a member. My fun is now ruined.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"Over the last week I have had 3 guys sending abusive personal messages to me. I have reported this to admin but all three are still on the site. I wonder if I didnt report them correctly or if its ok to call someone a fat cunt among other things on here these days. I have been on and off this site for over 15 years and always paid to be a member. My fun is now ruined."

How on earth is your fun ruined?

It’s a few comments from a few people ignore them

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

You need broader shoulders why get upset by nobodies ? I block and don’t allow them anymore of my thought or time !

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By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Block and move on.

While I don't condone abusive behaviour, fab, like "normal" life has its fair share of dickheads.

Just do your thing and find other kindred souls

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By *weetiepieshar1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

I no longer trust this site if people can get away with abuse. Until it happens to you you wouldnt understand.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't know why you'd expect them to be removed from the site

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By *weetiepieshar1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

You dont know me so please dont tell me what I need to do x

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"You need broader shoulders why get upset by nobodies ? I block and don’t allow them anymore of my thought or time ! "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry, frustrated strangers lashing out at you. Ignore it. Best revenge is living well n all that. I’ve had abuse and it rattled me a little but I just move on.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"You dont know me so please dont tell me what I need to do x"

So why start a thread?

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"You dont know me so please dont tell me what I need to do x"
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Why post on an open forum if you cannot handle people replying to your post?

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"I no longer trust this site if people can get away with abuse. Until it happens to you you wouldnt understand. "

Everyone gets abuse at sometime! sadly you are not special

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By *ndisMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not nice getting abuse of any kind! Don't let the idiots ruin it for you OP. Just move on and try and fing the nicer people!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I'm sorry this has happened to you. It's vile and messes with your confidence. Admin will have noted your comments, I'm not sure if they give the people a warning or keep a log, so that if others complain, maybe they get booted off then.

Concentrate on yourself. Chat with people you know and maybe block men who aren't new, have no photos , aren't subscribers etc. Reduce the number of men that can contact you or have a break from Fab completely to give yourself a breather.

Sadly there are idiots in the world and Fab can bring out the best and the worst in people.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

It’s disgusting and they should be removed from the site but sadly they will probably just rejoin.

All these comments saying oh well. Would you go up to someone that you don’t know in the street and call them a fat cunt. Of course not so how is a message acceptable.

I’d just send them abuse back and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that a few low-lifes have spoiled things for you. Abuse happens, but you would hope that the mods would take action. After all, the site spiel makes it clear that such behaviour won't be tolerated. Here's hoping.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"It’s disgusting and they should be removed from the site but sadly they will probably just rejoin.

All these comments saying oh well. Would you go up to someone that you don’t know in the street and call them a fat cunt. Of course not so how is a message acceptable.

I’d just send them abuse back and block them. "

Nobody has said “ oh well “ people are generally saying get on with life and ignore the comments. All forms of social media has trolls if you cannot handle it just leave

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By *weetiepieshar1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Im not holding my breath lol x

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

"It’s disgusting and they should be removed from the site but sadly they will probably just rejoin.

All these comments saying oh well. Would you go up to someone that you don’t know in the street and call them a fat cunt. Of course not so how is a message acceptable.

I’d just send them abuse back and block them. "

And the person who started this thread has just announced she is quitting FAB so she won’t have to worry about any more comments

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By *weetiepieshar1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

I should have told all at the beginning this guy not just called me names he said I was a time waster because I only wanted online fun so he was going to find me come round and show me what swinging really was. That is threatening!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please please please don't let these complete lo lives to ruin your fun. You are stunningly yummy. I tried to message you but I am out of your age range sadly. I am sending you positive energy. You truly are a wonderful sexy woman xx Wish I could have you x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Everyone gets abuse at some point on here. You have to choose how you decide to handle it because it will happen people are very brave behind a screen.

People aren't going to be banned over one report either as there are people who make false reports on here all the time so why expect them to be just because you reported them.

If you have been on here years and this is the first time hoh have gotten abuse you have been incredibly lucky. The first few times I got it it was a bit upsetting but pretty quickly I decided to not let some random asshole who I would never want to meet or chat to get to me and just saw it as the rubbish taking itself out.

I have very tight filters now and I rarely get abuse when I do I just block them and don't even bother checking on them again. If you are constantly checking to see if they are gone you have let them get inside your head which is exactly what they wanted in the first place.

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