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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hello ! I had a lady asking my Driving licence picture to be sent as a proof that im gonna show up. I said i dont want to give my personal details to a stranger. Then she said cant meet. Have you had similar incident or you feel that a scammer ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure how your driving licence picture is going to guarantee you'll show up.

Our general rule is never do anything you're uncomfortable with. Sending personal details like that would be covered by that.

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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you for the response. Yes I asked the same q. Then she said she could take appropriate action if i dont show up. Even i suggested a club meet but she said she cant.

Initially she asked my half of money to be sent to her to book the hotel.i said i dont do that.

It sounds pretty wierd is not it

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

That all sounds a bit to weird to me.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the response. Yes I asked the same q. Then she said she could take appropriate action if i dont show up. Even i suggested a club meet but she said she cant.

Initially she asked my half of money to be sent to her to book the hotel.i said i dont do that.

It sounds pretty wierd is not it"

Waaaay too many red flags there.

Sounds like a scammer to me.

Probably a bloke too.

You're right to refuse to show / give your license details. That's how ID theft happens.

And asking for money up front.

You've dodged a bullet

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

They can use your driving licence number to obtain loads of stuff you was right not to send it

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

OP in my honest opinion that is likely to be a scam. Don’t do either of those things and say hell no to anyone who asks for similar. Block and move on. Hope you have better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the response. Yes I asked the same q. Then she said she could take appropriate action if i dont show up. Even i suggested a club meet but she said she cant.

Initially she asked my half of money to be sent to her to book the hotel.i said i dont do that.

It sounds pretty wierd is not it"

Sounds like a set up. Likely going to use knowledge of your identity to pressure you into things

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think I know her. She contacted me to inform me that my uncle in Nigeria had left £1million in his Will.

She said she’d get back to me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like a scam especially asking for half the money upfront then your driving licence.

Mrs

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The worst part of all this is...

....somebody, somewhere, will probably fall for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean… it could be legit. She might have her own reason ma for it that aren’t obvious to us but even if it is , you only have to do what you’re comfortable with.

If you’re not comfortable , don’t meet her it’s that simple. Had a case the other day someone wasn’t t happy sharing pictures on here and I wasn’t happy doing so on WhatsApp.

We’re either of us wrong ? Nope. We just weren’t compatible so we moved on.

Same here, so t want to share that level of personal info? Move on.

Having said all of that though …. it does sound suss AF

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I wouldn’t do that

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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you evryone for the knowledge sharing . Was in two minds about the ID thing. Luckily i didnt give

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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

She was from south east and saying she is married and hubby doesnt know

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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thanks for sharing this

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By *heAdventurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thats the concern i had. But she didnt want to send her details either. And what she said was she could take actions if idont turn up if she had my id details.. that was suspicious is not it?

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