FabSwingers.com forum: Recognised locally

By *roxhotwifecpl4fun OP Couple
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x"

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not “you” as in the OP but “you” as in the person doing the approaching, obviously

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By *roxhotwifecpl4fun OP Couple
over a year ago

Broxbourne

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

I would have agreed with you, but she was so lovely in how she approached me.

Kelly x

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

This!

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Oh I would hate to be approached, you never know who is listening around you

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

Agree

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve spotted a few fellow Fabbers while going about our business, but we’d never approach them. You never know who they’re with, who’s listening and whether they’re even in the mood. The last thing I’d want is to be talking about my latest pics or status update in the middle of Lidl!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're one of the unusual Fab members that really don't mind, in fact enjoy, people coming up and saying hello. But then, that's because we never have kids or family with us, and if we were out with friends, they'd be swingers too

(Bry)

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

Indeed. An imperceptible nod is allowed though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We used to meet a guy who then got in to a relationship. He gave us express permission to say hello to him if we saw him out anywhere. That's the only time I'd ever approach anyone especially if we'd never met or communicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approaching you is so indiscreet! Bad manners! I’ve seen two I recognised, passed without a blink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes by a friend - he whispered my profile name into my ear on a night lot. It was awkward for a moment, until it clicked in my mind which profile was his and I said it back to him.

That soon shut him up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes by a friend - he whispered my profile name into my ear on a night lot. It was awkward for a moment, until it clicked in my mind which profile was his and I said it back to him.

That soon shut him up. "

*night out

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Would this include slapping your cock on the side of their trolley and asking if they fancied some hot sausage in the car park???

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We been spotted by someone who shares our local, but we would never approach them and they didn't us.

They said Hi on here though, which is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at matlock on the bike, sat in the sun when a guy we had both fucked the weekend before walked passed with his mates! We all nodded and smiled but nothing more.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We got recognised but from someone off social media they messaged us here to say they knew is but where from?? Then gave my name, it freaked me out, I wasn't impressed at all.

Mrs

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

Absolutely this! I may appear to be on my own, but it’s going to pretty awkward when my mate/new partner/family member suddenly appears and says “who was that?” and I haven’t got an answer prepared. Some prop just blush when they’re fibbing and can’t help but give the game away.

You don’t know what’s going on in my life right now and whether I want to be approached, no matter how nicely it’s done.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

My golden rule is not to interact with people from fab in public unless you’ve previously met up and have agreed it is ok. It’s all part of being discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems the general consensus is that people would rather not but OP, you said they did it in a good way and that you didn’t mind.

Care to share how they did the approach that made you feel okay with it ?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Would this include slapping your cock on the side of their trolley and asking if they fancied some hot sausage in the car park???

Todger I’d be disappointed if you saw me at a funeral and felt you couldn’t approach like that. I would expect some sort of todger dance to announce your arrival though. Might lift the mood a little. That’s my one exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x"

I’m curious, what were you doing in the supermarket they helped them recognise you? Your faces aren’t that clear in the pictures. I’m thinking stalker !!

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

My dentist is a swinger, not only has she tended to my teeth for a few years, she's also been to several swinging events that we have been to.

However......it's never spoken about when I see her in a professional capacity, helped by the fact that we've never played together.

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By *tstillworksMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

I’m curious, what were you doing in the supermarket they helped them recognise you? Your faces aren’t that clear in the pictures. I’m thinking stalker !! "

They are in their videos

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I recognized a fellow fab member about a year ago as she walked across a car park, her multi coloured hair made it so easily to recognize her, i didn't say or acknowledge her as she was with friends.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The wife who I played with on-and-off for three years lived not far from a shopping centre which my wife and I would visit occasionally - it was across town from us...

....my playmate was fully aware that my wife didn't know about her, so when one day our paths did cross - she was coming out of the Tesco there as we were going in - she saw, but didn't acknowledge me...

....likewise, if I ever saw someone I'd played with out and about, I'd never, ever, approach them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've walked past someone in the street that I recognised from here. I think I done the right thing by walking on by, and saying nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dentist is a swinger, not only has she tended to my teeth for a few years, she's also been to several swinging events that we have been to.

However......it's never spoken about when I see her in a professional capacity, helped by the fact that we've never played together.

She's never asked you to open wide then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it was so Awkward, I was with Family at the time

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
over a year ago

"We got recognised but from someone off social media they messaged us here to say they knew is but where from?? Then gave my name, it freaked me out, I wasn't impressed at all.

Mrs "

That would freak me out too xx

We’ve had a few people message us on here after they saw us out and about x thankfully no awkward conversation in public x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Massive no to being approached in public. Only takes two minutes to send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

I’m curious, what were you doing in the supermarket they helped them recognise you? Your faces aren’t that clear in the pictures. I’m thinking stalker !!

They are in their videos "

Aha that will be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d Been fucking a woman for at least three

Months and then one day at a works social do my boss introduced me to his wife, I just smiled and said hello as she nervously said hello back, he replied “my wife’s a bit shy” little did he know I knew better lol.

But I never approach anyone on fabs in public, this is meant to be discreet after all, a play world away from normal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some years ago after a visit to a naturist club and we had played with a couple we said where we lived them in Kent us Essex said our good byes only to bump into them at my local tesco they said at the check out oh nice to see you dressed, lady on the till her face was a picture. The couple only live around the corner. Not seen again.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"We got recognised but from someone off social media they messaged us here to say they knew is but where from?? Then gave my name, it freaked me out, I wasn't impressed at all.

Mrs "

I had the opposite - organised a drinks social and a guy took my name from PayPal and then Facebook stalked me. Then told me he'd done it like it was a good thing! Glad my Facebook account is locked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We got recognised but from someone off social media they messaged us here to say they knew is but where from?? Then gave my name, it freaked me out, I wasn't impressed at all.

Mrs

I had the opposite - organised a drinks social and a guy took my name from PayPal and then Facebook stalked me. Then told me he'd done it like it was a good thing! Glad my Facebook account is locked "

Why did he have your PayPal?

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We don’t use our real names on here. Part of being discreet. I (male) would have no problem with a couple letting us know they had seen our profile as long as it was done tactfully. Cammy would panic if we were with other people. She once played with a woman she worked with and for her it got embarrassing for a few days.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"I had the opposite - organised a drinks social and a guy took my name from PayPal and then Facebook stalked me. Then told me he'd done it like it was a good thing! Glad my Facebook account is locked "

Unfortunately, some people don't realise the power of the internet, and will use some of the same photos on here as on their social media accounts...

....it may only take a few seconds of reverse image searching for real identities to be discovered...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big no no!

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

I had a guy contact us on my couples profile. He was convinced he knew who we were, it happen more than once, we didn't know him and the names he thought were wrong, so we suggested he goes to the house where he thought we lived and knock on the door with his cock out. That shut him up!!!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I work in a large store, a young lady once asked me if i was a lord of the rings fan, when i asked why she smiled, said 'have a fab day' and walked off.

i have no idea to this day who she was / is.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

That’s not on

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

big big no no even if ive played with then even regulars outside of having fun or a social then stay away ..last time i was approached it was in a supermarket some one id met before with his mates that the last he ever saw me and i was lucky that day as my daughter was with me but had here nose elsewhere ... total no no

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I've walked past someone in the street that I recognised from here. I think I done the right thing by walking on by, and saying nothing?"

Yes. You did the right thing

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

A lady came into where I work who I recognised I dealt with her work enquiry and about a hour later I sent her a message.She never messaged back which is fine that’s her right.I was also recognised by a man on here who told what time he had seen me in Asda and Ladbrokes and asked if I still worked at my place of work which I did.The thing that worried me about him was that he is a tv / ts so I really have no idea what he looks like

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

That's a big no from. If I did see someone from here it would never cross my mind to approach them.

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

Would love to recognise someone but would approach them in public as must people are discreet and would put them off, would probably send them a message saying that I saw them and it turns me on

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Not nice if you’re trying to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not like it at all. I'd just say I didn't have a clue what they were on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love to recognise someone but would approach them in public as must people are discreet and would put them off, would probably send them a message saying that I saw them and it turns me on"

Tbh, receiving that message would utterly creep me out, specially it it was from someone random I'd never spoken to before

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By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Barman from our local recognised us, said hello on here and we are friends on here but never discuss it in the pub x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Good luck to anyone recognising us out and about. Good luck with guessing where we live too. If we've previously met in a club we're happy to say hello and have a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one very strong reason that I will never show my face publicly on here. I would absolutely hate to be approached like that.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

"Oh I would hate to be approached, you never know who is listening around you"

It’s only a sex site

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion.

I would have agreed with you, but she was so lovely in how she approached me.

Kelly x"

Would it have been different if it had been a guy?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"We got recognised but from someone off social media they messaged us here to say they knew is but where from?? Then gave my name, it freaked me out, I wasn't impressed at all.

Mrs

I had the opposite - organised a drinks social and a guy took my name from PayPal and then Facebook stalked me. Then told me he'd done it like it was a good thing! Glad my Facebook account is locked

Why did he have your PayPal?"

I needed to pay a deposit for the bar so everyone paid £5 which they got back as a drink on arrival

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"I had the opposite - organised a drinks social and a guy took my name from PayPal and then Facebook stalked me. Then told me he'd done it like it was a good thing! Glad my Facebook account is locked

Unfortunately, some people don't realise the power of the internet, and will use some of the same photos on here as on their social media accounts...

....it may only take a few seconds of reverse image searching for real identities to be discovered...

Yup!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We picked up a (not going to say stalker) as not that bad but had a man bombard our WhatsApp after we tried to arrange a meet He pulled out but continued to send messages and pictures.

We change phone numbers she still refused to have WhatsApp on her phone and I have to do all the fab stuff on mine.

Keep a healthy distance!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"We picked up a (not going to say stalker) as not that bad but had a man bombard our WhatsApp after we tried to arrange a meet He pulled out but continued to send messages and pictures.

We change phone numbers she still refused to have WhatsApp on her phone and I have to do all the fab stuff on mine.

Keep a healthy distance!"

We always had a cheap pay as you go phone as the “play” phone

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"We picked up a (not going to say stalker) as not that bad but had a man bombard our WhatsApp after we tried to arrange a meet He pulled out but continued to send messages and pictures.

We change phone numbers she still refused to have WhatsApp on her phone and I have to do all the fab stuff on mine.

Keep a healthy distance!

We always had a cheap pay as you go phone as the “play” phone "

Clubs only for us now and no people in our local area.

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west

It wouldnt bother me being approached, has never happened but i think it could be quite a funny situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at club two weeks ago and whilst we were standing at the bar having a drink, in walked our neighbour with his girlfriend and another couple

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Had a work colleague walk up and shake my hand whilst I was entertaining Dee on the swing in Chams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my neighbour ladies down the street recognised me and we chatted on here but nothing out of the daily chat when we cross paths on the street

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

I saw the wife of a couple id met on the checkout at a local shop, neither of us said anything apart from the normal "morning"

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

There's a guy works down my chip shop, looks like Elvis but could just be my suspicious mind

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Happened to Ex a few times kids picked up from school lol Husbands with their wives so no exchange of hello or anything. Awkward yes lol

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Wouldn't really bother me if im honest...

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

"Wouldn't really bother me if im honest...

We don’t really get why most in this thread are so upset about someone saying hello.

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

No issue with a passing hello but we had a couple that literally lived doors away from us and kids at same school and because we wouldn't meet for a social it got pretty awkward xx

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Not yet but we've certainly seen people on here that we recognize. We'd love it if they said hi

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The village where I live is very small and a few miles from anywhere else. There is a couple on here only 1/4 of a mile away from me. I'm 99% sure from their pics I know who it is but I would never mention it to them on here or in public.

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Yes at our local, the guy was an arrogant dick tho

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

Absolutely this

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x"

You were approached. By a woman.though. would you have been OK if it had been a man who approached you who was just as nice?

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By *ershingMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Ive recognised a fellow fabber in the local Tesco!

We just nodded and carried on.

They messaged later to say hi, and it would have been rude not to take them up on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised people in the street, but never approach them, even if I've chatted to them, or in some cases if I've met them!! It's just not the done thing as far as I'm concerned!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Got a message from someone saying they recognised us at a Jimmy Carr show and even told us what seats we were sat in.

Doesn’t bother us but is funny when you consider if you’re open visibly about who you are, you’ll definitely have a chance of being recognised out and about.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I saw a female at a mutual friend's wedding and worked it out from the tattoo on the back of her neck. Didn't say anything then or since as I've seen her a few times in get togethers through the mutual friend after the wedding. I wouldn't mind it myself if I was spotted and approached as long as it was discreet but I opt for respecting people's privacy as they may not share the same view. Better safe than sorry I guess!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x"

We wouldn't dream of approaching someone we recognised. And if someone approached us, we'd be put off since they appear to have no discretion...

Mrs

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By *el13ABCMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I recognised a friend by her tattoo never said a word until she messaged me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather they didn't. I feel it would be a real dick move tbh

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Been recognised by a couple that lives near me who made it completely obvious that they recognised me, don't think they realise I seen them though also been single blokes from near my way that have recognised me, easier when people just let you go about your life rather than try wave at you like they know you or point and talk after you've passed them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yehhh someone I spent a short while chatting to walked past me in Asda. I didnt say anything but sent a msg to him..

Apparently I should have said hi

I'd freak is someone approached me like that... Unless there's a mutual sign that its okay from both sides.

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

"Just been stopped in Tesco by someone of FABs, they were very nice and it wasn’t awkward in anyway which surprised me. Has anyone else been recognised and was it awkward?

Kelly x

Sorry but that’s a big fab etiquette no-no in my book. Yes you might recognise me but approaching me in public shows that you have no discretion. "

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where’s Wes isn’t a game and if you spot me I won’t be handing out medals

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We regularly bump into a work colleague at local clubs, we don't acknowledge it at the club or at any other time.

What happens on fab/meets/clubs stays there for us, for us it's about fun and escapism, totally separate to real life x

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

I'm sure that I've been recognised but no one has ever mentioned it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1 guy got indiscreet in Tescos once, with me. Unless something like this is agreed in advance, then it's wise to as good as ignore people.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We had a message from somebody who had recognised M is Tesco’s.

He was very nice and not at all creepy which made the experience a pleasant one.

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By *engobeggsMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Have seen a few out and about locally discretion is the key it’s another world in here

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

warrington

I spotted a local lady from a fab couple put while shopping but I wouldn't ever approach and say hi, I wouldn't even message on here to say I had recognised them either as that would sound even more creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One really local man off here recognised my wife from our local shop , asked me for her used panties ! Via message lol

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

our neighbour

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

Ashtead

My dog walkers friend was on here. We chatted through the site. Don’t know if she recognised me haha

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

Loads of times. Never felt awkward. Its like a secret club for those in the know, you dont say anything but give a knowing smile.

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

"Loads of times. Never felt awkward. Its like a secret club for those in the know, you dont say anything but give a knowing smile. "

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