FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla vs kink

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm personally into kink and Dom sub but what do most look for on fab? More vanilla at first before opening up?

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd be on a different site if I was looking for kink

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

One persons kink is another persons vanilla.

For folk not into swinging then everyone on this site is kinky.

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By *ichaelknightMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

It's all along the same spectrum

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Discovering what you bring out in eachother

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Anyone claiming to be dom on fab gets a laugh and probably a block from me.

There's enough wannabe morons in the places that cater to that for me to worry about those seeking it here.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

I don't particularly look for subs but they do bring out the demon inside so I try to avoid them as much as I can. XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that I am neither Vanilla OR Kinky.

I just enjoy a good happy sex life, with the person/s that I am with at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I wasn't looking for a certain type of meet to be Vanilla or kink from the get go ,more just looking to meet and see where it gos,I'd be up for trying new kinks if it was something I felt comfortable with to though.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’re just weird, but we play to the tune of the third party, mostly to try something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally looking for something a bit different but enjoy trying new things x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I prefer vanilla, with a flake please.

No crushed nuts

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM."

What she said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly vanilla, but sometimes go off-piste when the situation is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM."

This does make the most sense as the dom sub can only happen if you are comfortable. It's quite funny how so many "doms" don't actually know its a woman's choice to submit and litterally just think it's rough stuff but hey ho we move as best we can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk!'no action.

Most time energy is spent window shopping,brainstorming

Than the actual act.

Its the chase and game,most minds need!!

Lol

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Definitely vanilla here! kink and dom/sub scenarios are the biggest turnoff for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say vanilla with a twist of something when the right person or mood comes along

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

one mans kink is another mans vanilla

id also say the fact that we are on a swingers site looking for fun would suggest no one is vanilla as such as swinging to the normal person would be kinky in its self

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

Presumably, if you're on this site then you're a swinger. I think most would consider that a kink.

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

I don't know what constitutes kink or vanilla, is oral a kink? To some it will be. Same for rimming or anal, normal sexual behaviour is very subjective.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I just like sex.

*shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we have to be one or the other?

Very much a middle man here

Miss S x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I just like sex.

*shrug*"

Agree sex it's the best.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

N and I have a D/s dynamic that we don’t enact when we’re swinging. Consent gets shady and negotiation is very tough. We’ve found that swinging and the reconsenting at each stage as things escalate can be a big turnoff for vanilla swingers as well. We’re open about what we’re into, and if people want to explore stuff with us, we check experience and comfort levels first.

That said, beyond foot stuff we’ve not found anyone on here that wants to do kink stuff and it’s perfectly fine with us. This site is amazing for swing. There are far better sites for kink.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've always been more on the vanilla side I think.. not into dom or sub thing so compared to many profiles I see here I always considered myself rather tame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both mixed as a cocktail.

"Bruce said , be formless "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say I wasn't looking for a certain type of meet to be Vanilla or kink from the get go ,more just looking to meet and see where it gos,I'd be up for trying new kinks if it was something I felt comfortable with to though.

This is exactly the same wavelength that we are on

Mrs

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