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By *igboobies42 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut - sounds dodgy to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol do what we do, ask where the other half is and dont chat etc untill you get the other half on cam or message. We have had loads of fakers, some are easy to spot others are quite clever but always stick to your guns, dont let the yeah shes asleep or away on business but i have permission bull****. Many of us are genuine but many cpls profiles are men without the wives permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS nice pics by the way. My missis would love us to play with you... Happy hunting x

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By *igboobies42 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Thank you. It was what I was thinking but just wanted to make sure I wasn't being paranoid lol. Gut instinct is definitely the way forward. Cheers.

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By *igboobies42 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"PS nice pics by the way. My missis would love us to play with you... Happy hunting x"

Thank you x

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By *acdoodleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"

What you've described is "a dodgy one" that's how you spot them. If it feels dodge. Then it probley is. Always go with gut and be safe your gorgeous by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"

same with me too, only the man wants to meet me, nearly all the time.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

just ask for a fem to fem call to make sure his mrs is happy with him playing alone , it will sort out the fakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just ask for a fem to fem call to make sure his mrs is happy with him playing alone , it will sort out the fakers "

That's how we out fakes x

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By *igboobies42 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

That's a good idea. Bet they run a mile when it's suggested.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know it happens but I don't see the point of a single guy pretending to be a couple because obviously if someone was looking for a couple, they wouldn't ever meet without the above sort of phone call with the lady verification. Timewasting again! The bane of all genuine swingers.

OP: I bet there's loads of couples out there for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just you, it's the reason I changed my profile. If I want to meet with a couple then I message them,

I would want a phone chat with the fem, even then, as I find my single men, a different way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not surprised with boobs like those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just ask for a fem to fem call to make sure his mrs is happy with him playing alone , it will sort out the fakers

That's how we out fakes x"

Same here

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"

Probably single guy pretending to be a couple, hard to believe we know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You soon get the hang of working out the fakes from the genuine believe me! It doesn't take long x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves your pics she will defenatly love to play with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very dodgy , ignore

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"

I would guess that is really single men pretending to be a couple. Hence wanting to meet alone, saying wife not into you etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got dodgy written all over it.

Anyone on here who is 100% wouldn't meet like that .

Your a single lady so there will be plenty of great men an women and couples on here who will want to meet.

As others have said if your not got that feeling in the pit of your tummy that its real then it's more than likely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it sounds iffy or too good to be true... it usually is

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ALWAYS insist on a fem to fem call first. It s out the males posing as couples. Be wary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk to many couples, only because they're not on my looking to meet list but it does sound dodgy! Don't get disheartened though there are plenty genuine ones, especially on the forums, so welcome x

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By *oyemunsonMan
over a year ago

newbury

See I must be to nice, at no point did it occur to me to set up a fake account to try and get some action!

Some people are very strange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say to them that I only meet both from a couple profile and if he wants to play alone he should have a single male profile to use and join the ranks of all the other single males then XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does being a BBW matter?

to me no.

but i would exercise caution here.

you have said the mail is being deleted and that tells me he doesnt want the other half to see what he is up to.

does she even exist? are any pics really her?

personally when i arrange to meet a couple i have at the very least spoken to both of them on the same phone call.

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"That's a good idea. Bet they run a mile when it's suggested. "

Well at least you would have your confirmation of your gut feeling then

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By *igboobies42 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Thanks for all your comments and will definitely take your advice. I love the forums I've learnt so much already x

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