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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. " Well he sounds delightful!! Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting. As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves. | |||
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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. Well he sounds delightful!! Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting. As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves. " This | |||
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"Numerous things. Where there’s no effort of conversation, when people type in text speak. Dirty talk, the list is pretty endless! Call me old fashioned but I like a conversation Mrs" Then I'm old fashioned too | |||
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"Numerous things. Where there’s no effort of conversation, when people type in text speak. Dirty talk, the list is pretty endless! Call me old fashioned but I like a conversation Mrs Then I'm old fashioned too " In that case we are also old fashioned! We much prefer actual conversation too Mrs | |||
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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. " "I like you" Total passion killer. Because the fact that you're attracted to me, and the mess that I am, is a major red flag | |||
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"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee Don’t like seeing it on profiles either. " If they end message he,he,he,I usually reply "I'm the laughing Gnome & you can't catch me... Got to be a certain age to understand this one... | |||
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"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee Don’t like seeing it on profiles either. " When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers. | |||
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" If they end message he,he,he,I usually reply "I'm the laughing Gnome & you can't catch me... Got to be a certain age to understand this one... " | |||
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" When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers. " How did I forget that one?! | |||
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"Panties" Yes, this. Also calling my arse a 'pussy' and yes, the word 'hey'. | |||
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"Panties" Don’t wear any then. | |||
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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. Well he sounds delightful!! Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting. As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves. " This does my head in, although it's a handy filter for people that clearly aren't interested I guess! | |||
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"Short sharp answers that just kill the conversation dead in its tracks. " Really?! | |||
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"Someone once asked me to fuck their “back passage” " Sorry but I’m cackling at this | |||
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"Spunk I hate that word so much, it's odd, it seems oddly childish to me and just all round gives me the ick. " I second this… I know the word "cum" isn’t exactly special but it’s better than spunk lol. | |||
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"Someone once asked me to fuck their “back passage” Sorry but I’m cackling at this " I can laugh about it now, at the time it put me right off! Lol | |||
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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. " Not that I condone what he said by any means. But I always try give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he just made an observation and articulated it, given not in the most PC way. We all have preferences. | |||
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"I dislike when men start an opening line with :"Hey, babe" or " Hey,sweetie" or "What's up, doll"...I want to throw up on my mobile screen at that moment. Hate men calling me pet names. It's not respectful at all. " This. Plus the words moist and panties. | |||
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"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?” What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it? One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing. Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. " I had the perfect fuck buddy, older, sexy, dressed and smelt AMAZING and was a demon in bed, we met through a chat on kik and on here, but she used to slag the other woman in group off for being bigger, put me right off her, stopped seeing her through it. No need for it, beauty comes in all shapes n sizes. | |||
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"Hate any form of sex chat after a few messages. Having a nice chat with a guy just this evening and suddenly the chat turned to how he was wanking to are videos! Just stopped replying immediately " We were about two messages into a polite conversation with a guy who seemed decent, then suddenly we get a dick pic out of nowhere...I asked him why he thought it was acceptable, and his reply was - well you've got kind of dick pics on your profile already, so I thought it would be ok...! | |||
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"Mmmmm. Fanny. The assumption that because I'm bored enough to reply I'm also bored enough to jump on a random penis." OMG - the 'mmmmmm'is so cringeworthy! Instant block lol Mrs | |||
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"Hate being called ‘trouble’ on the first message. “Hey trouble how are you?” “You look like trouble!” Usually from younger men. Dude I’m a 40 year old woman" I hate this one too, with passion. Makes me physically ill. | |||
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"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee Don’t like seeing it on profiles either. When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers. " This is the one that turns my stomach too. Why on earth does anyone think that 'Mmmmmm' is a normal thing to say to another person. It's like you are just leering at them. Gross | |||
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"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before. Cringe. " We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever Mrs | |||
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"Anything that says LOL in it, be is messages, profiles, statuses. Just got fucked up the bum, lol. *Shivers* " | |||
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"Whilst fucking, someone called me a “good girl”!!! Wtf? I’m nobodies fucking good girl! A slut? Sure! But “good girl”? Fuck right off!" I'm with you here - I'm a good little slut, but definitely not a good girl lol Mrs | |||
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"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before. Cringe. We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever Mrs " Hahaha huge difference between confidence and arrogance he clearly doesn't get this | |||
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"Whilst fucking, someone called me a “good girl”!!! Wtf? I’m nobodies fucking good girl! A slut? Sure! But “good girl”? Fuck right off!" Not a Robin Thicke fan then? | |||
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"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee Don’t like seeing it on profiles either. When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers. " Had a guy message once he put mmm after every word | |||
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"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before. Cringe. We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever Mrs " May have been the same guy who messaged us "next time you're in Xtasia I'll bang you real good" | |||
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"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before. Cringe. We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever Mrs Hahaha huge difference between confidence and arrogance he clearly doesn't get this " It was quite comical in the end, Mr said I should keep replying to wind him up a bit, but I just blocked him instead lol Mrs | |||
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"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before. Cringe. We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever Mrs May have been the same guy who messaged us "next time you're in Xtasia I'll bang you real good" " I reckon these guys have just watched too many shit porn films lol Mrs | |||
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"Typing with an accent They do it in Scots chat room often It’s childish " As a Scottish person I agree with you, definitely childish and lazy. Mrs | |||
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"Being asked to let them “skull fuck” me " First time I’ve heard that | |||
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""I don't bite unless you ask" " Oooo yes I forgot this one | |||
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""I don't bite unless you ask" " This!!! It makes me cringe so bad x | |||
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"Short sharp answers that just kill the conversation dead in its tracks. " This - I’m aware as a single male that I need to do more in initial messages but it’s very dispiriting crafting a message for 5-10mins to get one word answers back. Try to remind myself some see their inbox as just texts messages but still… | |||
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