FabSwingers.com forum: What little word of phrase is a turn off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. "

Well he sounds delightful!!

Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting.

As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves.

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset

I know everyone is different but I really get turned off when guys use “slut” . It just creeps me out.

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By *rNice.Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

get off me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Short sharp answers that just kill the conversation dead in its tracks.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before.

Well he sounds delightful!!

Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting.

As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numerous things. Where there’s no effort of conversation, when people type in text speak. Dirty talk, the list is pretty endless! Call me old fashioned but I like a conversation

Mrs

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Can’t stand one line DMs, especially text speak. Any mention of ‘daddy’ or ‘milf’ is pretty much an instant no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numerous things. Where there’s no effort of conversation, when people type in text speak. Dirty talk, the list is pretty endless! Call me old fashioned but I like a conversation

Mrs"

Then I'm old fashioned too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a delight, sounds like you dodged a bullet there

We were chatting with a couple a few days ago on here, and the guy from the other couple referred to me as a 'plaything' to Mr. Put him straight off having any more chat as he felt that was disrespectful, and it made me feel uncomfortable. I'm sure others wouldn't be bothered but for us we decided we didn't want to keep getting to know the other couple

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numerous things. Where there’s no effort of conversation, when people type in text speak. Dirty talk, the list is pretty endless! Call me old fashioned but I like a conversation

Mrs

Then I'm old fashioned too

In that case we are also old fashioned! We much prefer actual conversation too

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. "

"I like you"

Total passion killer. Because the fact that you're attracted to me, and the mess that I am, is a major red flag

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By *oupleexeter30Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hate any form of sex chat after a few messages. Having a nice chat with a guy just this evening and suddenly the chat turned to how he was wanking to are videos! Just stopped replying immediately

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've got your back."

I hate this!

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By *enrythe8thMan
over a year ago

worthing

Do the washing up!!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee

Don’t like seeing it on profiles either.

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By *tuluMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

420 references or anything else similar.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee

Don’t like seeing it on profiles either.

If they end message he,he,he,I usually reply "I'm the laughing Gnome & you can't catch me...

Got to be a certain age to understand this one...

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By *ice_pair69Couple
over a year ago

Cambs

Anything to do with ‘squirting ‘

gross

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By *issVanillaWoman
over a year ago

"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee

Don’t like seeing it on profiles either.

When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

The one the misses absolutely hates and is why we have certain filters on is “I’ll pump that pussy full of cum” it’s knocks her sick reading it every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they end message he,he,he,I usually reply "I'm the laughing Gnome & you can't catch me...

Got to be a certain age to understand this one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers.

How did I forget that one?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spunk

I hate that word so much, it's odd, it seems oddly childish to me and just all round gives me the ick.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Panties

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Panties"

Yes, this.

Also calling my arse a 'pussy' and yes, the word 'hey'.

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By *urvy123babeWoman
over a year ago

cambridge

Some guy just messaged about my “boobies”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no particular word, but I find it really off putting when someone is too confident.

For example asking me when I’m free to meet, what’s my address, what do I enjoy etc when I’ve had absolutely zero conversation with them and I’m not attracted to them.

It’s weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that says LOL in it, be is messages, profiles, statuses.

Just got fucked up the bum, lol.

*Shivers*

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By *tuluMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"Panties"

Don’t wear any then.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Lol x"

Nothing kills an online conversation quicker...

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Breed

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Fuck

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

LADY

It's huge turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few tbh but common on here that is a turn off one liners for us;

"How's fab treating you"

"How you finding fab"

"Wanna meet"

"You free now"

"What you looking for"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just got reminded whilst commenting in forum.

"Wat u up to"! Lol

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'Nawty / norty' really makes me mouthsick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when people use the word “sh*t” to mean ‘things’. It’s partly due to it being an Americanism, partly because it’s just needlessly vulgar and grim.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before.

Well he sounds delightful!!

Anyone who talks ill of others in any way is hugely off putting.

As is someone who doesn’t actually engage in conversation by using questions, they just talk about themselves. "

This does my head in, although it's a handy filter for people that clearly aren't interested I guess!

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Someone once asked me to fuck their “back passage”

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Short sharp answers that just kill the conversation dead in its tracks.

Really?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that mentions they’re “bored”.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

No or blocked seem to cool My jets

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By *urvy123babeWoman
over a year ago

cambridge

"Someone once asked me to fuck their “back passage”

Sorry but I’m cackling at this

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

Daddy, the N word, BBC

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

"You must be inundated". No, I am not, I'm just a cow at replying.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Mmmmm.

Fanny.

The assumption that because I'm bored enough to reply I'm also bored enough to jump on a random penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spunk

I hate that word so much, it's odd, it seems oddly childish to me and just all round gives me the ick. "

I second this… I know the word "cum" isn’t exactly special but it’s better than spunk lol.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I was chatting to a man for ages, we got on really well getting ready to meet and he said I can't wait to poke your cervix with my cock!

my legs instantly welded themselves shut, and we never met!

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

"Someone once asked me to fuck their “back passage”

Sorry but I’m cackling at this

I can laugh about it now, at the time it put me right off! Lol

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By *heNatural001Man
over a year ago

London

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By *heNatural001Man
over a year ago

London

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. "

Not that I condone what he said by any means. But I always try give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he just made an observation and articulated it, given not in the most PC way. We all have preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody who ends a message with "he he", I just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hate being called ‘trouble’ on the first message. “Hey trouble how are you?” “You look like trouble!” Usually from younger men. Dude I’m a 40 year old woman

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It has to be Hun, babe or WUU2?

Instant bye!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Being called any pet name, makes me shudder especially when a lot younger than me x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or when they send an explicit message telling you what they've done with someone....!

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By *h!dannyboyMan
over a year ago

ryde

Someone called me “fit boi” the other day, it was horrific

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Anyone using the word baby to message me , especially when younger .

Also I don't bite,unless asked & wuu2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called daddy. Don't mind if that's someone's kink...but it makes me feel old!!!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Only really daddy and then not enough to put me off their only words and it's only a one-time thing can not get too upset about the situation.

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By *arahsimpsonCouple
over a year ago

london

Baby girl. Yak

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

I hate how people use the term MILf for females even if they are not mothers! I have no children and I really hate how men put me under that name just because I am in my 40's and assume I have children!!!!! Grrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike when men start an opening line with :"Hey, babe" or " Hey,sweetie" or "What's up, doll"...I want to throw up on my mobile screen at that moment. Hate men calling me pet names. It's not respectful at all.

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By *ollybirdWoman
over a year ago

east Cork

"I dislike when men start an opening line with :"Hey, babe" or " Hey,sweetie" or "What's up, doll"...I want to throw up on my mobile screen at that moment. Hate men calling me pet names. It's not respectful at all.

This. Plus the words moist and panties.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've met guys in clubs and all has been going well and they go and say something really creepy or cringy or in a terribly naff and un-ironic way. And then that's it, Mrs Misfits attraction is killed. Which may sound fickle but is what it is. And sometimes it's not what they say its how they say it.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Messages that start "Hello Mistress"

Been called a slut

Guys telling me " what they are going to do to me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not your standard first message of “hey” “u free now” “horny?”

What can someone say after you’ve got into the flow of a conversation that can instantly turn you off them? They may not even know it?

One recently for me was a guy said he really liked me because all the women in fab are fat and I wasn’t, not his thing.

Fine, we all have our tastes but putting other women down for size was a no, regardless of how well we got on before. "

I had the perfect fuck buddy, older, sexy, dressed and smelt AMAZING and was a demon in bed, we met through a chat on kik and on here, but she used to slag the other woman in group off for being bigger, put me right off her, stopped seeing her through it. No need for it, beauty comes in all shapes n sizes.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

'Hi Daddy'....

One or two word responses where I'm left struggling to make conversation. Do they want dirty conversation or polite 'getting to know you' chat. If I pick the wrong option I'm either boring or a dirty pervert!

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Being called babe, hunny, sweety or (the worst one) Daddy - immediate no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over doing the compliments, it's not genuine or attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate any form of sex chat after a few messages. Having a nice chat with a guy just this evening and suddenly the chat turned to how he was wanking to are videos! Just stopped replying immediately "

We were about two messages into a polite conversation with a guy who seemed decent, then suddenly we get a dick pic out of nowhere...I asked him why he thought it was acceptable, and his reply was - well you've got kind of dick pics on your profile already, so I thought it would be ok...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmmmm.

Fanny.

The assumption that because I'm bored enough to reply I'm also bored enough to jump on a random penis."

OMG - the 'mmmmmm'is so cringeworthy! Instant block lol

Mrs

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Do you squirt

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Hate being called ‘trouble’ on the first message. “Hey trouble how are you?” “You look like trouble!” Usually from younger men. Dude I’m a 40 year old woman"

I hate this one too, with passion.

Makes me physically ill.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Moist

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee

Don’t like seeing it on profiles either.

When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers.

This is the one that turns my stomach too. Why on earth does anyone think that 'Mmmmmm' is a normal thing to say to another person.

It's like you are just leering at them. Gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clammy…..sounds gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont tell Sarah Millican.

Personally, I find anything like Slut, Just awful.

As I class myself as bicurious, i also hate men calling me hun, babe etc... and men calling their backside their c×××. Just horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe. "

We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever

Mrs

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By *lumPuddingCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Whilst fucking, someone called me a “good girl”!!!

Wtf?

I’m nobodies fucking good girl!

A slut? Sure! But “good girl”? Fuck right off!

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"Anything that says LOL in it, be is messages, profiles, statuses.

Just got fucked up the bum, lol.

*Shivers* "

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Babe

Wuu2

Smash your back doors in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me daddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst fucking, someone called me a “good girl”!!!

Wtf?

I’m nobodies fucking good girl!

A slut? Sure! But “good girl”? Fuck right off!"

I'm with you here - I'm a good little slut, but definitely not a good girl lol

Mrs

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe.

We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever

Mrs "

Hahaha huge difference between confidence and arrogance he clearly doesn't get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typing with an accent

They do it in Scots chat room often

It’s childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst fucking, someone called me a “good girl”!!!

Wtf?

I’m nobodies fucking good girl!

A slut? Sure! But “good girl”? Fuck right off!"

Not a Robin Thicke fan then?

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By *imontemplerMan
over a year ago

Padbury

Oh that reminds me, I must get some of those picnic sausages from Aldi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds so petty but someone ending every line of their message with “haha or heehee” Or the worst….Teeheehee

Don’t like seeing it on profiles either.

When they say 'Mmmmmmm' that word gives me the shivers.

Had a guy message once he put mmm after every word

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Daddy, someone says this to me in a sexual context, don't let the door hit you on the way out.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe.

We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever

Mrs "

May have been the same guy who messaged us "next time you're in Xtasia I'll bang you real good"

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anything derogatory really. Words like slut, bitch and whore are just awful. More of a power trip for the man. Also when a guy tells you what he's going to do to me. Hello! It's a two way thing! Also the very American "I'm gonna fuck you good". That has me in stitches.

One guy once said "I'm going to make your pussy cry". Hmmmm I thought. Out of sheer despair and disappointment obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe.

We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever

Mrs

Hahaha huge difference between confidence and arrogance he clearly doesn't get this

It was quite comical in the end, Mr said I should keep replying to wind him up a bit, but I just blocked him instead lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance such as you’ve never had anyone like me before.

Cringe.

We had a guy message today to let us know that he was going to "fuck me good".....! Not today, thanks. In fact, not ever

Mrs

May have been the same guy who messaged us "next time you're in Xtasia I'll bang you real good"

I reckon these guys have just watched too many shit porn films lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typing with an accent

They do it in Scots chat room often

It’s childish "

As a Scottish person I agree with you, definitely childish and lazy.

Mrs

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Cheating behind their partners back

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By *b750Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Do you want to see my cock

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Babe/baby

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

“I liked the last season of game of thrones”

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By *iSam4funWoman
over a year ago

woking

Being asked to let them “skull fuck” me

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

"Being asked to let them “skull fuck” me "

First time I’ve heard that

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

“Show me your pussy”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't be shy"

"Bants"

"Here for a short time not a long time"

"My kids are my world"

"Work hard play harder"

Each one of these makes me drier than the sahara.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"I don't bite unless you ask"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I don't bite unless you ask"

Oooo yes I forgot this one

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By *anson44Man
over a year ago

bristol

Are people vampires ?!!

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By *ubeeStarrXoXTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

""I don't bite unless you ask"

This!!! It makes me cringe so bad x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

“Club meets only”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with ‘mmmmmm’

Makes us want to throw up

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Hate it when anyone says ' How are yous/youse/use'. Massive,instant, turn off x

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By *ndauntedMan
over a year ago

wilts

“Cheeky” when preceding Nando’s or Pint

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were having a chat in a club with a very handsome man and the conversation was going very well. Then he came out with the line "if you want a big boy later let me know". That was the end of that for both of us. If you're big then great, they're aesthetic looking. Describing yourself as big... oh dear

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

"Short sharp answers that just kill the conversation dead in its tracks.

This - I’m aware as a single male that I need to do more in initial messages but it’s very dispiriting crafting a message for 5-10mins to get one word answers back. Try to remind myself some see their inbox as just texts messages but still…

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

‘being naughty’ or worse nawty

in message or conversation…

it implies it’s wrong so the have issues about it

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I feel like this is controversial but I mean this in a very specific circumstance. But any form of “can I do this ?” At a certain point kills the vibe for me

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